Talking Frankly about Living with Advanced Cancer

Are you living with advanced cancer (sometimes referred to as stage 4 or metastatic cancer)?
This discussion is a safe space where you can connect with others to talk about the realities of living with limited time. It's not easy to find people who understand what it is like. For many reasons, you may not feel comfortable talking about your thoughts and emotions with friends or family. Perhaps you are alone. Even if you are surrounded by people who support you, you may experience intense loneliness.

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Profile picture for richcolleen @richcolleen

Lung stage 4. After chemo treatment usually sick 6-10 days. Only ear crackers when take pills twice daily. Never feel good but get very weak as nothing stays down. Need food to get back strength as get treatment every 21 days.

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Has anyone had scabs on their heads? What does one do for that? Did hair grow back?

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Profile picture for rochellewisner @rochellewisner

I did the 72 hr fast for my first chemo for Ovc , now that’s a long fast! Carbo & Doxel , I didn’t get sick on the third day.

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I think fasting helps with nausea during chemo. But 72 hours? Wow. Your hair do looks exactly like mine! My doc thinks it is Cute!!!

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Profile picture for starko @starko

Ovarian 3C. Honestly, once you get into fasting you will find it easier and certainly you will feel so much better. I do.

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I did the 72 hr fast for my first chemo for Ovc , now that’s a long fast! Carbo & Doxel , I didn’t get sick on the third day.

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@starko I find this interesting. Do you allow yourself clear fluids during your fast, meaning not just water but perhaps tea and broth?
Ginger

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Hi Ginger! Yes, definitely liquids, water, broth, tea coffee, a glass of wine. Works for me!

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Profile picture for starko @starko

Just want to say I truly believe in fasting. I fasted for at least 36 hours each time I had chemo and although it was never a walk in the park, I never felt even remotely nauseous. I am in remission but still fast 16 hours for five days each week. It makes me sleep better and gives me energy.

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@starko I find this interesting. Do you allow yourself clear fluids during your fast, meaning not just water but perhaps tea and broth?
Ginger

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Lung stage 4. After chemo treatment usually sick 6-10 days. Only ear crackers when take pills twice daily. Never feel good but get very weak as nothing stays down. Need food to get back strength as get treatment every 21 days.

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Profile picture for richcolleen @richcolleen

What type of cancer do you have? That’s a lot of fasting and don’t know I could do it but try.

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Ovarian 3C. Honestly, once you get into fasting you will find it easier and certainly you will feel so much better. I do.

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What type of cancer do you have? That’s a lot of fasting and don’t know I could do it but try.

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Profile picture for rochellewisner @rochellewisner

I’m on my second recurrence now, with Carbo and Doxil, the third was my bad day, but it could have been worst if I hadn’t fasted for 60 hours.
And that was hard, I like to eat, but I was told the best way to do it was to fast and it effects the cancer cells harder! Well I like that idea, and I didn’t get very much nausea either.
So far so good.
I declined on the major surgery , because I didn’t think I could handle it, but mostly because they have shown that taking Chemo or the surgery doesn’t show any difference in recurrence. In fact Germany is really studying this idea and believe the Chemo does the same results without the damage the surgery does to our bodies.

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Just want to say I truly believe in fasting. I fasted for at least 36 hours each time I had chemo and although it was never a walk in the park, I never felt even remotely nauseous. I am in remission but still fast 16 hours for five days each week. It makes me sleep better and gives me energy.

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