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Why is this person bullying me?
Someone I know is a narcissistic bully who is emotionally abusing me. They tattle on me every time I call them out. They have threatened to call the police on me and have spread lies that I’m hacking them (I have no clue how to hack computers) and that I sent their friends death threats (I don’t even know who their friends are). I don’t know why they hate me and I don’t want to go to jail. Can you help me?
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@herecomesthedazzler
Welcome to Mayo Connect. Whether you’re an adult or child, no one should have to tolerate it. Most articles deal with childhood bullying, but adults can experience at home, from friend, in workplace, or online.
When I run into people who are narcissistic or who make my life miserable, I distance myself from them.
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7 Reactions@roch This person is my cousin.
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2 Reactions@herecomesthedazzler distance yourself from this person!
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6 Reactions@rashida I have reported my abuser.
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4 ReactionsI’m being stalked!
@herecomesthedazzler, I'm sorry to hear that you continue to be harassed. Please report this person to the police.
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8 ReactionsWouldn't this person have to have proof of their allegations? I agree. Get the police involved.
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3 ReactionsStart keeping a diary of interactions with this person. Get photos or videos if possible. It will be good evidence for the police
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4 Reactions@laura1970 I have already reported this person.
@herecomesthedazzler definitely report this person as soon as you can and get someone to help you that can see your being stalked, call the cops.