@cretialyn wow. You are dealing with more than I am. My father can mostly care for my mother. But he gets tired! And then wants me to stay with her overnight so he can get a break. I am 2 1/2 hours away. My sister and her husband cook for them almost every day and my father seems to think they are at his beck and call. As am I when he feels he needs a break. I worry about them all the time.