severe anxiety episodes

Posted by scottwag32 @scottwag32, Dec 31, 2023

so my son (40 yrs old) broke a finger playing volleyball. On his way to his first rehab he had a major anxiety attack to the point of passing out and being taken to the hospital. This was a first for any such happening.
Numerous appointments, numerous tests, numerous specialists and numerous prescribed medications, there has been nothing that has helped or prevented these episodes from occurring since. It has been approx 9 months since the first. He has lost his long time gf and moved back to the area and actually back with his parents until a cure or treatment can be found. In addition he gets very nauseated. Not sure which one may cause the other. The last recommendation was for him to see a anxiety specialist which are hard to come by and the few that exist are booked out for months. Any help or recommendations would be greatly appreciated.

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How did he respond to benzodiazepines like Xanax during a panic attack? Benzodiazepines should only be used when you actually are having a panic attack. A benzodiazepine taken one time or two times per week it should be helpful along with therapy. You should be able to get teletherapy right away. I reciently enrolled in therapy just with Google and had my first appointment two days later.

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I had a similar issue at that age.

After a lucky coincidence, I learned I had severe sleep apnea. Treatment for that calmed me down a lot.

Panic attacks returned later when I had a very high-stress job and a murderous commute. I was desperate for help. At that time, I learned of something called EFT, or Emotional Freedom Technique, AKA "Tapping". It uses tapping on acupressure points to address various issues.

EFT really changed my life. It took some time and some practice, but I found it to be highly effective for dealing with anxiety (and other stuff).
One of the best things -- there are lots of free YouTube videos that you can use. One good example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ig6QRNUTdY&pp=ygUXanVsaWUgc2NoaWZmbWFuIGFueGlldHk%3D

Give it a try. I know it seems weird at first, but more and more people are getting good results.

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@scottrl

I had a similar issue at that age.

After a lucky coincidence, I learned I had severe sleep apnea. Treatment for that calmed me down a lot.

Panic attacks returned later when I had a very high-stress job and a murderous commute. I was desperate for help. At that time, I learned of something called EFT, or Emotional Freedom Technique, AKA "Tapping". It uses tapping on acupressure points to address various issues.

EFT really changed my life. It took some time and some practice, but I found it to be highly effective for dealing with anxiety (and other stuff).
One of the best things -- there are lots of free YouTube videos that you can use. One good example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ig6QRNUTdY&pp=ygUXanVsaWUgc2NoaWZmbWFuIGFueGlldHk%3D

Give it a try. I know it seems weird at first, but more and more people are getting good results.

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Thanks, Scott....I'm going to check that out. I do take 1 mg. of Xanax daily....have had horrible panic attacks & in general, anxiety. I wish I didn't have to take anything at all....but this has gone on for years. I'm determined to be happy, though....and always hope for the best. Thanks again!! 🙂

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@monica1234

Thanks, Scott....I'm going to check that out. I do take 1 mg. of Xanax daily....have had horrible panic attacks & in general, anxiety. I wish I didn't have to take anything at all....but this has gone on for years. I'm determined to be happy, though....and always hope for the best. Thanks again!! 🙂

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Let me know how it goes, Monica!

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@scottrl

Let me know how it goes, Monica!

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I just watched it, Scott...did the 'tapping' as she did it. My Nephew was told to do that at one time...he was having so much anxiety, a bad marriage and panic attacks. I needed to SEE the video, though (thank you!!)...I think it DOES help....not to the point where ALL of the anxiety melts away....depending on how bad it is at the time....I think just verbalizing what you're going through, as she did....and accepting it....plus loving yourself and not feeling negative thoughts about yourself, helps....and the tapping calms you and takes your mind off some of what you are feeling. I'm going to try this when I'm away from home...LOL not tapping my whole body as she was doing, people are going to look at me as if I'm nuts... 🙂 ....but against my hand, maybe my arm, something like that....and say the affirmations in my head. It DID help me feel more relaxed. I am SO thankful that it helped you. We ALL deserve to feel better!!

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@monica1234

I just watched it, Scott...did the 'tapping' as she did it. My Nephew was told to do that at one time...he was having so much anxiety, a bad marriage and panic attacks. I needed to SEE the video, though (thank you!!)...I think it DOES help....not to the point where ALL of the anxiety melts away....depending on how bad it is at the time....I think just verbalizing what you're going through, as she did....and accepting it....plus loving yourself and not feeling negative thoughts about yourself, helps....and the tapping calms you and takes your mind off some of what you are feeling. I'm going to try this when I'm away from home...LOL not tapping my whole body as she was doing, people are going to look at me as if I'm nuts... 🙂 ....but against my hand, maybe my arm, something like that....and say the affirmations in my head. It DID help me feel more relaxed. I am SO thankful that it helped you. We ALL deserve to feel better!!

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I'm glad it helped, Monica.

I hope you'll stick with it. In my case, feeling anxious had become a reflex to just about every situation. It took me a while to un-learn that and realize there was an alternative to pressing the panic button..

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@michaelhall

How did he respond to benzodiazepines like Xanax during a panic attack? Benzodiazepines should only be used when you actually are having a panic attack. A benzodiazepine taken one time or two times per week it should be helpful along with therapy. You should be able to get teletherapy right away. I reciently enrolled in therapy just with Google and had my first appointment two days later.

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Xanax helps, but has negative side affects. Not sure if he’s been prescribed Benz.

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@scottrl

I'm glad it helped, Monica.

I hope you'll stick with it. In my case, feeling anxious had become a reflex to just about every situation. It took me a while to un-learn that and realize there was an alternative to pressing the panic button..

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That is exactly what I need to realize, Scott. I've had anxiety for so long...and easily felt panic....I need that 'alternative', also. Going through grief, too...never been this bad, but I still have faith things will get better! 🙂 Supposed to have an appointment soon with a counselor, just waiting on it. It's hard for me to reach out for help. Have a great day, Scott and thank you.

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Scott I had for 2 years, depression, anxiety, panic attack’s all the time. I was a salesman and often had get up in front of people. Try bio feedback, it teaches you to relax. But you need to fix where your anxiety comes from. Mine was bad marriage, bad boss, money issues, pain issues. I know what you’re going through and it’s horrible. But you can climb out of it, talk to a professional, psychologist. ( for medication ) Plus try to get out of what’s making you suffer. Good luck

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