Bladder Cancer Group: Introduce yourself and connect with others
Welcome to the Bladder Cancer support group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with bladder cancer or caring for someone with bladder cancer. Let’s learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.
Feel free to browse the topics, use the group search to find answers to your questions or start a new discussion.
Pull up a chair. Let’s start with introductions.
What type of bladder cancer were you diagnosed with? What treatments have you had? How are you doing?
Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Bladder Cancer Support Group.
Hi Dave I personally have not had the BCG therapy so can not help you with that but i would bet you will still be able to get them clubs out, good luck Dave
Hi Quirina staying positive is so hard to do even when our loved ones are supporting us. you have heard the phase, only those who have warn my shoes totally understand. But it is nice to have family and friends support. I wish you great success with your treatment and a fast recovery 🙂
Thank you so much! And sending you, of course, positive vibes for your journey during this hard and tough time too.
Hello @walleyebob. My husband and sons would like your moniker as they are frequent walleye fishermen on Lake Erie. Walleye in the freezer is a wonderful thing!
My husband followed much the same path that you are except for initial chemo and then BCG because the first tumor was muscle invasive and one positive l. node. Diagnosed in 2019, he was on 3-4 month rechecks at Mayo Rochester and every time there was either a tumor or a site to watch that developed into one. He got tired of the constant scopes and surgeries and elected to have a radical cystectomy/prostatectomy with neobladder formation in 2021 also at Mayo. Despite many complications postop for 2 years, he is still cancer free and glad he did the surgery. Self cathing becomes a part of your life that you might never have imagined pre cancer.
In our experience the same basic pattern seems to be accepted at Mayo as well. They have a survivorship clinic that monitors the rechecks, performs the cystos, and arranges further surgery as needed. Some patients continue this for many years. Having a high grade aggressive tumor most likely increases the risk of recurrence. Have you had any BCG infusions to see if that local immunotherapy will decrease the frequency of tumors? My husband was a BCG failure because once on maintenance infusions, the tumors started back. It has been hard to come by so a smaller hospital may not be able to offer it. You can also try to arrange a video visit with a Mayo urology surgeon after sending in all your records. Im not sure if they have a Urology Oncologist yet or not. We were told they were working on having that position filled at Rochester.
Hello @quirina, welcome to Connect. You can see my response to walleyebob above describing my husband's bladder cancer journey. Initially a local urologist missed seeing his tumor and the radiologist also missed it on CT because it was located in a diverticulum off the side of his bladder. Mayo radiologists saw it immediately on the same scan. My husband was a BCG failure as a tumor showed up while on the maintenance BCG. He did not find the treatment terrible. A little bladder irritation for less than a day after the infusions, but no pain. He was treated with an antispasmodic during this time to use prior to infusions. If BCG had worked for him, he would have stuck with it as it was a tolerable treatment. Good luck with yours and be strong. Being cancer free is worth it.
@walleyebob praying to the Lord for you. It sounds as if you are doing really well. My husband had a cystoscopy which showed muscle invasive bladder cancer. He finished his first cycle ….which consisted of 1 day of Gemcitabine and Cisplatin . The next week just Gemcitabine and then 3rd week he had off. He did really well, thank God…no side effects. He starts Cycle 2 tomorrow, Monday…gem/cis. Praying everything goes well and he can continue working. He has 6 more treatments. Then, he gets a CT Scan…then a RC. We are so thankful to God that it was caught before the cancer spread. You are in my prayers and thank you for keeping my husband in your prayers….Prayer is very Powerful. God bless you, Rose
Hi Quirina, I was diagnosed at 68 with HG non invasive urotheliol carcinoma and also had BCG treatments and also chemo. The treatments were tolerable and I rested a lot and drank plenty of fluids. I do understand that it’s hard to stay positive once you’ve been diagnosed with cancer. I’ve been dealing with this for 2 years now and I’m very grateful for the medical research done on bladder cancer. I pray you will do well on these treatments!
Hi sepdvm Thank you for your wonderful and knowledgeable comments,I learned a lot from you. Please wish your husband and boys a wonderful 2025 fishing season,i fish south dakota lakes and the Missouri River. i have fished Lake Erie 6 times staying on Kelleys Island, a wonderful experience. A BCG infusion is something i will ask about.Thank you for answering my questions on Mayo Clinic I do believe Iam going to follow up with them. I will Pray and wish the best for your husband and family. Lake Erie should be getting good fishing about now ::))
@rose1966 your husband is doing well, thank God. I wish him all the success with his treatments, you as well are in my prayers. God bless you and your family 🙂
RSand here. You are receiving excellent care in a VERY timely manner. My doctors have not moved as fast.
Please appreciate the excellent care you are getting!