Meet @hopeful33250: Striving so No One Feels Alone with Personal Health Challenges

Mar 16, 2018 | John, Volunteer Mentor | @johnbishop | Comments (28)

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Teresa, mentor

JOHN: Teresa, what brought you to Mayo Clinic Connect? What motivates you to take part in the community?

@hopeful33250: I came to Mayo Clinic Connect after the diagnosis of my third neuroendocrine tumor (NET). I was feeling discouraged and had not been successful in finding others with this rare form of malignancy. I Googled support groups for NET and saw a posting for Mayo Clinic Connect.

I am motivated to take part in the community because I feel it introduces me to people who are dealing with very difficult situations in life — both physical and emotional. I find strength in their stories. Once in awhile, I’m even able to support others who are feeling burdened by their situations — I consider it a win-win relationship.

Connect is a safe place to converse with others. The moderators maintain an environment that reflects kindness and support. They manage to keep the ground of Connect cultivated so that we can all grow stronger together.

JOHN: What groups do you participate in?

@hopeful33250The two groups that I work with as the volunteer mentor are the Neuroendocrine Tumors (NETs) and Parkinson’s Disease groups, as I have personal experience with both. However, I also venture into other areas where I find strong people who share their experiences, their struggles and, of course, their strengths.

I especially enjoy following and posting with the Transplants group and the Mental Health group. In these groups there are many very strong members dealing with significant problems, and sometimes lifelong problems, who are working on building up their own strength and support system for their lives. I am pleased to watch their growth (and mine) as we share together.

JOHN: What surprised you the most about Connect?

@hopeful33250What surprised me was the way so many people are willing to share just where they are at the present time (and often that changes from day to day) as they face different challenges in their lives. I also appreciate the way the community of Connect strengthens each member. Members help each other, give encouraging words of advice and share from their own experiences. In this way, no one ever feels alone in their personal health challenges.

JOHN: What energizes you, or how do you find balance in your life?

@hopeful33250I’m energized by living a balanced life. I’m somewhat of an introvert, so I do find energy by finding some time alone — that includes reading and devotional time. I also find balance by exercise. I belong to several exercise groups, including a Parkinson’s dance class and a sitting Tai-Chi class, which all help with coordination, balance and range of motion, which are important to those of us who have chronic health problems and are aging.

In addition to alone time, I have a great group of friends and family that I get together with. We enjoy conversation, movies, plays and music. My relationships at church are especially important to me, as it helps me to grow my faith.

JOHN: Tell us about your favorite pastime or activity.

@hopeful33250I also enjoy music and activities surrounding music. I’m part of a therapy choir that brings music to folks with closed head injuries as well as other neurological problems. Music has a way of bringing a lift to everyone’s health as well as their spirits.

Since I love to read, I’m also part of a book discussion group at the local library. This encourages me to read at least one book a month (but usually I read more than that).

JOHN: Do you have a favorite quote, life motto or personal mantra?

@hopeful33250Knowledge is power and attitude is everything!

JOHN: What do you appreciate the most in your friends?

@hopeful33250Their kindness, their loyalty and their support. It sets an example for me to do likewise.

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Great to read, @hopeful33250 Teresa! Love this Connect feature! Cheers to you and congrats on being part of a therapy choir! Well done!

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Teresa @hopeful33250 I think I found out a little more about us…I've always considered myself mostly an introvert too but I do have the extrovert hiding inside me. When I found this explanation it made sense.

6 Signs You’re An Extroverted Introvert
https://introvertspring.com/6-signs-youre-an-extroverted-introvert/

Happy Friday!!
John

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Great feature Teresa @hopeful33250! John @johnbishop, that is a great article–I am completely getting #1 and #2. There is a need for hiding in my book at home under a blanket after too much socializing, lol.

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@johnbishop

Teresa @hopeful33250 I think I found out a little more about us…I've always considered myself mostly an introvert too but I do have the extrovert hiding inside me. When I found this explanation it made sense.

6 Signs You’re An Extroverted Introvert
https://introvertspring.com/6-signs-youre-an-extroverted-introvert/

Happy Friday!!
John

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John, that was a good article about being an extroverted introvert. So true!

Teresa

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You sound like one who has the right attitude and does the right things. Not all the will-power in the world will enable everyone to be that way. These things must be partly genetic.

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@hopeful33250 Teresa, thank you for sharing with us and for working to make Connect a place for everyone.
Jen

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@jshdma

You sound like one who has the right attitude and does the right things. Not all the will-power in the world will enable everyone to be that way. These things must be partly genetic.

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Hello @jshdma

You know, I don't see it as will power or genetics. My upbringing did not create this way of thinking. I believe the key to living beyond yourself is in the word, resilience. My resilience comes from my faith and belief in the importance of reaching out to others. A good book about resilience is one written by Eric Greitens. If it is at your library you might check it out.

Teresa

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@sandytoes14

@hopeful33250 Teresa, thank you for sharing with us and for working to make Connect a place for everyone.
Jen

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@sandytoes14 Thank you, Jen. However, Connect has given a lot back to me and I'm sure we all feel that way. I certainly appreciate all that you, John and Lisa have done to make Spotlight what it is!

Teresa

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Good words of wisdom. More, and the right kind of, exercise is one area I need to build into my daily routine.

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@hopeful33250 Teresa, so nice to get to know you better. I enjoyed reading this interview.
JK

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@johnbishop

Teresa @hopeful33250 I think I found out a little more about us…I've always considered myself mostly an introvert too but I do have the extrovert hiding inside me. When I found this explanation it made sense.

6 Signs You’re An Extroverted Introvert
https://introvertspring.com/6-signs-youre-an-extroverted-introvert/

Happy Friday!!
John

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@johnbishop Thanks for the links, John. I definitely fit in the extroverted introvert category at times, and at times I am just a simple introvert. In the article one of the few things that did not fit me was talking on the phone. I enjoy having a good chat with someone I am close to, probably more than an in person chat because you can escape more easily when that time comes!
JK

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@contentandwell

@hopeful33250 Teresa, so nice to get to know you better. I enjoyed reading this interview.
JK

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Thanks, @contentandwell

It looks like you are posting a new picture these days. I like the hairstyle!

Teresa

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