My Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT/SCT) story: Will you share yours?

Posted by Lori, Volunteer Mentor @loribmt, Feb 14, 2021

The past two years have been a storied journey of facing Acute Myeloid Leukemia and a subsequent bone marrow transplant. Being in a high risk category for relapse for AML, a transplant was necessary. Simply put, it would provide a completely new immune system to fend off any remaining AML cells lurking about in my body, after my original factory installed version had become defective in recognizing them. My husband and I shared a collective sigh of relief with the news that my latest bone marrow biopsy, at 19 months post transplant, showed no AML or the mutation which caused it. My new immune system is working!
While celebrating the results with my husband and a pizza, it occurred to me how far I’ve come and how life has changed in the past two years since the onset of AML and the transplant. There have been some challenging transitions but none insurmountable. Of course, life as a genetically modified organism, with two sets of DNA and a new blood type, can have its turf wars with a few GvHD issues, adaptations to medications and such. But I’m incredibly happy to have a second chance with this generous gift of life from an anonymous donor, and through the medical expertise of my amazing BMT-team at Mayo-Rochester. Hopefully I can meet my donor someday to thank him in person. I did send him a card right after the transplant giving him my “undying” gratitude!
We’ve all been given a gift of life. I’d love to hear your story. Lori

What diagnosis brought you to a BMT?

How has it impacted your life and that of your caregiver?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT) & CAR-T Cell Therapy Support Group.

@leilab1

Lori,
I'm so happy to hear that you are doing well! I'm afraid I have no answers yet and test results may not be available until Tuesday Jan. 2nd. 🙁 Alex's Orthopedist told him there are two possible outcomes: either it's just infection or "something else" which would require surgery.
This leads me to think it could be a synovial cyst (?) Alex isn't presenting with any other symptoms: no headaches, rash, swelling. I mentioned the possibility of GVH and was told they think that's "highly unlikely". I'm really in the dark on this one.
Anita

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Anita, it’s ok to be in the dark about some of the medical issues that may pop up with Alex…that’s why he has doctors. This occurrence with his hip may have nothing to do with his transplant at all. When we go through a life altering event such as a stem cell transplant, it feels natural to correlate every unusual thing that pops with that event. But sometimes things just happen and who knows, they may have taken place anyway. Regardless, we deal with these little events as they come.

Alex is well past the initial critical period of 100 days. So now issues, if any, that may pop up related to his transplant will generally develop slowly without escalating quickly. That was more of a concern in the early days.

I hope everything goes smoothly and no surgery is necessary. It’s not a setback, just a little snag. Please let me know what you found out. ☺️

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@loribmt

Hi @leilab1 There must have been a ‘connection’ between us this morning! I woke up thinking I needed to check with to see how Alex is doing because it had been really quite a while since we’ve spoken. And, boop, here you are!

I’m so happy to hear he’s been doing really well considering all the uncertainty in his earlier days of the transplant. How is his appetite and activity level? Keeping in mind…as I was reminded so many times by my team…this is a marathon, not a race! But with Alex being young, it can be really frustrating not being fully active like he was prior to transplant. It gets better!! Tell him I’m going to be 70 in a few days and feel like I’m 24…seriously! It just takes time! ☺️

This event with his hip isn’t anything I’ve experienced. Has he been doing any extra exertion, exercises, etc., that may have caused inflammation there? Do his doctors feel this is in anyway related to gvhd?

Wishing you and your a family a very happy, Healthy and uneventful New Year!! Lori

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!!

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@loribmt

Hi @leilab1 There must have been a ‘connection’ between us this morning! I woke up thinking I needed to check with to see how Alex is doing because it had been really quite a while since we’ve spoken. And, boop, here you are!

I’m so happy to hear he’s been doing really well considering all the uncertainty in his earlier days of the transplant. How is his appetite and activity level? Keeping in mind…as I was reminded so many times by my team…this is a marathon, not a race! But with Alex being young, it can be really frustrating not being fully active like he was prior to transplant. It gets better!! Tell him I’m going to be 70 in a few days and feel like I’m 24…seriously! It just takes time! ☺️

This event with his hip isn’t anything I’ve experienced. Has he been doing any extra exertion, exercises, etc., that may have caused inflammation there? Do his doctors feel this is in anyway related to gvhd?

Wishing you and your a family a very happy, Healthy and uneventful New Year!! Lori

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Lori,
I'm so happy to hear that you are doing well! I'm afraid I have no answers yet and test results may not be available until Tuesday Jan. 2nd. 🙁 Alex's Orthopedist told him there are two possible outcomes: either it's just infection or "something else" which would require surgery.
This leads me to think it could be a synovial cyst (?) Alex isn't presenting with any other symptoms: no headaches, rash, swelling. I mentioned the possibility of GVH and was told they think that's "highly unlikely". I'm really in the dark on this one.
Anita

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@leilab1

Hi There Lori,
Hoping all is well with you and yours!
Haven't spoken with you in awhile because my son Alex was doing well post-BMT. This all changed a few weeks ago when he developed fluid in his right hip joint. He is now hospitalized (again) and awaiting Interventional Radiology to drain fluid. No diagnosis yet. Any info on post-BMT fluid build-up?
Thanks and Happy New Year!
Anita

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Hi @leilab1 There must have been a ‘connection’ between us this morning! I woke up thinking I needed to check with to see how Alex is doing because it had been really quite a while since we’ve spoken. And, boop, here you are!

I’m so happy to hear he’s been doing really well considering all the uncertainty in his earlier days of the transplant. How is his appetite and activity level? Keeping in mind…as I was reminded so many times by my team…this is a marathon, not a race! But with Alex being young, it can be really frustrating not being fully active like he was prior to transplant. It gets better!! Tell him I’m going to be 70 in a few days and feel like I’m 24…seriously! It just takes time! ☺️

This event with his hip isn’t anything I’ve experienced. Has he been doing any extra exertion, exercises, etc., that may have caused inflammation there? Do his doctors feel this is in anyway related to gvhd?

Wishing you and your a family a very happy, Healthy and uneventful New Year!! Lori

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Hi There Lori,
Hoping all is well with you and yours!
Haven't spoken with you in awhile because my son Alex was doing well post-BMT. This all changed a few weeks ago when he developed fluid in his right hip joint. He is now hospitalized (again) and awaiting Interventional Radiology to drain fluid. No diagnosis yet. Any info on post-BMT fluid build-up?
Thanks and Happy New Year!
Anita

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I have been diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma (MM) since 2019 did Stem Cell Transplant ((SCT)
3 years after I got a relapse in June 2023.
I was recommended immediate treatment with Daratumumab, Velcade, Dexamethasone (DVD).

Daratumumab is extremely expensive as I am an African with no medical insurance. And no insurance company will take me on now.
Back to Lagos, Nigeria I am doing it for half the price which is still extremely expensive. But it’s far better than SCT.
I was informed MM is not curable but treatable.
1. Is bone marrow treatment available in the USA or anywhere in the world now as I will always prefer total cure.
2. Is Daratumumab made for the rich while the poor are allowed to die?
3. Is there any other treatment better than what I am taking now?
4. Is there medicine trials available for me to join?

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@tjakusz

this is SO helpful! Thank you so much! Yes, I would love to read on tips and suggestions. This is quite the journey, so any helpful tips would be most welcome! Thank you so much!

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Good morning! And welcome to the Mayo Clinic. I had my transplant for AML 10 years ago. I know some things have changed and the process has been updated. I was a “guest” of Mayo for 27 glorious days in 2013 during my conditioning chemotherapy. I was running for the door after being in the hospital for almost a month. And I hit the road running after my transplant, recovering at home because Rochester is my also my hometown. Mayo is a wonderful place, filled with caring and compassionate caregivers who live the mission of “the needs of the patient come first”.
I hope your experience will reflect that statement every day. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you a snapshot of MN autumn.

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@leilab1

I'm relieved to say that our son Alex is now back home with us. Blood counts continue on their upward trend. He has responded well to Voriconazole!
My question now has to do with Depression ; could be a side-effect of some of the many medications he is currently taking or could be something else. Today is Day+63 and his appetite has returned for which he is grateful. Any experience with Post-BMT Depression?

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Hi @leilab1. Just checking in on Alex…and you! I’m expecting now that he’s home you’re seeing a marked improvement in his overall health. He’s moving past the critical stages of recovery. Hopefully his depression is easing a bit too.

Some of the depression signs early in transplant can be confused with the malaise that comes from not feeling well. As he recovers, Alex may start perking up simply by getting better nutrition, exercise and being in a normal environment.

Your son has endured a huge life altering ordeal. With that comes some mental, emotional and physical changes and he may go through a mourning period for what he’s lost. Everything has changed for him. @alive had a good suggestion about getting a referral to a therapist. My team was always asking if I wanted to see someone. I didn’t feel as though I needed it. But even now, 4 years later, I probably did myself a great disservice by not taking them up on the offer. I occasionally have moments of PTSD and reliving a few of the seamier moments of my odyssey. So your son may benefit from having a few sessions.

Is he getting outside and walking around more?

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@recipientofgrace

It's a type of leukodystrophy that impacts the microglia. The transplant gives fresh stem cells to take on the roll of my dying support cells in the brain. Nerve damage occurs from the microglia not functioning well and dying off. Mayo had a news story a few years back on someone who did very well after a transplant for the condition.

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Good morning, Grace. I will be pouring all my positive thoughts your way for a resolution to this holdout with your insurance company. If a stem cell transplant could help reverse this condition for you I can’t understand their denial, especially since it’s been approved for other people with the same diagnosis at the same institutions. You deserve the chance to move past this!

Please keep me updated with what happens, ok? There are several of us in the forum who have had bone marrow transplants and we’re here for you. Hugs!

Please keep me updated with your progress.

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@jimbond48

Since diagnosed 30 years ago, I’ve had 2 autos and 2 allos at Seidman Cancer Center of University Hospitals of Cleveland, with 2nd opinions at Mayo for 2. I posted my fourth short YouTube episode in a series of 4-5 minute videos of our strategies and lessons learned. SCTs will be in an upcoming episode. Our top lesson learned is to do homework on your transplant hospital. One size does not fit all. SCTs a a good tool, and there are now many others.
https://youtube.com/channel/UCqLcRQUKliWxNh_4avhBysg

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4 transplants????? Wow, you are amazing! God Bless! Hope you are all good now!

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