driver's license
lilyann here,
well, thought i was aging well until a notice came in the mail its time to renew my license. almost 83 with macular degeneration with wavy lines and right eye leaking. so kinda nervous whether i would pass the eye exam or not. contacted the eye dr. who just seen me and he said i would being my numbers what they were when i was last there. just make sure i wear my glasses and "blink" often. thing is: i haven't driven a car in years......., i have vertigo, degenerative disks in my neck, hard to turn as well as the 2 surgeries to remove my thyroid gland. so i ask everyone should i get them or forget about it. my cousin in ariz. says to get them for identification. well, i already have my funeral plans set up and all. so its like i doubt i will be here for another 8 years and to pay $38. hmmm, so let me know what all of you think. i don't even feel like going to the dr. or grocery store. can't wear a hat for my balding head and of course i will have to take off my mask which is hiding my missing teeth. so again, what do you say. go for it or forget about it. take care everyone.
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hi marilyn, lilyann here, so glad to hear from you.
what a story. that is terrible how you were treated. you are truly blessed indeed. so glad you had a friend with you. i did go today and i got my license as i found out it cost just the same amount as a state ID card. i was going to wait till next month. oh well, now, i will sleep better and love all the people that have responded to me about my plight of worry. i can't believe it.......we were suppose to do something else and got all dressed to go and then something cancelled that out so hubby said well, lets go pay the house taxes and truck taxes and get your license. i'm so grateful to hear from you. stay strong and blessed.
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lilyann here, i had a person like that at the lab. so i do hope she will be trained in how to treat people, no matter the age. i don't buy green bananas either. lol
@gloaming lilyann here, i did go today. did pass and i have no intention of driving. thing is, i researched how much an ID cost and it was the same price, so i thought.........well, just give it a try and if not......really nothing lossed. i do know my limits and i wouldn't want to hurt anyone out there on the road. i am so happy to hear what everyone has to say and been so helpful and kind and funny. laughter is the best medicine. take care and God bless everyone.
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lilyann here, what a fantastic story, thank you for sharing it. wow, time flys for sure. wishing you the best.
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1 Reaction@gloaming lilyann here, your dad sounds like he was a strong man with determination. i think all of us have those senior moments. i thank you for sharing your story and helping me reach a solution to my worriesome problem. i did go and pass today and was happy to get it over with instead of waiting till closer till my b/d in dec. that was part of the worriment to be denied and then that would even be more pressing. like not passing a test in school. i just felt some kind of power this morning however, i was still not planning on going today, but ended up paying some important bills at the courthouse......so...just did it and maybe i will rest better tonight. stay strong and blessed.
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lilyann here, thank you and i agree. i promise you i won't be driving but i did pass the test. i do know my limits. thank you for your reply. stay strong and blessed
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I totally agree about the state ID. As far as the picture goes you don’t have to smile or show your teeth. I will be 82 Nov 11, I live in Texas and just got my new drivers license two days ago. I’m still laughing because no one knows the day nor the hour! Enjoy every minute you have, God bless you!!!
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1 Reaction@captboat Thanks for the response--I got a big smile from it (no teeth showing!).
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2 Reactions@thisismarilynb I don’t understand the part about not buying green bananas …
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