Tips on minimizing withdrawal symptoms from Effexor (aka Venlafaxine)
I have been taking Effexor/Venlafaxine for years and tried to get off it a few times but each time I try to give up the chemical withdrawal symptoms are a horror story and I give up giving up. Anyone got any tips or tried and tested strategies? Thank you
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Attached is a PDF file which details my plan for weaning off this terrible drug over a 20-week period, starting today when i reduced from 225mg ER to 150mg. After going down to 75mg daily, I will switch from Venlafaxine ER to regular Venlafaxine. I will also be taking Omega 3, fish oil, B6, D3, a probiotic, L-tryptophan and a multi-vitamin
My doctor also agreed to a Prozac bridge but advised that I wait until going down below 150mg and further suggested that I not take L-tyrosine.
Thoughts?
wean (wean.pdf)
Be kind to yourself Sadiesmom. Most of us here cannot possibly feel the pain you have from losing your son. He must have been a wonderful man to want to save his country and bless all in the services.
I hope for you to have peace soon to be able to reflect on and enjoy the memories of him you have as a baby, little boy, teenager, grown man that are yours alone to savour.
I hope he can look down on his mom and see her at peace and being able to honour the memories.
By seeking help here and sharing your story and pain is a positive step for you.
You have lost your beloved Curt. I will light a candle for him today and send love and peace to both of you. I’m sure he wishes that for you xxx
Thanks, John. On what dosage of Omega did you settle?
@sadiesmom
My first reaction, reading your story, is to go into counselor mode, which means listening mode. The greatest thing my current therapist has given me is the gift of listening. We all have a real need to be heard. No advice, judgment, assessment, or even commentary.
A good therapist shouldn't have the deer/headlights look. I went to my first session in March with a list of mental issues to address, with suicidal ideation at the top of the list. After that first session, I told him that he had saved my life.
I'm disappointed and surprised that Chris couldn't get the help he needed for PTSD. The VA would surely have been treating many, many veterans for it by 2012. I have a service dog, partly for PTSD, and for depression and anxiety, as well. Have you considered getting a dog who could be part of your treatment plan? There are certain breeds which are particularly adaptive for therapy and comfort, and there are, as a rule, many such kinds of dogs looking for a home. For me, part of my own therapy is loving my dog, Sadie. She helps mitigate anxiety and suicidal ideation, and is a comfort when I'm sad.
You verbalize your feelings and experiences so well, I wonder if you could save your writings in a folder, whether it's a print folder or digital. I keep a little diary on my nightstand, and when I feel like it, I write a sentence or two. Sometimes it's just about an activity, other times it's a way to vent, or express a frustration. I write, too, about how I've been treated - whatever is most on my mind. I don't see the diary as a job I'm required to do, or I probably wouldn't do it. Requirements are overwhelming. Even the simple ones.
Many people here have the same frustration about not being understood. I'm at the place right now when I just stuff my feelings and thoughts, and save it for the therapist. I'm intentional these days not to say anything to my wife about my pain, feelings or opinions, avoiding any conflict. I feel much worse when those things are minimized or dismissed. We need just to be heard and validated, don't we.
We're at our daughter's home for a few more days, and the Domino's delivery person just brought us our lunch. We can chat again.
Jim
My sons pharmacist explained to him that what’s happening when you take drugs like Effexor is it replaces the lack of chemicals in your brain that are causing your depression in the first place. Over time your brain stops producing any of them temporarily. So when you stop or significantly lower your dose the brain has to wake up and start working by itself. This varies enormously.
And if your brain was not producing enough in the first place then becoming medication free may not be in your best interests.
And that’s Ok. What we all aim for is quality of life so we can live with peace and contentment and whatever is our normal.
I don’t ever feel hate or resentment to drugs prescribed for my son. I try to always help him accept and appreciate that at least he can have medical care, even if at times he needs to go through some tough times and try new ones. Igive thanks we live in counties where there are options to treat depression and mental illness.
This is just my experience and attitude which has developed over the years, and visiting a developing country where their only option to keep the seriously mentally ill safe from themselves is to lock them in cages!
Once started on medication I see them released, accepted and becoming part of their village life again.
This isn’t to minimise anyone’s pain or experiences, but medication for anxiety and depression is a blessing for the many who find it helps them live in peace.
@travy
It sounds to me like you're tapering off the Effexor way too fast. There are many people in this discussion who have shared their horror stories about this, some of them having bad things begin weeks and months after stopping. The concensus seems to be that the tapering off process for most people should be done extremely slowly, in very small increments, over the course of several months. I recommend that you have a talk with your doctor and/or pharmacist about this. You really don't want to go through the hell that numerous others in this discussion have. Be patient with this.
Let us know how things go over the coming weeks.
Jim
Hi @yanksterdoofus, I take 1.5 oz of Manitoba Harvest Hemp Oil daily in the morning which is approximately 6000 mg of Omega 3 and 24000 mg Omega 6. Plus, I take 2 tsp of Carlsen's Fish Oil every morning and every evening which gives 1600 mg Omega 3 fatty acids twice daily. This is part of the vitamins/mineral supplements I take for my small fiber peripheral neuropathy.
John
That's very encouraging. Thank you for sharing.
@sadiesmom I am so very sorry for what you have had to endure. Please try to muster up some will to live and rejoin life. I know how impossible that must sound and I suspect those first moves forward are the hardest. I have a relative who is going through some similar grief but thankfully she does have the support of her four loving children and their children.
If you can get yourself out at all to do some things I know it will help, but I also know how difficult it is to make those moves forward. I am sure it is worth it though. You don’t say your age but I suspect you stil have some good years left if you can make those moves.
Thinking of you, and praying for you.
JK
@sadiesmom So sorry to hear about how difficult this is for you. Shrinks fail to mention just how addictive some of these meds are and many are worse than controlled substances and/or street drugs. I have been down this road and go at your own pace as we are all different...you can do this. Hugs