Meet others living with Head & Neck Cancer: Introduce yourself

Welcome to the Head and Neck Cancer group.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet other people who are living with head and neck cancer. Let’s learn from each other and share experiences from diagnosis through treatment and coping with symptoms and recovery challenges.

As you know, head and neck cancer is the general term for a broad group of cancers that begin in the head and neck region. This include oropharyngeal cancer, hypopharyngeal cancer, laryngeal cancer, lip and oral cavity cancer, nasopharyngeal cancer, paranasal sinus and nasal cavity cancer, salivary gland cancer, squamous cell neck cancer or ameloblastoma.

Let’s get to know one another. Why not start by introducing yourself? What type of cancer have you been diagnosed with?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Head & Neck Cancer Support Group.

@colleenyoung

@goldfinch, you may also wish to join this discussion related to SCC on the scalp.
- Squamous cell carcinoma of the scalp (skin)
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/squamous-cell-carcinoma/

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Thanks for your input.

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@731

Hi. I am Joan @731. I had Adenoid Cystic Carcinoma ACC is the sublingual salivary gland with NOTHC1 mutation so it is very aggressive and rare form with “poor” prognosis and recurrence or metastasis usually within 3-13 months. My surgery was 19 months ago at MD Anderson. My doctors did not recommend chemo since research indicates it has little to no effect on ACC. I also declined radiation since as they explained radiation has < 10% chance of helping and 100% chance of damaging healthy tissue and life log side effects. I do have extensive nerve damage from nerves being cut during surgery leaving me with constant nerve pain especially in my tongue. Tongue and floor of mouth have been reconstructed with tissue taken from my leg. Free flap is very large pushing my tongue up and back to completely fill my mouth making eating difficult to impossible. Initially I had NG tube for feeding but when that was removed I was not able to eat and only drank about 8 oz. of thickened liquids a day. My weight dropped to 77 lbs. a PEG tube was placed but instead of healing it became so painful it had to be removed and I was left trying to find a way not to starve on my own until I was able to find a doctor and dietician who suggested Kate Farm Sole Source nutrition drinks and gained 22 lbs. I have just recently found a physical therapist and a speech therapist who specialize in head and neck cancer and are helping a lot. I have even begun trials of solid foods. This makes me very happy. Not being able to participate in meals with family and friends is a big social loss.
My currently dilemma is that with constant pain, evidence of “spots” on my lung basically ignored by my oncologist as probably nothing and the research that indicates recurrence and metastasis in < 13 months and an overall mean survival rate of 30 months with ACC NOTCH1 as compared to 122 months with regular ACC my oncologist does not order scans and only brief check up appointment once a year in spite of symptoms including a growing palpable lump in my throat/neck. I can’t find a doctor with experience with ACC in my area (within 380 miles) and I can’t afford to return to MDA or other distant location. I’m just reaching out to see if there is any hope for help if I can get to Mayo.

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Hello Joan @731. Welcome to Connect. It sounds to me like you do need to pursue a new oncologist and you will find more specialization at a large cancer referral center for sure. I have had care for my H&N cancer for 12 years at Mayo in Rochester MN. My Head and Neck oncologist as truly my hero. The first years after surgery, chemo, and radiation I was getting recheck scans every 3 months at Mayo. Each time we would start to lengthen the time between scans, a metastasis would show up and back to every 3. It is expensive traveling for medical care, but to me it has been worth it. We drive over 600 miles to Mayo, even though Cleveland Clinic is 2 hours away. I believe your best bet is to ask for a referral to Mayo from your oncologist or PCP. Have you asked for a second opinion? Do your cancer PT and ST know of anyone closer with more experience for a second opinion? Have you considered a video visit with a specialist? Where are you located?

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@hrhwilliam

Hello @goldfinch and welcome to the Head and Neck group. You seem faced with a unique dilemma as most of us have had radiation everywhere but the top of our heads. I'm not a doctor, only a patient but if it were me, I would agree to radiation on the top of the noodle only and I mean only if it was Proton beam. If the doctor concludes that it would be photon beam then I would simply say "you first".
Thit Proton they can pinpoint a slice and keep it out of the gray matter. They can't do that with Photon. I think all of us who have had Photon radiation have had some cognitive issue of some sort. We of course don't know what we don't know but I for one lost memories, math formulas, ability to remember some foreign languages, etc. Don't mess with the noodle. But that's just my opinion.
There are now drug options such as Keytruda to keep SCC at bay if it is of a certain common subgroup. You could ask about that option.
Let's see who else chimes in here. When was this surgery?

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Yep, I would definitely start asking the oncologist about chemotherapy options - from some quick reading, it appears that many SCC tumors have an excess of EGFR protein and there's a drug which targets this.

Below I'm linking a related research study to share with your oncologist. Note that the patients were in a much worse situation than you are. They couldn't have surgery to remove the SCC tumor and relied on the chemo alone - and a third of them were immunocompromised. You just need to keep any remaining cells from regrowing.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6996917/

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@tomschwerdt

Yep, I would definitely start asking the oncologist about chemotherapy options - from some quick reading, it appears that many SCC tumors have an excess of EGFR protein and there's a drug which targets this.

Below I'm linking a related research study to share with your oncologist. Note that the patients were in a much worse situation than you are. They couldn't have surgery to remove the SCC tumor and relied on the chemo alone - and a third of them were immunocompromised. You just need to keep any remaining cells from regrowing.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6996917/

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Thanks so much for your much needed info. I need to find best place for a qualified second opinion near me. I tried another dermatologist, but it turns out his group uses the same Mohs surgeon! waste of time. I live in Rhode Island, no Mayo Clinic near me. A large cancer center that does a lot of squamous cell cancer of the scalp is what I need to find. Hoping for a response from a kindred spirit.

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@goldfinch

Thanks so much for your much needed info. I need to find best place for a qualified second opinion near me. I tried another dermatologist, but it turns out his group uses the same Mohs surgeon! waste of time. I live in Rhode Island, no Mayo Clinic near me. A large cancer center that does a lot of squamous cell cancer of the scalp is what I need to find. Hoping for a response from a kindred spirit.

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John’s Hopkins might be worth a call. Mass General is also highly regarded.

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I had my lower right jaw and teeth removed in August bc of a squamous cell tumor. Then radiation and chemo. Recovery going well, but have to have surgery next week to remove lymph nodes on the left side of my neck (one cancerous one found). How does this surgery affect eating? I was planning to have stomach feeding tube removed soon since I’m not using it anymore. I won’t need it, will I? I can’t have anymore radiation or chemo.

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Hello - my name is Robin.
My husband was diagnosed with nasopharyngeal cancer last November 2023. He has completed 3 cycles of chemotherapy at Emory in Atlanta. He just finished his 3rd week of proton radiation so he’s got 4 weeks to go. I know everything is about to be more challenging.
I am here for advice and any support moving forward.
I want to be as prepared and helpful as possible.. We have a lot of friends nearby but feel like I shouldn’t burden them with all the information. It’s a lot and we are trying to figure things out moving forward. Thanks for being here…we appreciate it.

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@krob

Hello - my name is Robin.
My husband was diagnosed with nasopharyngeal cancer last November 2023. He has completed 3 cycles of chemotherapy at Emory in Atlanta. He just finished his 3rd week of proton radiation so he’s got 4 weeks to go. I know everything is about to be more challenging.
I am here for advice and any support moving forward.
I want to be as prepared and helpful as possible.. We have a lot of friends nearby but feel like I shouldn’t burden them with all the information. It’s a lot and we are trying to figure things out moving forward. Thanks for being here…we appreciate it.

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Hi @krob and welcome. It looks like your husband is getting great care, particularly with proton radiation which is far less evasive than the photon mess so many have endured, myself included.
If you dive into the many discussions in this group or pop a word into the site specific search box at the top, you will get a lot of great information. You can start a discussion any time for any major issues you are dealing with as well. A discussion will lead to better visibility and often great comments.
Your thoughts and experience can also be helpful to others here as well.
Feel free to bend our ears.

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@krob

Hello - my name is Robin.
My husband was diagnosed with nasopharyngeal cancer last November 2023. He has completed 3 cycles of chemotherapy at Emory in Atlanta. He just finished his 3rd week of proton radiation so he’s got 4 weeks to go. I know everything is about to be more challenging.
I am here for advice and any support moving forward.
I want to be as prepared and helpful as possible.. We have a lot of friends nearby but feel like I shouldn’t burden them with all the information. It’s a lot and we are trying to figure things out moving forward. Thanks for being here…we appreciate it.

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Hello Robin. I too came here in January for support with my diagnosis of P16SCC. Right now I'm about 10 weeks out from surgery. It really is helpful to visit with people that are in this same struggle. The physical aspects are one thing but managing the mental is another. I understand about friends. When my diagnosis first came out, people were shocked and all over us. Now a little time has passed and people have moved on which is natural. The best advice I can give is stay close and talk. At the same time, caregivers sometimes need a break. My wife has friends and sisters she can vent to during those tough times. People said to me in the beginning that this is a journey and not a destination and boy were they right.

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@colleenyoung

@jeffk @lisa_sj99 @jtw96 @mrsjhagen18 @sylviapf @lzzie @loli @karly @trudivo @angelag @ssimons @deborahe @gaybinator @emmur16 @udderplace

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Hello, I'm Michael and new here. I'm 81 years old and survived a squamus cell tumer at the base
of my tongue, for 21 years now. The treatment protical is hidious but surviveable. Now I have
Chemo induced Neuropaty and Oropharyngeal dysphagia. I'm told that nothing can be done.
Bull S..t. I haven't had Peumonia in three months now. I did it but practicing Deep Breathing and holding my breath to expand my lung capacity. It helps. I'm up to 90 seconds, holding my
breath. It may work for you. I also go to the Gym twice a week. That Saved my but. My workouts
are legs and arms and back with dumbells for chest. Cable work great.
PS: I'm a commited introvert. I don't do Zoom. Good luck, Michael

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