Can somebody tell me why CKD stage 3a or 3b is no big deal?
The knee-jerk prescription of every healthcare provider I see is for me to "take some Ibuprofen" even though I've been doing that consistently since 1990.
Then, surprise, I get told to not take any NSAIDs at all by my PCP. I look up his reasons, and it tells me I have stage 3b chronic kidney disease. To the best of my knowledge, the stage after 3b is stage 4, and that appears to be a big deal as far as the subject of kidney disease goes.
Not according to the Nephrologist I asked to see. She thinks it's all no big deal. She thinks I need to stop having trouble forgiving 30 years of PCP's knee-jerk just telling me to take Tylenol and/or Ibuprofen for what I now know is a whole raft of things wrong with my C and L spine, and "move forward" in my life. "Move forward into what?" Was my reply. She never answered that one. She even reminded me I am 70 years old, and just how long do I plan to live from now on? I told her I have religious issues with options such as donor kidney's and blood transfusions. It's like that wasn't a real problem that I need to consider among my options for this future I am supposed to just forgive past healthcare providers who knew my kidney's were gonna get shot, but hey, it avoids me taking opioids.
I'm seriously wondering if I've got a bad kidney specialist or what? Your thoughts on this situation would be most appreciated? Thank you.
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@mnsansei Well, thank you for sharing your story! My underlying kidney disease is also an ultra rare situation with less than 50 in the world diagnosed. I guess we get to be part of a special Club, right? Should we order t-shirts LOL
I am glad that you are comfortable with your medical team and the treatment options they have offered to you. I am also on treatment for multiple myeloma, but it has been shown that it is not part of my kidney issue, thank goodness. What will your plans be going forward, how will you be monitored now? I have had proteinuria since 1986, and they always attributed it to my systemic lupus diagnosis that occurred in 1988. I don't think there was a lot of concise testing done back then, and often have wondered if that proteinuria was really the start of my MGUS and the things that have progressed since then. Ginger
I’m finding that nephrologist aren’t kidney specialist’s there just monitors till you get to the stage of dialysis! Go to a functional Dr. and a nutritionist. Which neither one is covered by insurance. The system is rigged against you!
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1 Reaction@sandyross I am curious what has led you to this conclusion? Did you have a negative situation that has turned you away from nephrologists?
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@gingerw I apologize for the delay.
I think the comment my Mayo nephrologist made at an early appt might work for our t-shirt. He called me his "one in a million patient." : )
I make separate quarterly appointments, usually within the space of a two weeks, with the "team" who are each able to communicate with each other as well as view each other's visit summaries, including lab results (which are not always in complete agreement--currently my HMO lab says my eGFR is normal while the Mayo Lab says it's low and has a different result) at both the HMO and at Mayo. I don't know if they are able to read all messages sent to me. My PCP _can_ read my HMO nephrologist's messages.
My Mayo nephrologist doesn't write prescriptions for me but instead makes recommendations that my HMO nephrologist has, I think, always concurred with. I suppose it's possible that I would have to make the 90 minute trip to Rochester to retrieve a medication otherwise.
I forgot to mention that only the Mayo nephrologist had heard of ITG when the pathologist report landed. I was impressed that my HMO doctors have revealed that they had never heard of ITG. Initially, I searched the literature for information and read the authors' conclusions as I have no experience with medical research design. As a chemist I have only meager experience with statistics. I should probably renew my search efforts now that I think more treatment is likely (soon).
This pattern was established in 2022. I occasionally ask for re-tests which are approved. I think I may be granted this privilege because, one time, the total volume of a 24 urine sample was off in the report by almost a factor of two. I had to re-do that one the next day which is too often for me. (The head of the HMO's lab and I had a conversation about the "hardship." I now put a magic marker line at the top of the liquid level and write the total volume on the container. The lab reports now agree with my volumes.) The HMO lab is willing to send a portion of the collected urine to Mayo as well as the tubes that Mayo sends to me to be filled at the HMO lab. ) I am a retired organic chemistry professor so I have taken analytical chemistry.
I tell my doctors about my educational background and assure them that if I don't understand, I will ask questions. (Not to bias or impress but to not be talked down to as I have read commonly happens to women.)
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1 Reaction@mnsansei It sounds like you and I have similar patient styles LOL Although my case is complicated with dialysis and the treatment for myeloma, my team says I represent "a very easy" situation, being medication- and treatment-compliant, asking educated questions, and bringing information to the table. My lab values from the oncology center [done onsite] can vary from the lab for dialysis, even when drawn on the same day. Difference in machines, but never enough to get more than raised eyebrows.
Over the years, with many different members on my team, you're right, being dismissed or talked down to has been a negative. But that's another topic for another time.
Ginger
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3 Reactions@amyb5 so what are we okay to take for back pain if NSAIDs, Tylenol and opioids are not recommended by docs ? What if we have osteoporosis and need calcium for bones ? And—-how do you maintain a healthy balance of foods if you have both OP and CKD (so far for me, both are mild) ?? Got to find the fine line to live well !
@nycmusic You're right, it is a fine line, and a challenge for almost all of us. What I can include on a sound lifestyle may not be practical for you. That is where the education and advocacy for ourselves comes in to action! And if our medical team suggests something that sounds counter-intuitive to what we think, at least listen to them and their argument. We have the final say-so in our care.
For me, I know that Tylenol is the only thing recommended based on Stage 5/End Stage/On dialysis. But there are times that simply doesn't work. So, Diclofenac sodium ointment is in my arsenal [Voltaren] which is indeed an NSAID. Even though it is topically applied, I am not convinced there is no absorption into my system. I take this into account. But seeing I am on dialysis for life, there is that fine line we walk to take care of ourselves.
We cannot nor should we, in my humble opinion, disparage anyone for following what may or may not work in their unique case.
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2 Reactions@gingerw thanks for your thoughtful and informative reply…i am always looking for ways to deal with back pain/spasms that won’t mess up other aspects of health, most recently getting relief from baths with Epsom salt, and gentle exercise/walks when i can… the diet dilemma is always with us, especially as we age and have multiple health issues…there’s a lot of info out there, though some not so useful…i do like finding ways to eat that are actually enjoyable ! Thanks to MayoConnect, I have the benefit of shared experience.
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1 Reaction@mrainne We all have to advocate for ourselves. Any time a doctor suggests a new medication my first question is How much does it cost, then what will it do to my kidneys. My CKD has been bouncing back and forth between 3 and 4 for about 10 years. I take 2000 mg of Tylenol every day for Arthritis. Without that I wouldn't be able to function. I have no intention of going on Dialysis. So I live one day at a time and keep as busy as I can. Nobody has ever talked to me about diet. My visits with the Nephrologist consist of her looking a the computer and saying your numbers are stable.
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Here we are a couple of years since the post you’re referring to. I’m now at eGFR 19 and on the inactive transplant list at NW Memorial in Chicago. I’m still wrestling with the anti rejection drug side effects. It could be a few years before I need a transplant and NW is a couple of hours from my house. I do know they are in the final stages of the “Tolerance Trial” started by Dr Leventhal from NW in Chicago and Drs from Stanford. The pilot phase in the 2010s showed 75-80% of kidney transplant patients could stop anti rejection drugs after a year. It is said to be complete by 2026-7. It’s basically a stem cell transplant from a live donor that matches. I was asked if I’d be interested in the trial…yes, absolutely! But my donor is getting tested in May…a long shot but possible!
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