Talking Frankly about Living with Advanced Cancer
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Thanks. After my sister Anne's next CAT scan which comes after her 5th chemo treatment, we will be evaluating her next move. Possibly to the Mayo clinic. I'm still curious about alternative treatments that I have heard good things about.
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1 Reaction@dc4444 I am a patient at Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville. I have been very impressed with all my treatments there.
They are fast efficient and treat the whole patient not just the disease.
I would get a second opinion from them for sure.
I wish you and your sister the best.
Jackie
HI,
Has anyone tried alternative treatments such as oxygenation therapies and/or immune enhancement therapies (IV vitamin C) ?
HI,
4 chemo meds: Irinotecan, Leucovorin, Oxaliplatin, Fluorouracil.
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Firstly thank you the replies. Yes I started Chemo on the 29th March 2019. I will have chemo 6 x every 3 weeks. The links are very helpful and informative.
Welcome to Connect, @rwb28076.
You may wish to connect with other members living with lymphoma in the Blood Cancers group here: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/blood-cancers-disorders/
You could take part in this discussion
- Lymphoma https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/lymphoma-1/
Richard, have you started treatment yet?
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1 ReactionHi Dan,
@burrkay and @travelgirl can tell you more about Mayo Clinic Jacksonville and the cancer center there. @chemobile speaks of his experience with pancreatic cancer and treatment at Mayo Clinic Jacksonville in this post https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/need-patients-experience-with-mayo-clinic-is-it-worth-it/
You might also be interested in these discussions on Connect
- what to expect end of life pancreatic cancer metastized to liver? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/what-to-expect-end-of-life-pancreatic-cancer-metastized-to-liver/
- Pancreatic Cancer Stage IV and in partial remission https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/pancreatic-cancer-stage-iv-and-in-partial-remission/
What chemo regimen is your sister currently receiving?
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1 Reactionhttps://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/chemotherapy/in-depth/get-ready-for-possible-side-effects-of-chemotherapy/art-20111159
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1 ReactionHi My name is Richard. I have been diagnosed with Diffuse Large B Cell Lymphoma. I live in Johannesburg. South Africa. I find the support is lacking (in South Africa) as to how one reacts to the chemo. What to expect, chemo brain and so forth. Does anyone have any suggestions as to obtaining futher info?
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1 Reaction@dc4444 I wish I had answers to all your questions. In my experience, each patient has a plan designed specifically for them by their doctors. So my recommendation is to find doctors you like and trust and listen to them. I was diagnosed at Stage 2b in May, 2014. I had a Whipple procedure done at Mayo in Rochester followed by 18 infusions of gemcitabine at my local hospital. I am scheduled to go to Mayo in June for my (final?) checkup. Up to this time I have remained cancer free. Praying that your sister can find answers and a treatment that works for her.
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