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I am extremely stressed about my daughter's cancer recurrence. She will not talk to me about it.
I don't feel she's taking care of herself, but she's an adult so I cannot do anything.

Dear Friend,

I can imagine your stress and concern for your daughter. My oldest struggled with chemical dependency for 20 years. It drove us insane. I reached a point where I could sort of detach from her but not the 5 kids she accumulated along the way! My advice is to take care of yourself first. Eat well, walk every day and get good sleep. A cup of Sleepy Time tea at night helps believe it or not! Home cooked meals are a blessing--to anyone and everyone. I make family favorites and double the amount--dropping off 1-2 meals a week. I remember one time in particular, when she was pregnant with #4 and just completing another treatment program. She was so skinny. I was certain our little Jayden would be born with multiple problems. Did I say she was sooooo skinny!! And half way thru her pregnancy. I was so sad and scared. A voice (probably my dear Father's from heaven) said, "just feed her!" And I did! Jayden Jax was born on Jan. 26 2019 over 8 lbs. He is healthy and smart and the light of my life. He is a miracle to me. There was nothing I could really do except take care of myself to BE there. See if you can find some healthy menus for her and drop off a meal or two a week. Good luck to you and your daughter!

Thank you for replying. Also, thanks for the tips.

We never expected this to happen. It has impacted all our lives. Sometimes, I have to just try not to feel.

I'm happy your grandchild came out healthy. How's your daughter? Did she recover?
Thank you again