Is it possible to go on a get-a-way? What about a long weekend in a city with friends to get pampered, massage, pedicure, dining, concert or play, etc. Maybe a change of scenery can help you reflect on whether your current lifestyle is what you want. Yard maintenance is huge. I tried to do it myself until I was attacked by bunch of yellow jackets! Ouch! Now I pay someone. I love the view in my backyard, but would be content with a small patio area with potted plants. Oh, the work you are doing is quite valuable. So you are contributing big time.