My Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT/SCT) story: Will you share yours?

Posted by Lori, Volunteer Mentor @loribmt, Feb 14, 2021

The past two years have been a storied journey of facing Acute Myeloid Leukemia and a subsequent bone marrow transplant. Being in a high risk category for relapse for AML, a transplant was necessary. Simply put, it would provide a completely new immune system to fend off any remaining AML cells lurking about in my body, after my original factory installed version had become defective in recognizing them. My husband and I shared a collective sigh of relief with the news that my latest bone marrow biopsy, at 19 months post transplant, showed no AML or the mutation which caused it. My new immune system is working!
While celebrating the results with my husband and a pizza, it occurred to me how far I’ve come and how life has changed in the past two years since the onset of AML and the transplant. There have been some challenging transitions but none insurmountable. Of course, life as a genetically modified organism, with two sets of DNA and a new blood type, can have its turf wars with a few GvHD issues, adaptations to medications and such. But I’m incredibly happy to have a second chance with this generous gift of life from an anonymous donor, and through the medical expertise of my amazing BMT-team at Mayo-Rochester. Hopefully I can meet my donor someday to thank him in person. I did send him a card right after the transplant giving him my “undying” gratitude!
We’ve all been given a gift of life. I’d love to hear your story. Lori

What diagnosis brought you to a BMT?

How has it impacted your life and that of your caregiver?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT) & CAR-T Cell Therapy Support Group.

Good morning all lovely people here ......
Hoping for a new beginning with positive attitude and grateful days .
So, here I would like to ask Is Vitamin D3 a good supplement for a cancer patient to avoid recurrence ??? I read it on an article ,which said about few Supplements to be taken .
Well its going to be a year this month end for my husband for bone marrow transplant for Acute lymphoblastic Leukemia diagnosed last year January 2025.
Although he is doing good but still on recovery mode , he often complains for tiredness and breathing issues . It’s always good to hear about other people’s healing journey for perspective. We should be grateful to God everyday . Please share if your Doctors suggested any Supplements to be taken for Cancer recovery.
Thanks and have a wonderful day everyone .
keep Smiling ,Life is short start living to the fullest .

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@secglc2
Gwen,
I just read your SCT story. Thank you for sharing it.

I pray you are still cancer free. Your praise to God for your recovery is inspiring. You give enormous hope to those of us following you - admittedly with a much simple case of myelofibrosis - but trying to prepare for the SCT.
Thank you again.

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@lorieliebrock
Good to hear from you! I pray you have a complete recovery & that you feel God’s presence near you.
I’m over 6 years cancer free!

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My Story

I am blessed! God worked a miracle through me! I was dying at a Colorado hospital. I was getting weaker and weaker, my fevers kept spiking and the doctors didn’t have a clue! Boarding a medical flight, I was transported to the Mayo Clinic, where God saved me! Let me tell you my story.

It started with flu-like symptoms in early November 2018: I felt terrible, very weak, had night sweats, couldn’t eat. Losing 45 pounds, I was aghast at my appearance, I was emaciated. My primary care doctor sent me to the gastroenterologist, thinking my condition was an ulcer because of the blood in my urine. The gastroenterologist immediately sent me to the ER because I had a high fever and very low blood pressure. My feet and ankles were swollen like softballs.

In early December, I was admitted to the hospital and spent one week there. They ran a bunch of tests, but couldn’t figure out what was wrong. They released me with a diagnosis of “fever of unknown origin.” I was sent home with an appointment to see a rheumatologist. That doctor thought I had Stills disease, so she treated me with steroids for two months while I was at home. Each day was a distressing surprise of further deteriorating problems. A urinary tract infection developed, followed by thrush in my mouth. I also experienced the most embarrassing thing, my rectum came outside my anus. A visit to the proctologist was needed to get it put back in. Living on the couch, I was so tired and thirsty all the time. The steroids helped a little bit. They barely got me through Christmas, but I was still having terrible night sweats, changing my pajamas three times a night because of being drenched in sweat. In late January 2019 ,the rheumatologist sent me to the hospital, via the ER where I spent the month of February.

Too weak to lift a fork, severe anemia was rampant, iron blood levels fell below 7 g/dL (normal is 12-15 g/dL). Multiple blood transfusions were administered and iron was given by IV. My arms turned black from the incessant needle poking. The doctors gave me on multiple occasions a cocktail of medicine, which gave me nightmares. They did multiple tests, including a brain biopsy. The surgeon hit the mark, but touched my brain, which caused a stroke, resulting in numbness to my left side. I couldn’t walk, my mouth was drooping, oxygen was given at three to four liters per minute, and my feet and legs were swelling greatly. My temperature would roller coaster from mid 80s°F to 103°F. Time was a blur during the disease, all sense of time and space was lost. The simple task of thinking required intense concentration. The doctors there could not determine a diagnosis. Meanwhile, I was getting weaker all the time. The doctors couldn’t tell me anything in terms of my diagnosis. They couldn’t even come up with a plan for diagnosis. My frustration was increasing. Bedsores were beginning to develop on my body.

Through the grace of God and my husband’s diligent work, I was medical flighted to the Mayo Clinic on March 7, 2019. Upon arriving at St. Marys, we felt a sense of peace. God’s presence is evident there. It was comforting to see a picture of Jesus or a cross in every hospital room.

Within two days, the doctors at Mayo took 750 ml of fluid off my lungs, which resulted in no longer needing oxygen. I had several blood transfusions and plasma transfusions while at St Marys. Several units of iron for my anemia were applied. I was incontinent. Then within five days of arriving at Mayo, the doctors at Mayo diagnosed me with Primary CNS Lymphoma,(diffuse large B cell) a rare and aggressive white blood cell cancer. The tumor was deep within my brain, and inoperable. They started chemotherapy and physical therapy. Getting around for the next few weeks required using a walker. The goal of many a day was simply a walk and a shower. I felt Jesus with me. He prevented me from having any pain and told me that I was going to be all right. I was in hospitals at Mayo Clinic continuously from March to late May. Then, in and out of the hospital through August.

Stuart and I moved to Rochester, Minnesota for six months. God bless my cousin and her in-laws for offering their house to use for two months free of charge! Then we rented a house in nearby St. Charles for a couple of months. After that, the doctor wanted us closer to the hospital, so God blessed us with an apartment in a park by a stream, Cascade Creek. We often walked along the stream, as it was a joy to us.

To my great delight, God provided a divine appointment(coincidence) one day when 2 nurses walked in my room and introduced themselves with the same 2 names as my daughters!

I was treated with MRT chemotherapy for six months. At this point, my PET, brain MRI, CAT scans and extensive blood tests were all negative! I was now a candidate for a stem cell transplant. A growth factor drug called neupogen was given to me. This drug told my stem cells to report to the bloodstream. It worked so well, the doctor jokingly called me an over-achiever! My body produced double the stem cells needed and in only one day, which is uncommon. I had an autologous (from my own stem cells) stem cell transplant in August 2019. I was cured and released after 21 days! The chemo wiped out my childhood immunizations, so I had to get those again.

God worked through the doctors and nurses at the Mayo Clinic. I am forever grateful to them. Being treated with respect and love is standard care for them. I am thankful for all the hospital visits from family, friends and the pastor from my church. I was especially elated to see my daughters come to visit me both in Denver and Rochester. Their presence was comforting to me, along with my mom, and sisters who also came. Thanks to my friends, and brother-in-law, for their multiple trips to see me. It was good to see my cousin, and his wife, who were at Mayo for his checkup. It was also good to see Stuart’s cousin, and his wife, who were also at Mayo for his checkup. My sweet hairdresser stopped by the hospital to cut my hair. That brightened my day! I am thankful for all the prayers from family, friends, and the church. My mother texting me scripture verses every day, along with receiving wonderful cards from family and friends, and Stuart bringing in music kept me upbeat. I was amazed by all the prayer chains I was in around the country. Prayers are powerful! I am especially thankful to my husband, Stuart who fought for me and stood by me through it all. We are both so grateful to Stuart’s employer for providing great insurance and time off.

The difference between for profit and non-profit medicine became very apparent. We were bombarded with separate bills from every provider I had at the Colorado hospital. Most of the providers at this hospital are contractors. Mayo presented us with one bill. With the Colorado hospital, it was all about the money; with Mayo it was all about the patient. Mayo works as a team and they put the patient first.

Our insurance, United Health Care took care of us. They stood by us when battling for my records and for release with the Colorado hospital, they communicated with Mayo Clinic. They called many times to check up on me. They stood by their amazing benefit plan. They provided a jet and ambulances to get me to Mayo.

I was in the hospital continually from February through May, then off and on through August as I received chemotherapy. I don’t know God’s purpose for this illness, but He filled my heart with such tremendous love and joy. I hope the light of Jesus shone through me during this time.
In God’s graciousness, He cured my severe lactose intolerance and changed my straight, thin, blonde hair to thick, dark, beautiful curls!

Recently was my one year checkup, with clear results! I’m back to hiking, gardening, volunteering and Bible study.

God is good!

In His Name,

Gwen Collins

Psalm 30:2 O Lord my God, I called to you for help and you healed me.

Psalm 34:7 The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear him and he delivers them.

1Peter 5:10-11 And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. To him be the power for ever and ever. Amen.

Is 38:16 . . . You restored me to health and let me live.

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@secglc2
Gwen,
I just read your SCT story. Thank you for sharing it.

I pray you are still cancer free. Your praise to God for your recovery is inspiring. You give enormous hope to those of us following you - admittedly with a much simple case of myelofibrosis - but trying to prepare for the SCT.
Thank you again.

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To all my fellow PMT friends on here. I was reminded on my breast cancer zoom meeting today, that it is hard to understand unless you have had the cancer. For me, a lumpectomy was not in my cards. Those not having a mastectomy do not know how it feels to be a women or man without the breasts you were born with,
On this thread we have all had Bome marrow biopsies, often more than one.
Then the transplant.
Last night i had Bunco and one of the subs is a woman whose husband died of leukemia. She was subbing for the women whose husband also passed from cancer. In both cases, I knew their husbands were being treated. One had been for 6 years. As I recall, he either got his own cells or a child's. It came back. So last night's gal asked me how I was doing. She said you look good. She is the friend of my caregiver's roommate, so she saw me in my 1st 50 days. I told her that to be truthful, I am not thinking daily will i suddenly get side effects?? I have not had them, and I will never know if the research study of an extra pill for 90 days kept me good the crucial first 100 days.

So many of us have similar treatments. For today, I am 1000 times grateful City of Hope, Cedars Sinai and this very connect for all i have received since July of 2021. Being part of a research study is something i would encourage others to look into. You do not have to be on the 1st line. I think i got in on the 3rd group. In some cases, it may be of help. One more thing, is in my original oncology post after my last Friday yearly update, I am listed under "longitudinal study patient".
So many people do not have connections on these journeys. Here we get reminded that there are resources. Counselors and zoom meetings and what we find here. Truth in the written word.
I hope some people pop back in with updates.

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On World Cancer Day Feb 4,2026 >>>>>
We stand United for Hope ,strength and resilience .Together through awareness, Early care and advanced treatment amazing Doctors and Nurses we fight Cancer stronger than ever.
I salute each one of you who is going through with Cancer .
You all are fighters and Survivors
Don't give up .......keep fighting .

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@dwolden Thanks for posting this resource! I launched a new discussion this morning and added your suggestion of bmtinfonet.org to the list of helpful transplant resources!

Here’s the new discussion. https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/bone-marrowstem-cell-transplant-informational-websites/

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@loribmt thanks Lori. You are so well organized.

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17 months post allo SCT and my husband is dealing with chronic GVHD (apparently relatively mild). I wanted to share the new resource we have found:
https://bmtinfonet.org/
For all things transplant.

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@dwolden Thanks for posting this resource! I launched a new discussion this morning and added your suggestion of bmtinfonet.org to the list of helpful transplant resources!

Here’s the new discussion. https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/bone-marrowstem-cell-transplant-informational-websites/

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17 months post allo SCT and my husband is dealing with chronic GVHD (apparently relatively mild). I wanted to share the new resource we have found:
https://bmtinfonet.org/
For all things transplant.

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@katgob Hi Kat! Congrats on the great blood numbers!! Even though you’re not anticipating anything amiss, it’s still a relief to actually see the numbers holding steady! I’m hoping for the same news when I have my check-in with my local H/Oncol the end of March. He wanted to do labs twice per year, every 6 months. But it worked out such that I see him once per year, then see my BMT doctor at the 6 month mark. So I still get checked twice annually but once per doctor. My last one with the BMT doctor was the first time in 6 years that everything was perfect! Everything!! Whoo whoo. We were all shocked! 😂. So I’m really hoping it’s the same in another 2 months…
Aw, it’s rough when you lose some favorite nurses or NPs, isn’t it? You become like family with such frequent appointments. I have 2 nurses with whom I remained friends since my AML days. We try to get out to dinner a couple times a year to catch up.
You mentioned writing to your donor again. I’ve tried several times to no avail. He continues to not respond to the my attempts to initiate contact. Kind of bummed about that because I’d love for him to know what an amazing gift he gave me. Though I know he owes me nothing, I owe him everything! Have you ever heard back from your donor?

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@loribmt
Thank you for this message. I may message my NP to keep me posted. I had not reached out to my donor yet. First tomorrow to the department that initiated my first message.
I hope your numbers are steady and good too. But as we both know, our medical teams are ready always. So are our attitudes and willingness to see life as it comes will keep us going forward. Blessed to be alive.
Also, my NP said to write. Tell him he gave you your life.
I hope you have a wonderful day.

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Found this on the NBMT link page on Facebook. I highly recommend NBMT link as a great resource.
🧠 Coping with the Battlefield of the Mind on a BMT Journey
1. Understanding the Mental Battlefield
A bone marrow transplant is as much a psychological and emotional challenge as it is a medical one. Survivors often describe it as a “battle of endurance—both in body and mind.”
Fear, isolation, and uncertainty are common, especially during long hospital stays or when post-transplant complications like GVHD arise.
According to the National Comprehensive Cancer Network (NCCN) Distress Management Guidelines, cancer patients should be routinely screened for emotional distress, as it can impact recovery, adherence to treatment, and overall quality of life.
The American Society for Transplantation and Cellular Therapy (ASTCT) emphasizes a mind-body approach—recognizing that mental health directly affects immune recovery and physical resilience.
“Your mind will try to convince you that you can’t.
Your spirit must whisper back: ‘I already am.’”
2. Common Mental Health Challenges After BMT
Emotional Challenge What It Feels Like Professional Insight
Anxiety Fear of relapse, infections, or symptoms returning Practice grounding techniques, mindfulness, or CBT-based coping to reduce rumination
Depression / Hopelessness Feeling like life is on hold or changed beyond recognition NCCN recommends early mental health referral and antidepressant therapy when appropriate
Identity Loss Feeling “different” from who you were before transplant Rebuilding identity is a gradual process; working with psycho-oncology or survivorship programs can help
Cognitive Fatigue (“Chemo Brain”) Difficulty focusing, remembering, or multitasking Use pacing, journaling, and cognitive exercises; occupational therapy can help retrain habits
3. Professional Coping Strategies
🩺 Evidence-Based Approaches:
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helps challenge catastrophic thoughts (“What if it comes back?”) and replace them with balanced perspectives.
Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR): Studies show it can reduce anxiety, fatigue, and insomnia in post-transplant survivors.
Support Groups: The Be The Match Patient Support Center and Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (LLS) provide survivor and caregiver peer programs.
Physical Activity: Even light stretching or walking helps regulate mood and sleep, as supported by NCCN Survivorship Guidelines.
🧩 Practical Tips:
Set small, daily goals to restore a sense of purpose.
Journal about fears and progress—it helps “de-clutter” emotional overwhelm.
Allow yourself to grieve your old normal while still making room for new meaning.
4. Survivor Reflections
“During transplant, I fought the urge to quit every single day. But I realized I didn’t need to win every battle—just keep showing up.”
— BMT Survivor, Memorial Sloan Kettering
“I had to stop asking, ‘When will I be me again?’ and start saying, ‘This version of me is still worthy, still fighting.’”
— GVHD Survivor, Johns Hopkins
“The hardest part wasn’t the pain. It was silencing the fear that this would be my whole story. Turns out, it was just the hardest chapter.”
— Allogeneic Transplant Survivor, Stanford
5. Spiritual & Meaning-Based Coping
For many, faith, nature, or a sense of purpose becomes a stabilizing force.
Research on meaning-centered therapy (Memorial Sloan Kettering) shows improved emotional well-being when patients reconnect with values, relationships, and legacy.
Even small rituals—lighting a candle, prayer, listening to music—can help anchor the mind in hope.
“Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means it no longer controls your life.”
6. When to Seek Professional Help
Seek help if you experience:
Persistent sadness or anxiety lasting more than two weeks
Thoughts of self-harm or wishing you wouldn’t wake up
Inability to sleep, eat, or enjoy activities you once liked
Emotional withdrawal or hopelessness
Psychologists, social workers, and oncology therapists are trained to support these challenges. Many major transplant centers (like MSK, Mayo Clinic, and Dana-Farber) have psycho-oncology programs.
7. Closing Reflections: The Mind as a Healing Partner
Your mind is not your enemy—it’s a powerful ally learning how to survive what your body has endured.
Healing after BMT is a process of reclaiming mental strength one thought, one breath, one small victory at a time.
“The mind is a battlefield, yes. But it’s also the birthplace of resilience.”

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