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@celia16
There is only so much a lawyer can do if he changes his will. And all that would take is for the one daughter to catch him at the right time and sweet talk him.

Keep in mind that we are talking about adult children that, when their Mother passes, didn't want to come up with the funds to bury her! The oldest daughter didn't have enough funds so H and I picked up the tab to bury his exwife. While we were taking care of that (from out of state) the middle daughter was on a plane down to FL to check out what the Mother may have had of any value (jewelry, knicknacks, etc) that she could sell.

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@kartwk , in most states, you can’t disinherit a spouse. But, before it gets to the point of inheritance, the decisions about finances and assets might best be in the hands of your duly appointed agent. Hope they are on notice to step in if you need help.

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Im sorry. We have no children but reading this sounds like a shit show and some of these things like burial fund happened in my family too, nobody wanted to pay for a relative so my parents did but the wealthy ones in the family all had excuses