I am so sorry. Coming from a Christian this may sound blunt, but, here it is. Most people cannot handle when they are healthy and a friend/family member has a chronic or serious illness. It's sad. I have lost friends as well.

When people ask me how I am doing, I tell them I am blessed....because I truly am. Or that I am ''Better than I deserve". It's sad to say but a lot of people do not learn compassion for others until they go through something physically themselves.

I have 3 close friends that stick with me no matter what and I am forever grateful. They truly want to know how I am. I try not to wear them out with the details and just hit the "high" spots so I will not exhaust them.

Chronic illness has drawn me closer to the Lord, given me a greater prayer life for others and compassion for others in a deeper way.

Praying for you and I care. Please keep me posted. Hugs & Blessings....