Prolapsed rectum: living with it versus surgery

Posted by ejoy @ejoy, Apr 24, 2023

In December of 2018 I had a full hysterectomy at the recommendation of my GYN. That is another story but important to this post. In 2019 I started having a bulge protrude from my rectum and I thought it was a hemorrhoid. I started self treatment to no avail. I finally saw a GI doctor and was told I had a prolapsed rectum. I had multiple tests performed on my bladder and rectum (just awful) which were all normal. They could not see any link between the hysterectomy and my current issue. (This was the same healthcare system so I am guessing it was in their best interest not to find a link.)

So my question is does any other member have this condition and what is / was your solution? The surgery sounds horrible, the doctor said it is sometimes not 100% effective. 95% of the time it will retract when urinating or having a bowel movement. My greatest frustration is when taking long walks or hiking it and any fecal matter starts coming out.

I am 68 yo and don’t know whether to live with it and only do surgery if it becomes 0% retractable, which could mean being at an advanced age and not healing as well, or do the surgery now while in good health and healing would be easier.

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KY jelly. Retracts prolapse. I said to my GI doc, what did you just do!!? It was gentle & soothing. Then I got some jel for tender bum, they use on babies. Keep baby wipes in bathroom. I used kleenex to push my back in place & I tore skin. Be gentle & take care. There's no way you cannot go on without this surgery. Recovery is easier than dealing w it

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Stool can lodge is a prolapsed rectum as it is stretched out, often forming a pocket. I never (knowingly) had it protrude from the rectum.

The way to tell the difference, per Cleveland Clinic:

Hemorrhoids
Swollen veins in the anal canal and around the rectum. Symptoms include bleeding, itching, pain, swelling, and bulging veins.

Rectal prolapse
A condition where the rectum slips down into the anus. Symptoms include bleeding, a bulge outside the anus, itching, and the feeling of sitting on a ball.

Here are some other differences between hemorrhoids and rectal prolapse:

Location
Hemorrhoids are located near the anal opening, while rectal prolapse involves a higher segment of the bowel.

Causes
Rectal prolapse is caused by weakened muscles that hold the rectum in place.

Treatment
Hemorrhoids can be treated to help patients feel more comfortable and avoid complications. Rectal prolapse usually requires surgery to fix.

Progression
Rectal prolapse tends to develop gradually, starting with the prolapse coming out after a bowel movement and then returning to its normal position.

Because neither condition has specific symptoms, it's important to see a medical specialist for a diagnosis. A doctor may perform a physical exam and request additional tests, such as an x-ray or anorectal manometry.

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It sounds like prolapse. Came on rather quickly. Specifically after a fall on my left hip and bum
I’m concerned it could be from my severe lumbar stenosis wreaking havoc with nerve function. I’ve made an appointment
Thank you for your information
Vicki

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Profile picture for vicscats @vicscats

It sounds like prolapse. Came on rather quickly. Specifically after a fall on my left hip and bum
I’m concerned it could be from my severe lumbar stenosis wreaking havoc with nerve function. I’ve made an appointment
Thank you for your information
Vicki

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Vicki, I'm glad you made an appt. I was afraid that my intestines was going to hit the cold toilet water & I'd go into shock. Keep me posted abt what happens w you. Wishing you complete wellness. shawnkthryn

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You are suffering with a terrible problem that affects you daily and causes embarrassment if you are out and have an accident. If I were in this position, I would absolutely get the surgery done and get it fixed. Living with rectal prolapse on a long-term basis will have serious Mental health effects and the surgery should get you back to normal fairly quickly. Doctors are obligated from a legal standpoint to inform you of the worst case scenario. If your surgeon is a good one, the surgery should be successful and you can go on living a normal life. Good luck and let us know your decision and how you do afterward.

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I had a hysterectomy 40y's ago. I prolapsed this year. If alcoholic I'd of had a relapse. Joke. No not, ok. I'm 66. 1st time I showed dr my prolapse he put KY on a glove a
& it shrunk right into place. I was taking kleenex wound tightly to insert. Scratched /peeled off skin & pain intensified. I've in my chart 3 very large hemorroids. I wasn't concerned re relief surgery. I was afraid my intestines were gonna fall in toilet & I'd suffer instant shock. To live life our bodies go through, well, you know. I'm encouraging you to have the surgery. If not, buy pad liners for underwear. Security I could walk w/o leaking mucous & fecal. God bless you & recovery

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I had this surgery 3 days after my 70th birthday. Recovery was not pleasant but eventually I felt really well. I'd do it again if it was needed.

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Hi would you mind sharing what surgical technique you had and what the recovery was like? Thank you.

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I have some of what you have, but my prolapsed rectum is internal.

I was told, no coughing, no straining and no constipation could keep it from getting worse.

I eat the right foods (for me) and also take supplements so that I am not constipated.

When things go awry and I am constipated in the lower rectum due to the prolapse, I sit on a firm chair a special way to "contract" my internal prolapse. This induces a bowel movement. I do itthis way:

On a firm/hard chair, I sit on my left butt cheek only (leaning farther over to the left) and cross my right thigh over my left thigh, above the knee (leaning into it). Having a fullish belly (hot drink, hot cereal) helps too. The prolapse is pressed into a more normal constipation and I can clear the lodged stool.

This is an "engineering/plumbing" hack.

If I go down the surgery path at some point, I would only consider a Castle Connolly - listed surgeon for it. They are the best doctors. Researched. Listings cannot be bought. The company makes its money another way. Of course, there are non-listed excellent surgeons, but without an inside track on who those are, I will stick to this listing. It's never let me down.

Let us know how you are doing.

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@researchmaven

Thank you so much for the Castle Connolly recommendation. I will definitely use it.

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Profile picture for marysue5 @marysue5

It sounds like you have a mild case at this time. Think carefully about having this surgery. Read the posts of those who have had it. I have had 3 surgeries for vaginal vault prolapse caused mostly from constipation. The same constipation that caused it creates surgical failure. I finally no longer have this bulge but now have a rectocele, which isn't causing too much of a problem overall. At least with vaginal vault prolapse, there are no moving parts if you are done having children and can still have sex. The vagina doesn't do much after birthing. This is not the case with the rectum, which we still need for evacuation. Nerves are involved and can be damaged. About a year ago, a rectal prolapse, which wasn't too bad got very bad after a bout with food poisoning and another case of stomach flu caused diarrhea. As long as I don't let myself get constipated I'm OK, although I wear tight shorts over my regular underwear with a pantie liner or a sanitary pad. I bought these shorts from a company called Marena. They are expensive, but worth it. I recently found a company called Underworks. They make underpants for vaginal vault prolapse but I find when the rectal prolapse is acting up because of trouble evacuating which creates a large bulge. they work very well. I bought 2 types of pants, a French cut brief and a boy cut/boxer style brief. I'm not overweight, but I find the regular brief is binding my legs (I may try the next larger size) but the boxer style #523 is working very well. They come in different colors and I like black. These are well priced compare to competitive products and I am going to get more pairs. They are made in America, which I also like. Surgery is not a cure all and from what I have read from people who have had it can cause a real nightmare. It would be a last resort for me. I have prayed for a solution and these pants may be it. I am also working on the constipation (still) and finally willing to give up cheese, which is one of my favorite foods. I have been taking 1 tablespoon of Metamucil with 8 ounces or more water every day and doing Kegals and exercises to improve the tone of the pelvic floor. This may be helping. I wish every woman on this board knew about the Underworks product. If you go to a surgeon you are going to get surgery and in this case I think you are taking a big risk. I hope and pray I can avoid it.

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@marysue5 I just joined this Connect group and just resding about others who have rectal prolapse is so helpful. I am 72 yrs old, always had constipation problems….this rectal prolaspe started slowly about 15 yrs ago. Now it happens every day when I have a bm. I can push it back in, but it is a big buldge. Surgery was recommended to me 2 yrs ago when I finally consulted a dr…and I agree with you when you said “ I think you are taking a big risk”. I am managing right now although it
is always a big concern of mine. I just don’t want to have any surgery unless it is absolutely necessary. One day at a time….thank you for sharing your experiences and thoughts.

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It’s me…ejoy0513! I wrote the original post. So an update.

I had a rectoplexy using suspension in April 2024. The prep is ghastly but the surgery and recovery was not near as bad as I had feared. Constipation afterwards is real so drink water until you can’t drink water anymore, then repeat that every day.

Bad news though, it was not successful. I now have an anterior prolapse and will require surgery again. This time using mesh. I had read some horror stories involving mesh so I had intentionally steered away from surgeons that use it. Well now I am hoping I have found the best surgeon for the mesh procedure. In November ‘25 I will have all the testing repeated involving bladder and rectum. More updates to follow.

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It’s me…ejoy0513! I wrote the original post. So an update.

I had a rectoplexy using suspension in April 2024. The prep is ghastly but the surgery and recovery was not near as bad as I had feared. Constipation afterwards is real so drink water until you can’t drink water anymore, then repeat that every day.

Bad news though, it was not successful. I now have an anterior prolapse and will require surgery again. This time using mesh. I had read some horror stories involving mesh so I had intentionally steered away from surgeons that use it. Well now I am hoping I have found the best surgeon for the mesh procedure. In November ‘25 I will have all the testing repeated involving bladder and rectum. More updates to follow.

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@ejoy Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I look forward to a successful update after November. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

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