This act of kindness really impacted me.

Last night I put the left-over spaghetti sauce in a container and H was to put it in the refrigerator. This afternoon I am looking all over the refrig. for it, can't find it. Finally located it in the microwave. Instead of putting the container in the refrigerator he put it in the microwave! Doesn't have a clue how it got there because he put it in the refrigerator. Told me I must have moved it there.

Same thing with the thermostat last night. It has been getting cool, and we put the heat on in the evening and he turns it down before going to bed (I've been told that is HIS job). This morning he asks me why I turned the thermostat up in the night, that it was too hot. I didn't do anything, but in his mind it must have been me. And so it goes. I don't bother arguing with him about what happened, just let it go, but I did note it down for the Doc.

Please bear with me when I mention his daughter - as I told my PCP, she scares the begesus out of me.