Ttird various remedies for OAB at night, actually 24/7, nothing worked

Well here comes my tale of woe and woe is me!

For over 3 months now I’m awakened ever 2-2 2/2 hours every night to use the bathroom to urinate. Over and over again! Now even in a diaper, and how horrible is that?

So, here’s what as been performed by various urologists:
1-Performed TURP, minor operation to reduce size of prostate: Nope, did nothing!

2-Switched off Oxybutinin since I was told that it’s not safe for long term use:again a bid Zero did nothing.

3- Do now this urological surgeon suggests I need what is called SCN, Sacral Nerve Stimulation.
A battery pack is placed around your waist to control impulses caused by your Sacral Nerve to control your bladder.
Wow, I must tell you I’m all honesty, THIS PROCEDURE WAS THE MOST PAINFUL I HAVE EVER EXPERIENCED!!
6 needles to the base of my spine, each one hurt more than the last.
I asked the surgeon if he knew what Lidocaine was? His answer was what do you think I’m injecting you with???

Failure rate on that procedure is about 50%, do thst was a true waste! Luckily first it’s only temporary prior to cutting into you skin to bury the wires, yuck.
If you’ve even been unlocks enough to feel kidney stones, thieves like having 3 all at the same time, and boy did I scream!!!!

4-So now a new brilliant idea, inject Botox into your bladder to slow it down, BUT it does not last and you must revisit periodically for another injection!!

Well you get my point! Now I don’t know how to proceed or what further solutions even exist.
I’ll keep investigating and if there is any POSITIVE NEWS I’ll add an addendum to this post.
HORRIBLE BEING TOTALLY EXHAUSTED EVERY MORING AND FALLING ASLEEP AT A RESTAURANT TABLE!!