Thanks so much everyone for the supportive responses. It makes a big difference to hear from you all who have travelled the same path that I am on. There are times when I am more ok with what I am dealing with and then other times I get a little frustrated that at 57 years old I am dealing with this issue. My wife tells me be glad it was caught early, that they can do something about it, that I am younger so I have a good chance to bounce back, and at least I am an excellent cook so if the ED thing doesn't resolve itself my Paella is almost as satisfying! ; )