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@oldkarl

@pfbacon Peggy, I do have my own system, but it takes a lot more time and is much more specific than most. I take about 15 different meds, so I have to be careful. Each time I get one filled, I make sure I know exactly how it is supposed to help me. To do that, I daily record: Mornings-- Glucose readings with insulin dosages, thyroxine tab, Methotrexate on Monday, blood pressure, temperature, protein foam on the urine, any blood in urine, weight, acetaminophen, any unusual pain, At noon record just the GL and insulin, acetaminophen and pain . Before dinner, acetaminophen PM. Bedtime: the BP readings, GL daily readings plus averages for today, last seven days, last 30 days, last 90 days. And more over the counter stuff. Most of my heart meds I take at bedtime. Works better, and will not counteract the levothyroxine or other meds. And every day I spend a few minutes or an hour adding to my internet record at https://bit.Ly/2jtypp9, available to anyone. During the time I am working on it I try to image what each med impacts, and whether or not it is helping. I gave up on gabapentin and several heart meds because they had no impact on me. And I moved meds around to make sure I was taking them properly. Anyway, it takes about an hour to 1 1/2 to get up and showered and dressed each morning, plus time to sort pills into trays each week, plus re-order meds, supplies, check appointments, etc. But I am still ahead of the game. When I was born 80 years ago, the doc told my parents I would never see my third birthday because of my muscular dystrophy, and my wife has been told several times I would not live until morning.

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@oldkarl. Wow, you are so organized! Good for you. I use those daily pill organizer even though I don't take as many pills as you do. I also set alarm and reminder on my phone. Medicine has come a long way. When my friend was born 72 years ago, the doctor told his mom "not to get too attached" because he was colicky. He was brought up in goats milk. You will prove the doctors wrong in a long time to come. Cheers to you.

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@oldkarl

@pfbacon Peggy, I do have my own system, but it takes a lot more time and is much more specific than most. I take about 15 different meds, so I have to be careful. Each time I get one filled, I make sure I know exactly how it is supposed to help me. To do that, I daily record: Mornings-- Glucose readings with insulin dosages, thyroxine tab, Methotrexate on Monday, blood pressure, temperature, protein foam on the urine, any blood in urine, weight, acetaminophen, any unusual pain, At noon record just the GL and insulin, acetaminophen and pain . Before dinner, acetaminophen PM. Bedtime: the BP readings, GL daily readings plus averages for today, last seven days, last 30 days, last 90 days. And more over the counter stuff. Most of my heart meds I take at bedtime. Works better, and will not counteract the levothyroxine or other meds. And every day I spend a few minutes or an hour adding to my internet record at https://bit.Ly/2jtypp9, available to anyone. During the time I am working on it I try to image what each med impacts, and whether or not it is helping. I gave up on gabapentin and several heart meds because they had no impact on me. And I moved meds around to make sure I was taking them properly. Anyway, it takes about an hour to 1 1/2 to get up and showered and dressed each morning, plus time to sort pills into trays each week, plus re-order meds, supplies, check appointments, etc. But I am still ahead of the game. When I was born 80 years ago, the doc told my parents I would never see my third birthday because of my muscular dystrophy, and my wife has been told several times I would not live until morning.

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Thank you for replying. I will try harder to keep records. I have started several 'systems', then got behind or misplaced the piece of paper or notebook and abandoned them. But it looks like I must try something new. And, yes, a new pharmacy as well. Thank you all for your advice. I will check back here to see if more advice comes in - I have nothing to lose by trying almost everything. Peggy

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@pfbacon

Thank you for replying. I will try harder to keep records. I have started several 'systems', then got behind or misplaced the piece of paper or notebook and abandoned them. But it looks like I must try something new. And, yes, a new pharmacy as well. Thank you all for your advice. I will check back here to see if more advice comes in - I have nothing to lose by trying almost everything. Peggy

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@pfbacon I was given the wrong medication. It was a new one, with a long name, and I didn't register what the psychiatrist was prescribing, so neither my wife nor I caught it. I took it for a month, and during that time I had an appointment with the neurologist, who saw walk through the lobby, and told his nurse, "That man has Parkinson's." That's how that medication affected me, but I didn't realize it. He tested me for Parkinson's right then, but all he could say that day was that I had the classic symptoms.

At my next appointment with the psychiatrist he asked how the medicine was going, and he said the name of it, and my wife showed him the prescription bottle and he hit the roof! He also said that it wasn't the first time it had happened with that pharmacy.

I filed a lawsuit, and the jury awarded me a pittance, mainly because I was told that I couldn't say anything about certain important things. The doctors who testified and the lawyers cancelled their fees. After I left the courtroom I was lying, curled up in a ball on a bench, crying. That may have been the reason the lawyers were so kind. I was still recovering from multiple suicide attempts at that time.

Obviously I never used that pharmacy again. Now, my doctors send e-prescriptions to the pharmacy, and that kind of messup hasn't happened again. Unless I need something right away, my scripts go to a mail order pharmacy, who have been a big help keeping me on schedule with meds. I get an email when it's time for a refill, and they deal with the doctors for me when I'm out of refills, or get fresh prescriptions every month for the meds that are controlled substances. I used to be able to get a 90 day supply, but those days are long gone.

A letter of apology from the pharmacy would have been nice, or some sort of indication that the pharmacist had made a serious mistake.

Sorry. This isn't about how I stay on top of doctors and medications. I totally depend on Evernote and my calendar.

Jim

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What is Evernote? I'm glad you survived ... Peggy

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@jimhd

@pfbacon I was given the wrong medication. It was a new one, with a long name, and I didn't register what the psychiatrist was prescribing, so neither my wife nor I caught it. I took it for a month, and during that time I had an appointment with the neurologist, who saw walk through the lobby, and told his nurse, "That man has Parkinson's." That's how that medication affected me, but I didn't realize it. He tested me for Parkinson's right then, but all he could say that day was that I had the classic symptoms.

At my next appointment with the psychiatrist he asked how the medicine was going, and he said the name of it, and my wife showed him the prescription bottle and he hit the roof! He also said that it wasn't the first time it had happened with that pharmacy.

I filed a lawsuit, and the jury awarded me a pittance, mainly because I was told that I couldn't say anything about certain important things. The doctors who testified and the lawyers cancelled their fees. After I left the courtroom I was lying, curled up in a ball on a bench, crying. That may have been the reason the lawyers were so kind. I was still recovering from multiple suicide attempts at that time.

Obviously I never used that pharmacy again. Now, my doctors send e-prescriptions to the pharmacy, and that kind of messup hasn't happened again. Unless I need something right away, my scripts go to a mail order pharmacy, who have been a big help keeping me on schedule with meds. I get an email when it's time for a refill, and they deal with the doctors for me when I'm out of refills, or get fresh prescriptions every month for the meds that are controlled substances. I used to be able to get a 90 day supply, but those days are long gone.

A letter of apology from the pharmacy would have been nice, or some sort of indication that the pharmacist had made a serious mistake.

Sorry. This isn't about how I stay on top of doctors and medications. I totally depend on Evernote and my calendar.

Jim

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@jimhd I am so sorry, angry, and sad for what you endured. I am flabbergasted. You poor dear one. Love, Lori

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@jimhd

@pfbacon I was given the wrong medication. It was a new one, with a long name, and I didn't register what the psychiatrist was prescribing, so neither my wife nor I caught it. I took it for a month, and during that time I had an appointment with the neurologist, who saw walk through the lobby, and told his nurse, "That man has Parkinson's." That's how that medication affected me, but I didn't realize it. He tested me for Parkinson's right then, but all he could say that day was that I had the classic symptoms.

At my next appointment with the psychiatrist he asked how the medicine was going, and he said the name of it, and my wife showed him the prescription bottle and he hit the roof! He also said that it wasn't the first time it had happened with that pharmacy.

I filed a lawsuit, and the jury awarded me a pittance, mainly because I was told that I couldn't say anything about certain important things. The doctors who testified and the lawyers cancelled their fees. After I left the courtroom I was lying, curled up in a ball on a bench, crying. That may have been the reason the lawyers were so kind. I was still recovering from multiple suicide attempts at that time.

Obviously I never used that pharmacy again. Now, my doctors send e-prescriptions to the pharmacy, and that kind of messup hasn't happened again. Unless I need something right away, my scripts go to a mail order pharmacy, who have been a big help keeping me on schedule with meds. I get an email when it's time for a refill, and they deal with the doctors for me when I'm out of refills, or get fresh prescriptions every month for the meds that are controlled substances. I used to be able to get a 90 day supply, but those days are long gone.

A letter of apology from the pharmacy would have been nice, or some sort of indication that the pharmacist had made a serious mistake.

Sorry. This isn't about how I stay on top of doctors and medications. I totally depend on Evernote and my calendar.

Jim

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Jim, what an ordeal, and what a weird and awful experience! One thing I didn't understand, what did you mean when you said "I was told that I couldn't say anything about certain important things". Just curious, no need to answer if it's something personal. Best, Hank

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@pfbacon

I just found out why I've been feeling more pain ... I picked up my rx for gabapentin at the usual pharmacy but it looked different - it's a large white tablet, it's usually a yellow-beige capsule. I asked the pharmacist why it looks different -- she read the labels and said that it's 600 mg, the other is 400 mg. My doctor changed my rx to 600 mg months ago and sent the rx to the pharmacy but they kept filling the old rx until it ran out without asking me or the doctor if they were supposed to discontinue the old one and start the new one right away. The old rx just ran out so they finally filled the new one -- perhaps I will feel less pain in a day or two. Do any of you have a good system for staying on top of your medications, doctors, appointments, and pharmacists? Something that's portable, easy to update, easy to read ... ? Peggy

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@pfbacon I think the idea is to watch them like a hawk. Your own awareness is what is so important. What is so scarey is the people who have no capacity for watching their own meds at all. I think it's good to have a spouse, friend...to also watch your meds, and double check that things are right. I hope your correct dose helps!! Lori

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@jesfactsmon

Jim, what an ordeal, and what a weird and awful experience! One thing I didn't understand, what did you mean when you said "I was told that I couldn't say anything about certain important things". Just curious, no need to answer if it's something personal. Best, Hank

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@jesfactsmon
By looking at your @ jes...name I understand that you like to know the facts.

I don't remember what I wasn't allowed to say. It had to do with details of the case. I think there were 3 things that the attorneys stipulated could not be said to the jury. I just can't remember what they were. At the trial it was kind of strange. I was asked only a few introductory questions, and then I spent 15 or 20 minutes explaining what happened. My neurologist had recorded what he saw, and it was played for the jury. My therapist drove to Portland, where the trial was held, and made a statement.

The prescription was an antidepressant, and I was given some other psychotropic medication, something that used to be given to people in mental institutions, to sedate the difficult patients. I can't imagine what the pharmacist was thinking, prescribing such a medication. I would think that he knew what he was giving me, and one would think that he would have warned me about the risks associated with it.

Oh well. I survived. I read the entire information paperwork for a new medication, and I usually read it for meds I've been taking for years. Plus I check online for interactions every few months.

Live and learn.

Jim

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@jimhd

@jesfactsmon
By looking at your @ jes...name I understand that you like to know the facts.

I don't remember what I wasn't allowed to say. It had to do with details of the case. I think there were 3 things that the attorneys stipulated could not be said to the jury. I just can't remember what they were. At the trial it was kind of strange. I was asked only a few introductory questions, and then I spent 15 or 20 minutes explaining what happened. My neurologist had recorded what he saw, and it was played for the jury. My therapist drove to Portland, where the trial was held, and made a statement.

The prescription was an antidepressant, and I was given some other psychotropic medication, something that used to be given to people in mental institutions, to sedate the difficult patients. I can't imagine what the pharmacist was thinking, prescribing such a medication. I would think that he knew what he was giving me, and one would think that he would have warned me about the risks associated with it.

Oh well. I survived. I read the entire information paperwork for a new medication, and I usually read it for meds I've been taking for years. Plus I check online for interactions every few months.

Live and learn.

Jim

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I'm with Lori, everyone should have another person who can double-check those medications. Unfortunately we come into this life alone and sometimes are unlucky enough not to have such a person when we need it. I hope this doesn't ever happen again to you. BTW Jim, we lived in Portland for 28 years until 2006. We met and married there but had to leave for a bunch of reasons unrelated to the location. I miss the Pacific NW and especially the Columbia Gorge where I used to love to hike. Best, Hank

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@jesfactsmon

I'm with Lori, everyone should have another person who can double-check those medications. Unfortunately we come into this life alone and sometimes are unlucky enough not to have such a person when we need it. I hope this doesn't ever happen again to you. BTW Jim, we lived in Portland for 28 years until 2006. We met and married there but had to leave for a bunch of reasons unrelated to the location. I miss the Pacific NW and especially the Columbia Gorge where I used to love to hike. Best, Hank

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@jesfactsmon When I became disabled/dysfunctional because of primarily psych issues, it was necessary for my wife to go to the never ending doctor appointments with me because I would forget what was said as soon as I left the office. And sometimes our memories conflicted.

We lived for around 17 years in Albany, Oregun ( not a typo, but a phonetic spelling for non-Oregonians), transplants from California (my wife) and New York (me and our adopted son). Our daughter is our token native Oregonian.

For ten years we lived in a village of 247, before retiring to our current home, which was as close to Bend, where there is excellent medical care, as we could afford and have some ground as a buffer between us and the rest of the world. Since then, in '04, real estate has done nothing but go more and more expensive. Since Apple and Facebook have built massive call centers in our town, and keep adding more to their complex, I'm sure that prices are a reflection of the influx of people who make better money than the local average.

One of our favorite drives is up and down to Gorge, especially in the fall. And OHSU in Portland is the place to go for advanced medical care. Unfortunately, neuropathy pain in my feet has curtailed our recreational driving, but there are some beautiful places closer to home - the John Day fossil beds and the Painted Hills, which is especially beautiful after a rain. The High Desert museum is a great place to visit south of Bend.

Time to go to the first church service since March.

Have a good day, Hank

Jim

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