Caregiving For My 90 Year Old Disabled Veteran Dad Need Some Pointers

Hello Everyone, I Have Been Taking Care Of My 90
Year Old Disabled Veteran Dad For Almost A Year Now, I Quit My
Job & Moved From Colorado To Houston Texas To Take Care Of My Dad My Dad Built A Couple Of Kitchenette Apartments Along Time Aga An One Of His Tenants Dad Had A Sort Of Kitchenette Apartments Is Renting From My Dad Had Found Me On Facebook & Messengered Me, To Make Long Story Short The Reason Why My Dad's Tenant Got A Hold Of Me Because My Dad Lost My Phone Number My Dad Was Loosing His House Do To Forcloser After He Recieved A Reverse Mortgage Loan & Couldn't Pay His Monthly Bill To The Mortgage Loan Lender Anymore, He Ended Up Selling His House For Only $13,000 Dollars, After All Was Said & Done, Well I Kept Intouch With His Tenant & Talked With My Dad & They Convinced Me To Move To My Dads Kitchenette Apartments To Help Take Care Of My Dad So Being I Used To Be A Home Health Personal Care Provider I Figured That Its A Good Thing For My & Myself At The Time, I Really Wasn't Prepared For Finding Out My Dad Has Late Stage Symptoms Of Body Lewy Dementia, He Was Never Diagnosed By His VA Doctor, I Asked His VA Doctor About My Dad Memory Problems And The Doctor Just Played It Off That My Dad Is 90 Years old You Expect That At Your Dad's Age The Older You Get The More You Loose Were My Dad's Doctors Exact Words To Me, His Symptoms Weren't To Obvious At First I Just Thought That Maybe The Doctor Was Right Dad Is 90 Years Old & These Thing's Happen, Boy I Was Totally Wrong It Became Worse, Not Just My Dads Memory But His Behavior Has Been Very Aggressive To The Point Of Verbal Abuse Toward Me, I'm Pretty Sure My Dad Is In The Late Stages Of LBD, He Walks Very Slowly He Has Balance Problems He Had Fell A Couple Of Time Before I Move To My Dads, He's Paranoid That Everyone Is Stealing From Him Weather It's From His Bank Account Or His Tools He Has Or Whatever He Feels That Someone Is Going To Take Whatever From Him, He Wanders Around The Kitchenette Apartments Doing Strange Things, Hes Has Snucked Out Of Our House & Took A Cab To Go To His Doctor's Appointment Without Me Going With Him, He Had Broken His Left Big Toe While Trying To Fix The Flooring Of The Empty Apartments Next To One Of His Tenants That I Became Friends With I Kept Telling Him You Can't Be Doing That Kind Of Work Anymore You Will Hurt Yourself, But He Still Tells Me "You Can't Tell Me What I Can & Can't Do This My Place I'm The Boss Here Not You" ! Yelling At Me In Front Of The Tenant,
Well He Left Really Early In The Morning For His Doctor's Visit 4 Hours Before His
Appointment, This Is Becoming A Nightmare For His Tenants & Myself, One Tenant Was WrongFully Evicted By My Dad Because My Dad Swore Up & Down That This Tenant Called Him & Threatened To Come Over & Beat Him Up & Kill Him, I Know For A Fact That This Former Tenant Didn't Do Any Such Thing, But My Dad Was Totally Set In His Thinking This Former Tenant Called Him & Told This To Him, I Always Have To Go Through My Dads Cell Phone To See Who's Called Him, Or Whom He Had Called To This Present Day, The Former Tenant's Number Wasn't Among The Call's My Had Received That Same Day My Dad Told Me This Happened On, My Dad Swore He Just Got Off The Phone With The Former Tenant Not 5 Minutes Ago, I Believed At First Thinking Maybe The Tenant & My Dad Had A Disagreement Over The Phone, My Dad Can't Hear Very Well Over The Phone So I'm Thinking I'll Go Talk To The Tenant, After My Conversation With The Tenant I Knew Then My Dad Wasn't Telling The Truth Because The Tenants Cell Phone Was Disconnected From Lack Of Payment So There's No Way The Tenant Told My Dad These Thing's Over The Phone, I Tried To Tell My Dad That The Tenant Couldn't Have Been The One That Called Him Because His Phone Was Cut Off From Lack Of Payment, But My Dad Wouldn't Listen To Me & He Gave The Tenant A 3 Day Eviction Notice To Move Out, This Was Just The Beginning Of My Dad's Behavioral Issues, He Had His Driver's License Taken Away From The Texas MV & Safety Department 10 Year's Ago Because That's A Law Out Here After The Age Of 80 Year's Old You Can't Drive Anymore, Well My Dad Has Been Driving His Vehicle Which Is Our Only Transportation, So I Gave Up My Colorado Driver's License For A Texas License So I Would Do The Driving Instead Of My Dad But He Keeps Driving, The Insurance Is In My Name Only He's Not On The Policy, I Keep Telling Him You Shouldn't Drive Anymore You Could Get In Trouble If You Get Pulled Over By The Police, His Answer To Me Is, "Don't Tell Me What I Can And Can't Do It's My Vehicle And I'll Drive It When I Want Too!" So There's My Issue's Of This Discussion I'm Writing About Today Can Someone Give Me Some Direction On How To Get Him Evaluated For LBD, & Try To Get My Dad To Stop Driving His VA Doctor Seems To Not Really Care About My Dad's Memory Lost & I Have The POAMD, I'm In The Works Of Getting The Paperwork Copy Sent To His Doctor My Dad Signed Both Of The DPOA & The POAMD Back In October, He Dose Have Times Of Clarity Thank God, But His Cognitive Reasoning Is Starting To Degenerate Progressively Faster As Time Goes On Since About Christmas He's Grown More Illusionary Hearing Things That
No One Else Hear's His Delusions Are Getting More Agressively Intence, I Can No Longer Go To His Room Because I'm Being Accused Of Stealing His Wallet & From His Bank Account Be He Lost His Wallet Again For I Don't Remember How Many Times Now This Has Happened I'm Need Help With My Dad's Situation I'm The Only One Caring For Him By Myself No Other Family Member's Or Friends I Can Depend On Because I'm Not From Houston Texas, & Non Of My Side Of The Family Are Still Living & My Dad's Side Are All Deceased As Well, So I'm In My Own For This Journey, Thank You For Reading My Discussion God Bless Everyone Here Sincerely; CaregiverForMyDad1