please help again-me and my mom

so me and my mom were having so much fun today. we went to target, then got our nails done, then went to 2 ultas and sephoras. then we went home and watched the new episodes of cobra kai. then i tried doing smth on my phone and asked why downtime started befire my other app and she absolutely lost it. literally blew up. started screaming at me as loud as she could. and then after a few minutes she came out of her room and asked if i wanted to talk abt it and why i was still crying and i told her "take a guess. what do you think happened? ive tried to talk to you and you dont listen" and she said "no you havent tried talking and ive tried talking the past 2 days and i havent gotten mad at you recently" but in my head i have talked and she just doesnt listen and try to understand me sometimes and i dont care how long its been since ive gotten in trouble she doesnt have the right to treat me like this