Husband had Whipple surgery and chemo: He's uncomfortable
I'm trying to be supportive, but he's to undergo chemo for 6 months, and have 5 to go. He's uncomfortable much of the time. Help!
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Don’t hesitate to contact your Oncologist and let them know right away. They will lead you in the right direction/testing for your husband. Please let us know how he is doing. Will keep him in my prayers.
Hi I would take him back to the hospital to be admitted and thorough review. Make sure you step up and take the lead. 🤗
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1 Reaction<p>My husband had Whipple surgery in Nov 2022, followed by 6 months of chemo. He seemed to be doing well until 2 months ago. He is in lots of pain(shoulders and knee), lacks energy, is lethargic, hasn't gained much weight, has difficulty walking due to joint pain. He also has neuropathy in his hands and feet. His last scan in July was clear; another is scheduled for Oct. I'm concerned. Any tips?</p>
I did have a pylorus saving Whipple
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1 ReactionI also have Dr Jethwa radiation oncologist and Dr Ma was my oncologist at Mayo. Dr Jethwa was great loved him.
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1 ReactionI thought you probably meant Dr Kendrick. I still have part of my pancreas but don’t have my duodenum so chances are I don’t have it but I don’t know. I will ask. I am not diabetic so that’s good. 🙂
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1 ReactionI earlier stated Dr. Kendall, but I meant to say Dr. Kendrick. Was your laparoscopic Whipple done robotically? Did he do a full Whipple or a modified Whipple and preserve your pylorus?
Thanks for your reply. Hearing from someone who precedes me on such a similar path (in the same clinic and with the same surgeon no less) is very helpful. Congrats on your good outcome and ongoing improvement.
You are lucky like me in that I also had a stage 1A adenocarcinoma. Had whipple 12/21 and just got my CT scan and Ca19 results back. Scan okay and Ca 19 at 14. Next check up is in 2/24. Margins clean and lymph nodes too. Elected to take no chemo but some holistic stufff that may or may not be helpful as one never nows. From what you are saying you should be in good shape with this beast and you are at a great clinic as I did my in Dallas.
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4 ReactionsMy results are the same Dr Kendrick was my surgeon everything was done laparoscopically 5 tiny incisions but I can barely see three of them. I am NED. Went back to Mayo for the 3 week intensive radiation vs the 5 week. In the end my tumor was dead he just peeled it off during surgery. The journey is far from over though it’s like having bariatric surgery so you learn to eat all over again and expect to lose weight. I lost 20 lbs I know people who have lost 40 lbs it’s very hard to gain the weight back. My highest CA-19 was in the 60s I believe the highest maybe it was a little higher. I am also done to very low single digits. Best of luck to you. You are in great hands!!
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2 ReactionsThanks so much for your "ramblings"! I'll share your very helpful and encouraging reply with my wife. Like you, I found every aspect of patient care to be exceptional, particularly my specific pancreatic care team, including each and every staff member in gastroenterology, oncology, surgery, etc. Indeed, Mayo Clinic is an amazing place.
I'll be using your endnote comment as good reminder going forward. "Yesterday is a memory, today is a gift, tomorrow is a dream." May I be lucky enough to find myself in your condition a year from now. Best wishes to you and your family.