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Anyone ever request a new oncologist mid-treatment?

Posted by korinja @korinja, May 17 2:59pm

My oncologist was awesome and without a doubt saved my life by getting me into treatment very early after my diagnosis. In the months following, there has been a breakdown in communication, to the point that I feel completely uncomfortable asking any questions related to my illness or treatment. I have also only seen this person one time (all other communication is through the portal, a few phone calls early on, and now just theough the nurse), at my initial consultation. I have no question as to the quality of medical decision-making and treatment I am receiving. I just dread the idea of interacting with this individual to the point that the mere idea makes me need an anxiety med and I need a proxy to communicate on my behalf. I’m at a pause in my chemo pending surgery and wouldn’t have chemo again for 2-3 months, so it seems like this might be a good point in my treatment to request a change. Everyone I’ve asked (non-cancer patients) thinks I’m crazy to even consider it. Thoughts?

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pigglywiggly9 | @pigglywiggly9 | Jun 2 12:42pm
In reply to @cookercooker "You might want your oncologist to elaborate on your diagnosis and survival time. I am attaching..." + (show)
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You might want your oncologist to elaborate on your diagnosis and survival time. I am attaching a link to clear cell endometrial cancer that provides a technical description of the disease. It may give you information to form questions for your doctor. Failing that, you could seek out an oncologist who is willing to clarify your prognosis and treatment alternatives.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6152831/
All the best

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NIH articles, while excellent, stand cautious and astute and note date of publication. 2018 is 7 years ago! This equates to sample size and results dating back very far from data collation. Put credence in recent publications.

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carol1024 | @carol1024 | Jun 2 2:29pm
In reply to @naturegirl5 "@carol1024 This is good news on your CA125 numbers. I hope your lab work continues to..." + (show)
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@carol1024 This is good news on your CA125 numbers. I hope your lab work continues to show improvement.

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CT scan results today showed several lymph nodes have been resolved with the treatments. Praise the Lord.

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korinja | @korinja | Jun 2 6:31pm
In reply to @hort37b460 "Hi Korinja, thank you for your response. No, it’s not the Mayo Clinic. I always think..." + (show)
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Hi Korinja, thank you for your response.
No, it’s not the Mayo Clinic. I always think of the Mayo Clinic with the highest regard and appreciation and I’m grateful for all of the good they do.
It was Kaiser. The doctors at the cancer center were wonderful, helpful and kind. The bad treatment I got was at another one of their facilities.

I always have trouble when I don’t listen to my own instincts.

By the way, my diagnosis is Clear Cell Carcinoma, stage two.
They thought it was polyps but it was an “extremely large tumor”. Also they have not come up with a cure for clear cell carcinoma … they told me I have four years to live and that it is rare, aggressive, and will return multiple times.
The bad side effects were too much for me to bear. I am 75 years old.
Pain management is another unlucky subject.

All the best, Daisy

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Hi Daisy,

I’m so glad that you got out of that hospital’s care and into Mayo. I am sending you positive thoughts and healing energy as you fight this awful disease. < 3

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Daisy | @hort37b460 | Jun 2 7:49pm
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Hi Daisy,

I’m so glad that you got out of that hospital’s care and into Mayo. I am sending you positive thoughts and healing energy as you fight this awful disease. < 3

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Thank you for your kind words.

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Helen, Volunteer Mentor | @naturegirl5 | Jun 2 10:01pm
In reply to @hort37b460 "Hi Korinja, thank you for your response. No, it’s not the Mayo Clinic. I always think..." + (show)
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Hi Korinja, thank you for your response.
No, it’s not the Mayo Clinic. I always think of the Mayo Clinic with the highest regard and appreciation and I’m grateful for all of the good they do.
It was Kaiser. The doctors at the cancer center were wonderful, helpful and kind. The bad treatment I got was at another one of their facilities.

I always have trouble when I don’t listen to my own instincts.

By the way, my diagnosis is Clear Cell Carcinoma, stage two.
They thought it was polyps but it was an “extremely large tumor”. Also they have not come up with a cure for clear cell carcinoma … they told me I have four years to live and that it is rare, aggressive, and will return multiple times.
The bad side effects were too much for me to bear. I am 75 years old.
Pain management is another unlucky subject.

All the best, Daisy

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@hort37b460 I’m glad you are going to Mayo. I think you will find the providers and everyone you come into contact with to be helpful and compassionate.

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Denise | @denisestlouie | Jun 3 7:11am
In reply to @pigglywiggly9 "NIH articles, while excellent, stand cautious and astute and note date of publication. 2018 is 7..." + (show)
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NIH articles, while excellent, stand cautious and astute and note date of publication. 2018 is 7 years ago! This equates to sample size and results dating back very far from data collation. Put credence in recent publications.

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just in the past 5 years there have been target treatments approved for clear cell. Your right that this article is old.

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cookercooker | @cookercooker | Jun 3 10:00am
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Wow! The information you connected me with was more thoroughand helpful than all the other info I have collected from researching online articles. (I’ve spent too many hours to count searching for answers.
I cannot thank you enough for your help! 🙂

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Great!

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cookercooker | @cookercooker | Jun 3 10:02am
In reply to @pigglywiggly9 "NIH articles, while excellent, stand cautious and astute and note date of publication. 2018 is 7..." + (show)
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NIH articles, while excellent, stand cautious and astute and note date of publication. 2018 is 7 years ago! This equates to sample size and results dating back very far from data collation. Put credence in recent publications.

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Agreed. Have you found recent studies that elaborate on or refute the previous paper?

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