I'm a 73 year old man. I was never much to look at even when I was young so I don't worry about it so much now, but I can be depressed by the strength and stamina that I have lost. There's a line from a movie called Mr Skeffington that goes something like this...a woman is beautiful when she is loved. As long as someone in your life loves you, you are beautiful! Never judge yourself harsher than you would judge someone else.