I want to add here that the only relative around us is his daughter. She wanted us to move here so she could "help us out in our old age". She lives 5 miles away and he hasn't seen her in 6 months. The only time she showed up in a timely manner was about a year ago when H had a heart attack scare and they kept him in hospital for a few days. She showed up, when I wasn't there, with a WILL for him to sign so that he could sign everything over to her and she would take care of him. She was going to have two of the nurses witness it!

That felt good to spill the full truth. Usually when I talk about that I say that she was talking to him about his will because I didn't want to say and face just what she was up to. So since she didn't get what she wants she have little, if anything to do with H or me, and that includes Christmas, Thanksgiving etc. She didn't even bother to call or send a card to him for Fathers Day.

My Doctor is aware of her behavior and has told me that if she starts up on him and me again about the will or giving her things, etc. to let him know immediately. I told him about it last August.