Wow, that is some diagnosis. I'm so sorry you and your husband are going through this horrible disease. That is certainly a very serious issue and your decisions to treat or not are nearly an impossible choice. But it IS one that your husband has to make but not hastily. You need to support him no matter what he chooses to do. I was recenlty diagnosed with NSCLC stage 4that has spread to the bone and brain. I am undergoing treatment. I've only had one so far and the side effects were not too bad for me, thank God.

I wish you both the best of luck, some closure and some peace.