Rectal Cancer, Diapers, Diapers, Diapers.

Posted by jmy75 @jmy75, May 22, 2024

I bought a 26 pack of diapers for my dad on Monday, and in 2 days he's gone through 16 of them, so 8 a day.

Is this normal for anyone with rectal cancer? He has incontinence, and sometimes can't control it, but his frequency has gone up. And besides being expensive, it's a constant problem for him.

Just wondering.

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@colleenyoung

@jmy75, how are you and your dad doing?

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Um, well, I bought these super absorbent diapers for him, and they work but a)there's so much padding it makes him very uncomfortable and b)they're very expensive. Otherwise he wears store bought diapers and he has accidents through them and I do laundry a lot.

He's very weak. I am giving him iron and b12 to help him with it, because I think he loses blood when he wipes. Idk if that will help or not.

Otherwise, we have an upcoming doctor's appointment. The goal is that hopefully it won't spread for a while and he can live comfortably.

Thank you for your question.

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@amyb5

Hi Yancy,
I’m sorry you are also in this boat. I completed treatment for anal ca on 5/19/23, 30 radiation treatments and FU5. It was extremely hard, & very painful. It helped to have a hand held bidet sprayer on the toilet. You can get them through Amazon. It was inexpensive & really easy to install. The other things that helped were Refresh brand, unscented toilet paper moistener & aquaphor ointment (the hospital provided that). I hesitated to take the pain meds, because of allergies, I wouldn’t do that again. You will get through it, but it is hard. I’m sending you best wishes. Good luck.❤️

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Hi, Amy. Where did you have the pain, in the anal area or throughout your body? I’m typing this during my first infusion! I’ll have another in four weeks. I’ve also finished four radiations.

What brand of handheld sprayer did you get?

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