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hello there! Does your rectal area pain come with constipation, rectocele? Is it constant pressure? I have pelvic floor dysfunction and been to 2 pelvic floor therapists and several neuro and ortho for spine issues. Been to PT several times for DJD, spinal arthritis and weak hips due to flexor issues. However, nothing has helped this constant rectal pain that is excruciating . I am seeing a pain Dr. currently as I have exhausted other measures. I have a rectocele also. I have also tried numerous meds that either knock you out or make you nuttier than you are already. I continue to pray and search as well. Thanks for sharing
My name is Tricia. Thanks for the welcome to the chronic pain group
I had my rectum removed. The gastroenterologist said that sometimes the surgeon leaves a bit of muscle, which when stimulated with mucus from the upper regions of the remaining piece of the rectum, causes the muscle to tighten to the point it starts off feeling like ball in the butt and then followed by sometimes extreme pain.
Hello. @reeneyed girl721. You are not alone in your painful circumstances. After a ski fall eight years ago, I also felt like I was sitting on "hockey pucks". Even through all my treatments, that feeling has never left me. Unfortunately, most pain docs do not have the time, compassion(as @philipsnowden has mentioned), and EMPATHY. My current pain doc has thirteen patient rooms. They are generally full when I go. Ten minutes is the usual visit time for me. How do you deal with patients' issues in ten minutes? After a year he still does not know my name or what caused my condition until he rushes in and scans his notes. Quite disheartening. I really wish you some kind of success in finding relief with the spinal cord stimulator. I had one that worked quite well for a couple of years. I am going for a consult this week with my neurosurgeon to see about having a newer, more sophisticated model implanted.
I’m Jessica and I have fibromyalgia with a side of IBS, Pelvic Floor Dysfunction, Depression, and a number of other issues. The years of dealing with this and being isolated have now given me severe social anxiety. This is especially hard since I used to be an outgoing people-person. Just trying to take things one day at a time.
I am one of the lucky ones that the radio ablasion works for but my fibermyalgia still flares up in that area because I landed really hard on my coycx. Doc told me every bad injury will come back to haunt me with the fibermyalgia and I will feel the pain more intensely. He is right , my flare ups are in the areas that I have been in the areas that have been injured in the past. An ice pack on my butt helps me cope.
I may not experience it to the extent that you do, but I am quite familiar with the sensation of having sand in my eyes, the difficulty blinking, and the overall discomfort. I underwent Lasik surgery about 20 years ago, which is when I first started to notice dry eyes. I always keep a bottle of eye wash handy as it provides quicker relief than lubricating drops, although I use both. A warm compress can also be beneficial. Goggles are an effective solution, albeit not very socially acceptable; however, if they are the only way to find relief, perhaps enduring a bit of embarrassment is worth it. It might be wise to rule out Sjogren's syndrome, an autoimmune disorder, if you haven't done so already. Nevertheless, I believe the treatment options remain similar regardless of the cause. This is minor in my life as I am dealing with Fibromyalgia, Lymphedema, Hip Bursitis, Coccydynia and low back pain. I feel 15 years older than I am. The reality is that when things aren't working right, we suffer through the day to day. I feel for you, and I hope you find some answers.
I concur that it's challenging to find someone who will consider your situation comprehensively. After an extensive search using Google, ChatGPT, blood labs, and symptom analysis, I managed to identify some potential causes. I compiled a summary sheet outlining my goals for the appointment, including the lab tests I believed would be beneficial. My doctor concurred with most of them and provided explanations for a few. To my surprise, my doctor dedicated a full hour to our meeting and commended my thorough preparation, which led to progress on several issues. However, the primary concern remains my coccydynia and lower back pain, for which a solution has been elusive despite consultations with my primary physician, an orthopedic surgeon, and spine and pain specialists. It's quite exasperating. It was hopeful to hear your neurostimulator helped for a few years. I hope you can get an updated model and get some relief.
I agree, it seems that every pain or injury is intensified by Fibromyalgia. The doctors appear to be baffled. Up to this point, it's been a process of trial and error, with the errors predominating. Your remark about ice packs resonated with me; I grabbed mine while writing this post. Ice packs provide the best temporary relief for me, especially during long car journeys. With numerous doctor's appointments 1.5 hours away, I rely on someone to drive me so that I can use my cushion, apply ice, and reposition myself more often. Its just not the life I wanted. But reality is - got to accept where I am at
Your remark about long car drives to Dr's appts hit home.
I take an ice pack with me in a shopping bag and sit on it so I can sit longer. I also use a tens machine my shoulders , back and coycx. It allows me to delay the pain until I can get back home and cope with it better.
We become such great inventive survivors don't we!