My Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT/SCT) story: Will you share yours?

Posted by Lori, Volunteer Mentor @loribmt, Feb 14, 2021

The past two years have been a storied journey of facing Acute Myeloid Leukemia and a subsequent bone marrow transplant. Being in a high risk category for relapse for AML, a transplant was necessary. Simply put, it would provide a completely new immune system to fend off any remaining AML cells lurking about in my body, after my original factory installed version had become defective in recognizing them. My husband and I shared a collective sigh of relief with the news that my latest bone marrow biopsy, at 19 months post transplant, showed no AML or the mutation which caused it. My new immune system is working!
While celebrating the results with my husband and a pizza, it occurred to me how far I’ve come and how life has changed in the past two years since the onset of AML and the transplant. There have been some challenging transitions but none insurmountable. Of course, life as a genetically modified organism, with two sets of DNA and a new blood type, can have its turf wars with a few GvHD issues, adaptations to medications and such. But I’m incredibly happy to have a second chance with this generous gift of life from an anonymous donor, and through the medical expertise of my amazing BMT-team at Mayo-Rochester. Hopefully I can meet my donor someday to thank him in person. I did send him a card right after the transplant giving him my “undying” gratitude!
We’ve all been given a gift of life. I’d love to hear your story. Lori

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Hello lovely People !!
I am so thankful to the God and all of you for your wishes and Blessings . My husband is doing better now , His bp is normal now so as WBC which has increased to 8 on Day+18 .
Slowly his Blood Counts seems to normal .Having tiredness weakness and sore throat but improved Mouth sores and able to have more liquids now. His Platelets are decreasing to 12 today. But Doctors are taking care of it . Hoping this weekend better result .
Infect the good news is that Doctors is discharging him 2 days earlier like May 22.
@loribmt Yes he is going to shift to nearby apartment for at least 2 more months for further appointments and follow-up observations.
Also wanted to share that my In-Laws Visa has come today ,My husband is happy for the same .
I will share more later guys . till now take care and be happy and healthy forever .
take care !

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Good morning
Hey I appreciate the kindness and Compassion I receive here from all of You . Really Boost up my Strength .
I would like to say thanks to all the people here for sharing such an incredible Experiences and Journey of their Life. It is really helpful and Knowledgeable .
I am gonna update you guys about my husband Health and his Journey soon .
Thanks everyone !

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@anitasharma

Hey @loribmt
Hope you are doing ok.
Let me Inform you My Husbands Transplant has done quite well . Its Day+15 and as expected he is going through few of the side effects like mouth sores, Vomiting , Tiredness and fever Sometimes.
I would like to ask you is it ok Like His WBC counts is quite slow just 0.1 ????
As I am away from him going back to hospital this weekend . Also his Blood Pressure shoot up to 177 last night which is quite high but I am really worried what could be the reason ???
Doctors has given May 24 as his discharged Date ,I hope He will be fine till the time .
Please also let me know How the WBC Growth Increase after the Transplant.
My Son (as Donor) is also doing quite well its just that his Platelet was just 139 Last week .Is there anything to be Worry for him ????
So many questions comes up in the mind Literally .
Good day Guys!! Stay Blessed always and Happy Healthy forever.
Loads of love !

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I agree with what others have said about how slow the recovery is after the transplant! When my numbers finally started rising, this was such a SLOW process. I think I was hoping that the transplant would bring me back to normal quite quickly, but I spent months in bed, too tired to do anything.

I also kept getting random fevers. One in particular was 3.5 months after my transplant on Thanksgiving day. It was my first real outing to spend the day with my extended family in a city that was 2 hours away. I didn’t do much except sit, eat and enjoy the normalcy of being with the family again, but I was completely exhausted and felt feverish. We got home that night and I checked my temperature. It was 103 F. I didn’t tell my husband about it and I was determined not to spend Thanksgiving night in the hospital. So, I took some Tylenol and went to bed. I was relieved that the fever was gone in the morning. I overdid it the day before.

My advice is for your husband to pace himself, listen to his body and start walking as soon as he is able to.

I am 8.5 years post transplant, work full time at a university, walk 3-4 miles per day and lead a full life. All this progress didn’t happen immediately.

Wishing your husband a good recovery!

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I remember mine being lower too. They used to update the chart on the wall daily. When a morning nurse forgot, I made sure the next one updated. I was reading some noted i had in my 30 days, and nausea was with me in the 3rd week. The transplant team i hope is keeping you updated on what they are watching. We had 2 main blood draw and checks daily. I was always asked how i felt and i told them.
He is being watched, so let them know always things like nausea, fatigue and things that are dragging you down.

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@anitasharma

Hey @loribmt
Hope you are doing ok.
Let me Inform you My Husbands Transplant has done quite well . Its Day+15 and as expected he is going through few of the side effects like mouth sores, Vomiting , Tiredness and fever Sometimes.
I would like to ask you is it ok Like His WBC counts is quite slow just 0.1 ????
As I am away from him going back to hospital this weekend . Also his Blood Pressure shoot up to 177 last night which is quite high but I am really worried what could be the reason ???
Doctors has given May 24 as his discharged Date ,I hope He will be fine till the time .
Please also let me know How the WBC Growth Increase after the Transplant.
My Son (as Donor) is also doing quite well its just that his Platelet was just 139 Last week .Is there anything to be Worry for him ????
So many questions comes up in the mind Literally .
Good day Guys!! Stay Blessed always and Happy Healthy forever.
Loads of love !

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Hi @anitasharma I’m doing very well, thank you! And it sounds like your husband is too. At Day +15 it’s really not uncommon at all for your husband’s neutrophil count to be extremely low. When the newly infused stem cells engraft and start producing blood products, the neutrophil count (and other numbers) will start rising again. Right now they’re settling in and finding ‘a home’ in which to set up housekeeping. ☺️
Once the neutrophils are back in circulation your husband will most likely experience some noticeable improvements with the mouth sores and other symptoms. From there, the recovery should be steady but slow. Personally, my nausea stuck around for several more weeks though it was much less than with the first couple of weeks.
Recovery can’t be rushed. It takes time and patience. And lots of naps!
Also from my experinece my blood pressure was elevated for a time. I was put on a low dose of bp medication and eventually didn’t need to take it any more. Your husband’s BMT team is closely monitoring him and will give him the appropriate meds if they’re concerned. If I may share this, my transplant doctor told me that that it was my job to recover and stay focused on my future. That he and his BMT team would do all the worrying and have the sleepless nights so my husband and I didn’t have to. LOL. I took him at his word! Our BMT teams are very experienced and prepared to handle issues that arise. So try to put leave the worrying to his doctor. ☺️

I learned recently in information from the National Marrow Donor Program ( https://www.nmdp.org/ ) that it’s not unusual for a stem cell donor to have a temporary decrease in platelets after donating. The risks of donating are minimal but it can take days to several weeks for blood numbers to reach the normal level again. He’ll be having followup appointments to check his level. His doctor will be watching to make sure it continues to edge back up.

You’ll be amazed at the difference two weeks after engraftment should make in your husband’s health. The target date of May 24 is realistic. But that doesn’t necessarily mean he’ll be discharged if his numbers aren’t where his doctors would like them to be or if he’s having any symptoms that they’re concerned about. It’s just that, a target date. Once he’s discharged there will be frequent followup appointments. Will you need to stay near the clinic after that for a few weeks?

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Hey @loribmt
Hope you are doing ok.
Let me Inform you My Husbands Transplant has done quite well . Its Day+15 and as expected he is going through few of the side effects like mouth sores, Vomiting , Tiredness and fever Sometimes.
I would like to ask you is it ok Like His WBC counts is quite slow just 0.1 ????
As I am away from him going back to hospital this weekend . Also his Blood Pressure shoot up to 177 last night which is quite high but I am really worried what could be the reason ???
Doctors has given May 24 as his discharged Date ,I hope He will be fine till the time .
Please also let me know How the WBC Growth Increase after the Transplant.
My Son (as Donor) is also doing quite well its just that his Platelet was just 139 Last week .Is there anything to be Worry for him ????
So many questions comes up in the mind Literally .
Good day Guys!! Stay Blessed always and Happy Healthy forever.
Loads of love !

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Hi @skibum486. This will be a great discussion for your upcoming adventure into the land of BMT. You’ll be able to join fellow Chimeras (those of us with 2 sets of DNA) who have weathered the trail and will welcome you with encouragement, inspiration and honesty. This isn’t always an easy journey but definitely one worth taking for a 2nd chance at life.

I have to ask about your @name…ski bum! Downhill or X-country?

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@loribmt

Good morning toddler Kathy, whom I affectionally call Kat. I always look forward to your posts and transplant updates about life with those ‘20-something’ year-old male cells’ running the show now. I’m sure the young man who donated those stem cells had never thought that one day he’d be a life saver! And what a life he saved!

He’s gifted the world with Kathy 2.0. An amazingly resilient, tenacious, funny, empathetic and caring woman who makes a huge contribution to the world around her. I can’t wait for you to meet him some day, Miss Kat! I hope he’s open to that. It’s been just shy of 6 years since my transplant. My donor still wants to remain anonymous. I know he owes me nothing, but I owe him everything and would love to thank him in person. I do hope you get that privilege.

Don’t you wonder what he looks like, or his personality? What motivated him to donate? I think about that all the time and thank ‘Robby’ every morning…that’s what I dubbed my secret donor. He was 20 at the time so he’s (we are) 26 and probably matured out of Axe pit spray, greasy pizza, cheap beer, frat boy, girlie mags under the bed by now. 😂

I bet you do have your donor’s blood type. Mine used to be B+ now it’s 0+. Besides that change, I also no longer have a seasonal allergy to ragweed or a sensitivity to almonds! Did you have any allergies before? Notice any changes like that?

What a time of reflection for you, having come through the milestone of the first year after a bone marrow transplant. I’ve said it before but you are the poster child for how this should all go! I’m so happy and honored to have been part of your journey. And now, here you are, filling a mentorship role yourself with guiding others along their new path to a 2nd life. Next year, by this time, you should be considered out of your terrible twos and into adulthood! Ta dah! Big girl panties. 😂 With your cute reddish brown curls I can picture you bursting out with a chorus from Annie…🎶The sun will come out, tomorrow…🎶. Have a delightful day, Miss Kat!

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Lori,

I LOVE your post. My work has kept me so busy unpacking and sorting I am tired when i get home. I forget i am using my laptop at work still and i could post if i remembered.
I do need to check on my fellow, as my NP says you can try again after 1 year. I love that you named your Robbie. My NP had some be a match donors may have only donated to get something free or be allowed to attend an event. BUT, our donors took the call to give their cells. That makes them special. It is possible they could eat junk, but equally possible they could be healthy and fit. We had 2 donors at our reunion; one was a 20 plus yr European and his fifty something recipient. I forgot the other as we did not see their honoring, I will need to see the social media post like all others. I did get myself near the front of the group shot, quiet possibly being elbowed out by the 1 yr toddler next to me who insisted as a director he would have had this group shot done a long time ago. He did pose and focus on the camera.
The fellow i met when i arrived to register listened to my story and i listened to his, or what he would share. He asked me how i know so much about the tranplancet process and i said Mayo Cluinic and other AML/MDS patients. He then told me he was a pastor, and he felt God had brought him here to be there for his people. He would understand being a transplant patient himself. I met the other lady i approached as she was wearing a hat like me. She has AML and 1 year ago had a transplant from her sister, but it returned. She is back to continue treatment with hope and possibilities.
Lori i have also not had a cold for a year. Not that i had many, but geez Louise I am fighting off those students' germs in the office like crazy. Three out of the seven regulars have baby kids. Germ carries!!!
This transplant got me out walking and drinking my water. I slacked one day and i felt sluggish. Half my body weight which makes it 82 ounces.
What a life and a 2nd chance to do some things different.

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@shemac711shemac711

Thank you so much for your response. Your kind words and guidance are so appreciated. I reached out to dabls6 to see if they wouldn't mind sharing their journey with me.
This is not usually like me at all, I myself am a very spiritual person and would not make it through the day without my faith. I know every day that we have each other is a gift and never to be taken for granted.
I'm getting a little ahead of myself and not taking one day at a time. As soon as we revisit the doctor and receive the results, I will have a better understanding hopefully as our next steps.
My husband and I have been married for 39 years this coming April.
I thank you so much for all of kind informative posts and your responses. You have a very special gift and thank you for paying it forward. My big girl panties are on now.
Sincerely,
Sherri

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Hi Sherri! It’s been a bit since we’ve chatted. I wanted to drop by this morning to see how your husband is doing with his MDS treatments. I know you were very worried when we spoke last. Has he had any improvement with his blood numbers? And how are you holding up?

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@clareaq

Thank you Lori—
As much as it pains me I have read that gardening will be out of the question for some time and need to be cautious the rest of my life. That is a tough blow because aside from my family— gardening is the joy of my life. Even being on Hydrea and Jakafi, I experienced fungal infections so I can understand why it’s basically prohibited.

I will be having my first meeting with the transplant team this Monday, May 13th. They had sent an initial packet of forms but as I am already a patient at UofM it wasn’t too much. I’m certain there will be more.

I’m sure many of my questions/doubts will be addressed at this meeting. As I said, this is all happening quickly. I’ve wanted a transplant since my early ET diagnosis 12 years ago but now that I’ve progressed to warrant the transplant it’s a bit daunting. I want to be brave for my husband and family so they won’t fret too much.

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Hi @clareaq, I just wanted to follow up with this discussion…we never connected again after your consultation on May 13th of 2024. I’m chagrined that this slipped past my notes…or my old brain? Here we are a year later and I’m wondering if you’ve had your stem cell transplant?

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