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Assisted-living, memory care: How did you find a good facility?

Posted by SusanEllen66 @SusanEllen66, Nov 13 2:49pm

I am looking for an Assisted-living, and Memory Care facility for myself.

I have early-mid Alzheimer’s dementia diagnosed by MRI, MRA, PET, EEG, and psycho Neuro test.
More than 3 years ago, I was diagnosed with Mild Cognitive Impairment. I’m telling you all this because people frustrate me when they say things like, ‘you sound and look normal’…

Anyway, to those of you who have found a good place for your loved one, how did you start looking for a place. How did you decide where they would do well.

Cost is a huge factor! I need a Medicaid accepted place after my funds run out. It seems those are the least appealing…

Any help is appreciated.
Thanks

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SusanEllen66 | @SusanEllen66 | 10 hours ago
In reply to @roch "@SusanEllen66 I applaud you for planning ahead. I found a good government resource about long term..." + (show)
@roch

@SusanEllen66
I applaud you for planning ahead. I found a good government resource about long term care facilities. Toward end of article are list of resources that should help find out what is available in your area. There is also a link with tips on how to choose a facility.

National Institute on Aging:
https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/assisted-living-and-nursing-homes/long-term-care-facilities-assisted-living-nursing-homes
You might also search your state's Human Services website.

Do you have a timeframe when plan on moving?

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I have done a lot of investigating. Every state has its own program. You have to own almost nothing ($2000) to qualify for Medicaid.

I will probably move into assisted living within 2 years.
Right now I have the resources to self pay for 2 years.

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celia16 | @celia16 | 9 hours ago
In reply to @SusanEllen66 "I have done a lot of investigating. Every state has its own program. You have to..." + (show)
@SusanEllen66

I have done a lot of investigating. Every state has its own program. You have to own almost nothing ($2000) to qualify for Medicaid.

I will probably move into assisted living within 2 years.
Right now I have the resources to self pay for 2 years.

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The asset limit is low, however most homes are not counted. I’m surprised that most states have AL assistance. But, that’s good to know.

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cathy58 | @cathy58 | 4 hours ago

My advice to people looking into any kind of care facility to please do your back ground checks, like state inspection, have they ever been fined and if so for what. What is the staffing like does the facility have a big turn over in staff.
I say this because it may look nice smell good, but you need to look at other things to. If you get a chance to talk to other people and family members please do that.
Remember you are paying to living there. Hope this helps

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kforrest | @kforrest | 2 hours ago

ask your primary care dr. for recommendations then go check them out. I hope to age in place but it is getting difficult because of declining mobility.

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SusanEllen66 | @SusanEllen66 | 1 hour ago
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@celia16

The asset limit is low, however most homes are not counted. I’m surprised that most states have AL assistance. But, that’s good to know.

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@celia16
If single like I am, the house is included.
The only time it’s not is if you are married. The spouse needs a place to live.

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SusanEllen66 | @SusanEllen66 | 1 hour ago
In reply to @colleenyoung "@SusanEllen66, I made your post into a new discussion to help gather tips from people who..." + (show)
@colleenyoung

@SusanEllen66, I made your post into a new discussion to help gather tips from people who have looked for assisted living and memory care for themselves or for a loved one. You're so wise to start looking now.

@trishaanderson @sueinmn @bayviewgal @maryvc, can you start off the discussion? How did you get started to find assisted living care? What were your non-negotiables? In looking at facilities, what have you learned to look for?

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@colleenyoung
There are agencies who will visit and access the conditions of the place. They can also negotiate prices.
You do not pay for their service.
I found one whom I trust, and she will work with/for me soon.

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