Husband with early Alzheimers: Question about medications
My husband is 68 and was diagnosised with alzheimers two years ago, he has done very well and is currently on both donepezil and Namenda. He has complained recently of more anxiety and frustration. He is very alert in the morning but struggles as the day goes. If I ask his doctor to increase his medications would that help with his anxiety and frustration? He says he feels "on the edge" a lot. He is a very low key, quiet man. Any suggestions?
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check her body language and her facial expressions. That really helps a lot if ya can
I have always respected my elders and now that she has this ugly friend with her. All the more reason as long as she isn’t hurting or hurt in anyway. Maybe that’s wrong.. but Miss Ugly has moved in and Ugly talks and yells. Those are things I just have never given any mind too. So I don’t engage when Ugly is present. I will stay two steps ahead of Ugly. And love my mom through it all.
That’s what I feel I have to do for her.
Oh in the early years I made up a game to play with mom. I would “lose” my coffee cup. I say mom have you seen my coffee cup. She would immediately start lookin for it. I always knew where it was. But it made her feel better about what she knew would move in her home. Her father had Alzheimer’s and he got combative but there wasn’t anything to help him. Mom has help. And I do remind her of that. Also because I know her so well, I am able to check her body language and her facial expressions. That really helps a lot if ya can be mindful of those 2 things.
God Bless
Dear @randee thank you for your suggestions. I liked your coffee cup game. God bless you.
I hesitate to recommend more medications, but it may be helpful to ask your doctor if an anti-anxiety/depression medication (hopefully one with fewer side effects) could make a difference. It was a good choice for my mother. (However, since her Alz. symptoms have worsened over the last year, so is her anxiety. At this stage in her illness, I'm not sure if increasing the anxiety meds are a good choice or not. Reading and implementing the tips recommended in the article about anxiety (linked above) have made a positive difference for us.
I hesitate to recommend more medications, but it may be helpful to ask your doctor if an anti-anxiety/depression medication (hopefully one with fewer side effects) could make a difference. It was a good choice for my mother (in addition to Namenda and Donepezil. (However, since her Alz. symptoms have worsened over the last year, so is her anxiety. At this stage in her illness, I’m not sure if increasing the anxiety meds are a good choice or not. Reading and implementing the tips recommended in the article about anxiety (linked above) have made a positive difference for us.
I cared for my father with Alzheimer's who complained of being anxious. He would rock back and forth in his chair. He'd say "I feel like I need to be doing something..." It was so hard and frustrating to him. His doctor would prescribe lorazepam (sleep) but what worked the best for him was vaping high CBC with small amounts of THC (medical marijuana). This did it -- it was the solution to our problem! I got my father a medical marijuana card in Oregon. And hands down -- after a few puffs, he would stop rocking and was able to relax. I do not recommend edibles or anything with high THC - because these give that head high. You do not want that with risk of falling and over eating. It must be high CBD and must contain tiny amounts of THC to make it active. This also helped with pain and headaches. It was a miracle drug for his anxiety and restlessness. He also enjoyed nature shows which helped calm him like Blue Planet series. I also made him Sleepy-time, Kava-Kava tea. This was one of the hardest jobs of my life caring for my dad with this disease but I was grateful to be the one to care for him. We had the best of times and the worst of times. My heart goes out to you for what you are doing. It is not easy... <3