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I was in a relationship for 1 year 5 months after a year he cheated on me , and this I found out he lied to me too ,,, he wanted a chance I forgave him and gave him another chance but now he feels very guilty , He feels he is a bad person and suffering for what he has done wrong to me he says he doesn't need to live anymore he feels very guilty he thinks he doesn't deserve me or I deserve someone better than him he says distance me from him Should be maintained but I can't leave him because I love him so much and there is no way to convince him because his mistake was so horrible that it is killing me too. What should be done now?

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rashida | @rashida | Jan 26 2:05pm

@pihu2024 seems to me he wants to have his cake and eat it too. By keeping a distance, he can maintain his relationship with you and have someone else on the side without your knowing it.

Much as you feel you love him, I would suggest you make a clean break. It is going to be very painful, but I promise you, you will get over him in time, and you will meet someone who values you! I have been there - thought I could never love another man after I made the very painful decision to break off with him. Hurt for quite a while, but was in love again - a few times, till I met and married my husband. We have been together for 44 years and have three wonderful children and one adored and adorable granddaughter.