My Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT/SCT) story: Will you share yours?
The past two years have been a storied journey of facing Acute Myeloid Leukemia and a subsequent bone marrow transplant. Being in a high risk category for relapse for AML, a transplant was necessary. Simply put, it would provide a completely new immune system to fend off any remaining AML cells lurking about in my body, after my original factory installed version had become defective in recognizing them. My husband and I shared a collective sigh of relief with the news that my latest bone marrow biopsy, at 19 months post transplant, showed no AML or the mutation which caused it. My new immune system is working!
While celebrating the results with my husband and a pizza, it occurred to me how far I’ve come and how life has changed in the past two years since the onset of AML and the transplant. There have been some challenging transitions but none insurmountable. Of course, life as a genetically modified organism, with two sets of DNA and a new blood type, can have its turf wars with a few GvHD issues, adaptations to medications and such. But I’m incredibly happy to have a second chance with this generous gift of life from an anonymous donor, and through the medical expertise of my amazing BMT-team at Mayo-Rochester. Hopefully I can meet my donor someday to thank him in person. I did send him a card right after the transplant giving him my “undying” gratitude!
We’ve all been given a gift of life. I’d love to hear your story. Lori
What diagnosis brought you to a BMT?
How has it impacted your life and that of your caregiver?
Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT) & CAR-T Cell Therapy Support Group.
Hi @mtoyne2021 I’m in the process of writing a longer reply to you and just wanted you to know that I’ve seen your message. I’m away from my computer right now, so bear with me I’ll be back in a hour or so. I’m so happy you’ve reached out to Connect. The support here is never ending. ☺️
Hi Lori:
My 19 yo daughter was diagnosed with AML with t6;9 mutation October 8th, 2021. We are scheduled for a biopsy November 19th to determine consolidation chemo regimen. BMT tentatively scheduled for January 2021. We're trying to decide where to live post BMT to stay near Mayo in Rochester. Have not toured any places yet. Are looking into Gift of Life, Hyatt House, and Centerstone. Any advice would be very much appreciated.
Thank you for connecting me with this site!
Thank you for sharing your journey! When I read all of the personal stories from fellow transplant members it just amazes me how resilient our bodies are, and really, how resilient WE are to endure all the chemicals, the foreign DNA, the meds and the psychological impact. It’s so wonderful that you’re able to be back working at the job you love and embracing life. Our transplants don’t have to define who we are. But they have given us that second chance at life and I’m thrilled to see you’re embracing each and every moment. I’m the same way! Each day is a gift not to be wasted.
I share your sadness over the loss of fellow transplant friends. My husband and I became good friends with another couple we met going through the same procedure. She and I had our transplants the same day. Her husband and my husband became such good friends over the course of weeks. Sadly, though the doctors tried heroic measures, my friend didn’t make it. It was so disheartening. To be honest, I actually felt some survivor’s guilt for a while.
Aw, meeting your donor had to be such a special moment! And wow, it’s really cool that he and his dad came over from Germany to see you! I’m a little envious because I also had a 20 year old young man but from the US, 10/10. We make a great team, but sadly he hasn’t returned any contact information after I sent the request months ago. It’s ok as he owes me nothing…but I owe him my life and would really like to properly thank him. I’ve sent 2 cards but never had any communication with him. I’d love to know who he is, what motivated him to give his donation and a little more about him. Since transplant, I no longer have a sensitivity to Almonds but I can’t eat Egg-Beaters anymore. LOL.
Did you learn little things like that from your donor? If he had any allergies?
Thanks for sharing your story!
I was diagnosed with AML in March of 2016, and had my stem cell transplant in August of that year. The journey leading up to STC included two induction chemos, which kept me in the hospital for 7 weeks, and then three consolidations. I was in remission and my doctors started talking about doing the transplant. None of my four siblings turned out to be my matches, but a 21 year old German college student was 10/10 match! I'm very grateful that he decided to donate to someone he didn't even know.
My transplant was successful, while two of the friends with AML whom I met during that time did not survive. This was a bitter sweet experience because I survived and was recovering, while they were dying.
Because I had moved twice since my transplant, I'm at my third BMT clinic. This time it's Mayo in Phoenix, AZ. I am very pleased with my doctor and how thorough she is. I feel like I'm in good hands now.
I've had GVHD off and on, and currently have skin GVHD. I'm also in the process of getting a diagnosis for a liver disease. It doesn't looks like GVHD according to my doctor, so I'm waiting do a biopsy and an MRI next week.
I met my donor in July of 2019. He and his dad flew from Germany to meet me. It was such a treat to meet him, to share my story and hear his story of why he chose to donate his stem cells.
After two and a half years out of work, I'm back working in higher ed., doing what I love. I had to move to get this job, but I was determined not to let my health problems stop me. My new normal is very different from what it was before getting AML. I've learned to be grateful for each good day, enjoy simple everyday things, appreciate my family who supports me and thankful to God that I'm still alive.
Miracles really do happen! Thank you for sharing your powerful story❤
2 years is another milestone! Congratulations. I just had my 2nd re-birth day the of June and everything is 100%. I’ll take it!!
I bet you’re like me in that two years ago at this time, no one could have convinced us we’d ever feel this great again, right?
I hope that by sharing your experience you’ll be able to connect with other members facing similar situations.
Have you perused any of the other conversations besides the blood cancer group?
We love Cascade Creek! My husband and I rented a furnished apartment on the creek and walked it every day. I’ve regained my weight & a little more. My energy level is good. I have my 2 year checkup next month. Thanks for your interest!
Gwen, thank you for sharing your powerful story! You've faced some incredible obstacles...another walking miracle. It always amazes me how resilient our bodies are and what we can survive. When you said you felt the sense of peace when arriving at St Mary's at Mayo~Rochester, it rang true for me as well, though I was at the main clinic. Mayo is truly a place of hope and I'm so very glad you were able to find your diagnosis and treatment there.
As a side note, my husband and I spent a lot of our free time walking along Cascade Creek. It was so lovely and calming. Nature is healing.
You were so fortunate to be able to use your own cells for the transplant. That really reduces your recovery time and you don't have to worry about any of the graft vs host issues. How are you feeling physically? Have you regained some of the 45 pounds you lost? How's your energy level?