Neobladder or Ileal Conduit, unsure

Hi -
57 year old male. Diagnosed with T1HG suspicious of being T2.
RC scheduled for 10/8 and still have unsure if I want a neobladder or Ileal Conduit?

There's no doubt that the neobladder is more appealing as it presents the opportunity to keep urine flow similar to today, no bag, and possibly fewer late term complications. However, it may not be an easy road to get there based on some of the stories I've read.

Ileal Conduit has an easier recovery, and should I need chemo, I believe it would allow me to be in better place to manage if needed immediately. I'm not deterred by having a stoma or needing a bag either.

My first concern is beating cancer and second how do I get better each day after surgery.

Seeking good and bad outcomes on both sides. Welcome any thoughts of advice from personal or family member experiences.

Thank you in advance for sharing and well wishing to all.
Best - M