Living with long-term bowel side effects post anal cancer treatment
I’m an anal cancer survivor (2014–2017) still struggling with severe bowel side effects years later. I’ve tried HBOT, biofeedback, and diet changes, but incontinence continues to affect my daily life and relationships. I’m looking for support, advice, or simply to connect with others who understand.
I am literally in tears. I have needed this for so long. I dealt with anal squamous cell carcinoma from 2014 to 2017. I did one round of chemotherapy, and I can’t remember how many rounds of radiation. I had the full support of my family and fantastic doctors, so I don’t have any complaints, but my life has never been the same. Until today, I had never found a place where I could ask questions (other than to my physician).
It has been 8 years since my last radiation, and I haven’t had a regular bowel movement since. It is always runny. My relationship has essentially been diminished into a roommate situation, because how can it be anything more when I basically have no control of my bowel movements? I can’t eat while I am out of the house unless I have a plan for how to get to the bathroom, and the bathroom must be available — so that rules out most public places. Going to the home of family and friends is embarrassing.
I have undergone several summers of 40 HBOT treatments, I have done two rounds of biofeedback therapy, and I have increased fiber intake. I have my regular colonoscopies done to make sure all remains clear, although the prep for the one last year felt like I was dying. But last night something that has never happened before, happened — I had a runny bowel movement in my sleep. I tried cleaning everything, but I had already moved myself to the couch to be closer to the bathroom... and now the couch is ruined. Everything else is washable, but it doesn’t matter how much I’ve cleaned it, the smell won’t go away, and I am mortified.
I frankly think my partner should find a life with someone else, someone who can provide them intimacy, who can go places with them, who can lead a normal life. It really is exhausting, and today I finally searched high and low until I found this group. And here I am, venting.
I don’t know what help I need. I don’t know what else to do. I have read about SNS but I am afraid of doing something that may interfere with future HBOT or MRIs.
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I'm sorry to hear about your challenges, and I can surely relate. I was treated for SAC (T2, NO, MO). Although it was early-ish stage, I was told by the care team that I had to undergo the NIGRO protocol of chemoradiation regardless.
Like you, I had a change in my bowel function thereafter, but nothing quite as severe as you describe. Recently, about one year ago, I started experiencing fecal incontinence, which I had not experienced (at least not severely) in the 17 years post-treatment. My quality of life has similarly taken a nosedive. My colorectal surgeon explained that this can start happening even decades after treatment.
I am scheduled to undergo an Anal Manometry test to evaluate my sphincter function and pelvic floor strength. We'll see what that entails. My doctor mentioned I may be a candidate for a sacral nerve stimulator device––sort of like a pacemaker for the sphincter muscles. He says for many patients like us it's a game changer.
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2 ReactionsHello @orend5 and welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. I see that you have undergone the NIGRO protocol. I understand that this is a pre-surgery treatment. Have you had surgery, or is it planned for the future?
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2 Reactions@hopeful33250 Hi there. The protocol I underwent was not pre-surgery. As I mentioned above, my cancer was fairly early stage, with no lymp node or metastatic involvement. I did have surgery to excise the T2 tumor prior to the chemoradiation.
I suppose it depends on the staging and extent of the tumor whether NIGRO is followed pre- or post-surgery. My treatment was 18 years ago, so perhaps there have been changes to the protocol?
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As your treatment was 18 years ago, it appears that you have not had a recurrence. Is my understanding correct? I would be interested in hearing more about the sacral nerve stimulator device. Will that be something you will consider after the Anal Manometry test?
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1 Reaction@hopeful33250 That is correct, I have not had a recurrence. I consider myself lucky in that regard. I completed the Anal Manometry, and the results were essentially: Low resting sphincter pressure with normal squeeze pressure, so both bad and good results, if you will.
I've yet to have a follow up with my colorectal surgeon regarding the results, but based on what I learned during my recent visit, I'll probably try biofeedback and pelvic floor therapy before moving on to the device; though we'll see what's recommended in my case based on my results. Maybe the bad "resting" pressure results will sway toward going straight to the sacral nerve stimulator. We'll see.
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I'll be interested in what you learn about that. I understand that certain protocols have to be followed before one of these sophisticated items can be implanted. I have had a problem with urinary incontinence due to a neurological condition and was considering a similar pacemaker device, but first I had to try pelvic floor therapy, then two types of medications, then I had the opportunity to try PTNS (here is a link with information about PTNS: https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/locations/bloomer/services-and-treatments/urology/percutaneous-tibial-nerve-stimulation)
I found that so helpful that I didn't have to move on to the implanted device. I have added a monthly acupuncture treatment, and it has all worked well for me.
I hope you get the help you need.
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3 ReactionsHello! I just joined this site and read your posts with tears in my eyes. I too had squamous cell carcinoma anal cancer and underwent aggressive radiation and concurrent chemotherapy in 2020. My life has significantly changed since treatment and my quality of life has deteriorated to the point that I was literally isolating, unable to attend social gatherings for fear I would not be able to make it to a restroom in time. After 30+ years as a family law paralegal as well as a church organist, I am no longer able to work, whether in office or remotely, nor had I felt able to sit on the organ bench for that long, or move around as needed to play the foot pedals without a potential accident. I have tried prescription medication as well as OTC pills for diarrhea without much luck despite adjusting my diet significantly and doing everything in my power to improve the situation. I too have become depressed and discouraged. I previously lived a very active life, hiking, swimming, kayaking and traveling as well as attending many family functions and gathering with friends. I have cancelled more times that not after making plans with family and friends, which has frustrated all those I've cancelled on, especially those I've cancelled on multiple times. I recently requested a referral for a consult with a gastro to discuss a potential colostomy (something I refused to consider for the past 5 years), but am to the point that I want my quality of life to improve. I feel so much empathy for you and am sorry you are going through all of this as well. I truly hope that since you posted in 2025, you have found some relief and/or improvement? Had I known this would affect the rest of my life, I may have declined the radiation and chemo and looked at alternative options, if there were any. This is absolutely TMI, (and I type this realizing that I am sharing more than I have in 5 years, as most people have trouble comprehending the issues), and I apologize for that, but in addition to the above, my vagina is fused shut and my bladder is fused to something else, which, has kept me from pursuing any type of dating and/or potential relationship as I feel that no one would be interested in working around any of these issues nor would I feel comfortable asking them to. I keep hoping things will improve with diet changes and medication changes, but the issues continue to be debilitating. My bed is literally 5 steps from the toilet and there have been so many days in the last 5 years when I have been unable to make it in time. It is embarrassing, extremely frustrating, discouraging and just takes the life out of you. Should I find some solution or help to our issues, I will be sure to share. Please stay strong and do what you can to live your life to the fullest each and every day!
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2 Reactions@b2beatacancer
Bag it pronto. The benefits to mobility far outweigh the downsides. I speak from 17 years experience.
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1 Reaction@gavid I loved your response about how fascinating the post radiation colon is as it heals or adapts to damage. Managing the changes can be a struggle and self-esteem certainly takes a big hit. Lomotil works super well along with Metamucil to slow things down and make (for me) at least a few days a week worry free for travel and outings. I keep a record of food, medication, exercise and “results”. The scientific approach gives me a sense of control and makes my anal cancer experience more interesting and less of a pain in the ass!
@b2beatacancer I'm so sorry to hear this is happening to you. I was having similar problems with accidents and having to cancel social gatherings. Some of this was due to damage from treatment and some of this was from recurrence. I just got my colostomy, it's something I never wanted, but honestly if it improves your quality of life it's a big change but worth it. I'm still new and still healing but once you get the hang of it there are ways to be discreet about having it. I would definitely think about it and look into that option. It's nothing anyone wants, but it's honestly better than being trapped in your own body and giving up the things you love.