@wes152 In my town the senior centers (or wellness centers) have social workers that one can make an appointment with to figure out many issues. They might have resources for you. You might also check with the (your town’s) Agency on Aging. Most larger towns have these and would be happy to give you some pointers. Did the oncologist’s office have social workers that could help you? I’ll ask @loribmt to join this discussion and see what she can tell you. There must be help somewhere!!