Pancreatic Cancer Group: Introduce yourself and connect with others

Welcome to the Pancreatic Cancer group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with pancreatic cancer or caring for someone with pancreatic cancer. Let’s learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

I’m Colleen, and I’m the moderator of this group, and Community Director of Connect. Chances are you’ll to be greeted by fellow members and volunteer patient Mentors, when you post to this group. Learn more about Moderators and Volunteer Mentors on Connect.

We look forward to welcoming you and introducing you to other members. Feel free to browse the topics or start a new one.

Pull up a chair. Let's start with introductions.

When were you diagnosed with pancreatic cancer? What treatments have you had? How are you doing?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Pancreatic Cancer Support Group.

@katiegrace

Julie,
My tumor is in the head of the pancreas. I also had intense jaw pain like you described. During my 2nd chemo infusion, I had cramping in my hands and cramping in my cheek muscles (was hard to form words when talking). From the beginning of my Folfirinox chemo treatments, my oncologist reduced my oxaliplatin to 50% because of it. At my 8th chemo, I just didn't feel like I could continue the oxaliplatin because of the increasing jaw pain, and increasing neuropathy in my feet, so I did the Folfirinox without the oxaliplatin. For my 9th chemo, they switched my chemo plan to gemzar/Abraxane. (They didn't want to continue giving me the Folfirinox without the oxaliplatin) The side effects of the gemzar/Abraxane have been much less for me-I don't know if it was the right decision to stop the oxaliplatin, but it was a decision I felt I needed to make at the time. My C19 has continued to go down with the Gemzar/Abraxane. I have one more treatment, before surgery. (12 total treatments). I am very nervous about surgery. My 12th chemo is Jan 18th. I will have CT and PET scan on Jan 30, 31.
Wishing you the best.

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Praying for good results

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@randyokey

Hi, my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer on December 18,2023. He also has lesions on his liver. He is unable to eat much. I would like to know what I can prepare for him with a lot of protein. He has lost about 50 pounds in the last 3 months. He seems to be in a lot of pain after he eats. His chemo starts next Monday, January 15th, 2024. Are there any hints or suggestions out there from personal experience that will help him? Thank you.

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Hi @randyokey, there are several discussions about eating with pancreatic cancer. Here are a few you might find helpful:
- What to eat when diagnosed with pancreatic cancer?
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/what-to-eat-2/
- Husband won’t eat
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/husband-wont-eat/
- Still losing weight: Does timing of Creon help?
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/still-losing-weight/
How did the first chemo treatment go?

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To marienewland:

Just to follow-up; I've been going to the Leonard Cancer Institute in Mission Viejo, CA.

My Whipple surgery was at the Providence Mission Hospital. Unfortunately, I had a nicked bowel and was at the hospital for 6 weeks with various infections. Someone suggested tis hospital instead of Hoag. However, like you, I missed my window to do the followup chemo and it also has messed up my "possibilities to be cancer free."

I was disappointed at the care from Providence hospital.
The Leonard Cancer Institute has been very helpful in my before and after care. I would recommend them. I'm almost at the point of clinical trials only. Current CT scan did not look too good. Waiting my CA19 results now.

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Clinical trials can be life saving. The hospital in Duarte California has something interesting underway. As does Honor Health in Phoenix and many other places. You might start your search for the right one with a patient navigator at pancan.org
Ultimately, you do need to make the calls yourself but they can help narrow the studies to match your situation. Don’t give up, fight!

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@jewelziet

I had stage 3 pancreatic cancer with a 4mm tumor originally wrapped around my portal vein. My oncologist, Dr. Margaret Tempero of UCSF started the pancreatic cancer treatment program at UCSF. She recommended my surgical oncologist to me. Four months ago, Dr. Carlos Corvera performed the Whipple on me. He usually does two Whipples a day, but mine required the entire day and he pulled in a transplant specialist to assist. Dr. Corvera imdoes surgery at UCSF Parnassus campus. The nurses who cared for me afterwards were phenomenal. I had a complicated recovery and was in hospital for 17 days. Not the typical recovery window I’m told.

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That is quite the surgery story, @jewelziet. Did they know that your Whipple would require longer than usual beforehand? How long ago was your surgery and how are you doing today?

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Hi, I’m Ken’s wife Sandy, he was diagnosed in August of ‘23. He’s had 6 rounds of chemo and about to have a distal pancreatic surgery. Which is removal of spleen, tail and most of the body of the pancreas. Wondering about what kind of diet he should be following after surgery.

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@colleenyoung Yes, my surgeon let us know ahead of time that surgery would most likely take at least nine hours and that he was bringing on a transplant specialist as well.

My surgery was on Aug. 15th, the first day of school for my four kids(5th grade - 11th grade). We managed to get the family through with smiles intact, but the kids are still processing. My youngest recently shared that the first day of school was really hard because she didn’t know whether I was alive or not.

My family all knows the stats for pancreatic cancer, so we’re living in the moment.

According to my doctors and my medical professional friends, it’s hard for them to believe I had the Whipple. They said I looked amazing. I can say that recovery was rough. There was a reason none of my medical professional friends or doctors told me what recovery would be like. It could be used as torture.

I’m currently working with a dietician as we wait for my brain to figure out the changes to my digestive tract. I dropped 8 clothing sizes since my surgery. Weight loss seems to have plateaued for now.

While I’m now able to help with school pick up and drop offs, I’m still not able to take on my former role of stay-at-home mom. My husband has been primary caregiver for the family, as well as in charge of my medical care. I struggle with exhaustion and pain still. My palliative care doctor believes my pain is due to nerves forming new connections. I’ve been off prescription pain meds since Sept?? I now prefer to tough it out and use cannabis at night after the kids are in bed. I don’t care for how pain meds or cannabis makes me feel, but I prefer cannabis over morphine. My palliative care doctor is fully onboard as well.

I’m still waiting for the neuropathy in my hands and feet to dissipate, as well as my cognitive fogginess.

I’m an artist and I lost the ability to do art while on chemo. Not being able to feel the soles of my feet is challenging as well. The other day, I fell out my front door since I couldn’t feel the ground.

Honestly though, I’m doing much better. Chemo was really hard. I had severe diarrhea and had to use Depends at times, I ended up being physically capable to using a cane to using a walker. All that is behind me, but I’m still a bit unstable on my feet due to lack of sensation in my feet.

The first month or of hospital was really challenging. I had a PIC line for a month afterward with a home nurse who visited three times a week.

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Concerned that my husband's oncologist at Dana Farber wants to watch his stable tumor instead of treating it with more chemo. The pancreatic surgeon at Brigham & Women's ,Dr Tom Clancy won't operate because of vessel involvement so I would like to see the oncologist be a little more aggressive . It's concerning that he want wants to wait for the tumor to become unstable before treating..
I have heard of surgeons at other hospitals that do operate on tumors with vessel involvement
Wondering about second opinions on treatments or is it normal to wait for a tumor to become UNSTABLE?

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@kenm

Hi, I’m Ken’s wife Sandy, he was diagnosed in August of ‘23. He’s had 6 rounds of chemo and about to have a distal pancreatic surgery. Which is removal of spleen, tail and most of the body of the pancreas. Wondering about what kind of diet he should be following after surgery.

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Hi Sandy, welcome. Several members have had distal pancreatic surgery along with removal of the spleen. You might wish to join this discussion:

- What's recovery after distal pancreatectomy and splenectomy like?
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/recovery-after-distal-pancreatectomy-and-splenectomy/

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@colleenyoung

Hi Sandy, welcome. Several members have had distal pancreatic surgery along with removal of the spleen. You might wish to join this discussion:

- What's recovery after distal pancreatectomy and splenectomy like?
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/recovery-after-distal-pancreatectomy-and-splenectomy/

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For me, it was very exhausting. They took out 3/4 of my pancreas and my spleen and left the head of the pancreas. Only all my cancer is gone. Just need to be treated with chemo and go from there and trust the Lord. He’s faithful I will tell you two weeks out. I’d develop an abscess in my pancreas. This was excruciating pain I was septic it lasted about six days. Praise the Lord. The antibiotics kicked in God‘s faithful I pray yours Will be too

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