I guess im one if those guys who can mentally block things out leading up to the day!
I try not to think about the before or after just let it come as it may be!
I know there will be some anticipation as the day gets closer but for now im ok 20 days away from surgery day!
I wished i could tell people my secret but its by design im sure, i have never been one to let my thoughts get out from in front of me!
Best of luck to all who are approaching their day!
And thank you all for being honest