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How do you deal with a spouse who refuses to do therapy?

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Hi @strokesurvivordynamo - I really like your concept of recovery being a journey and not a destination. I'm currently seeing the "destination" mindset being harmful to a family member who recently had orthopedic surgery.

Wondering how you are doing lately?

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@lisalucier I'm almost 10-years into this brain injury journey and 80% recovered. I feel fortunate for every day I'm here. Failing to hit that "recovered" goal post is tough. It took me 5-years to realize that recovery after a brain injury is a journey and NOT a destination. My deficits are invisible and mostly cognitive - executive function, brain processing speed, central auditory processing difficulties, and when I'm tired my balance takes a hit and my post trauma vision syndrome symptoms flare.

Now, from an ortho surgery perspective, because I'm about to embark on one - I'm expecting a recovery goal post. So I do think it's different. Most ortho surgeries do have expected dates and milestones to hit. Brain injuries don't fall in that category because every stroke is like a snowflake and no two are the same.