My Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT/SCT) story: Will you share yours?

Posted by Lori, Volunteer Mentor @loribmt, Feb 14, 2021

The past two years have been a storied journey of facing Acute Myeloid Leukemia and a subsequent bone marrow transplant. Being in a high risk category for relapse for AML, a transplant was necessary. Simply put, it would provide a completely new immune system to fend off any remaining AML cells lurking about in my body, after my original factory installed version had become defective in recognizing them. My husband and I shared a collective sigh of relief with the news that my latest bone marrow biopsy, at 19 months post transplant, showed no AML or the mutation which caused it. My new immune system is working!
While celebrating the results with my husband and a pizza, it occurred to me how far I’ve come and how life has changed in the past two years since the onset of AML and the transplant. There have been some challenging transitions but none insurmountable. Of course, life as a genetically modified organism, with two sets of DNA and a new blood type, can have its turf wars with a few GvHD issues, adaptations to medications and such. But I’m incredibly happy to have a second chance with this generous gift of life from an anonymous donor, and through the medical expertise of my amazing BMT-team at Mayo-Rochester. Hopefully I can meet my donor someday to thank him in person. I did send him a card right after the transplant giving him my “undying” gratitude!
We’ve all been given a gift of life. I’d love to hear your story. Lori

What diagnosis brought you to a BMT?

How has it impacted your life and that of your caregiver?

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I will Lori,
I have a vaccine tomorrow, but it is one you need to get twice. Otherwise, I am done with the vaccines I will ask them about measles.

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Hi Kat, The MMR vaccine isn’t usually given until 24 mo post BMT so you may still have one more to go. ☺️
(2 sessions, spaced 6 mo apart).

Have fun at the reunion today!!

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I will Lori,
I have a vaccine tomorrow, but it is one you need to get twice. Otherwise, I am done with the vaccines I will ask them about measles.

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Thank you, Lori. I hope to get some pictures to post!!!

Yes, about my toddler cells. I have been going full steam ahead as if i am completely back to normal.
Two students have been in our new place a with sneezing and i had to stay in a different room away from them. Lysol after they left. I completely forgot i could throw on a mask.
I need a reminder on my wall calendar at home.
Kathy, you are a bone marrow transplant patient. Live your life know you are 1 years old. My bone marrow donor is 27. Crazy.
I will be off Fridays during the summer, so more time at home doing fun things i had done like posting more here for starters. Plus, I need to look up my passcode to log in from my phone. I do not have it.
Wishing consistency and acceptance to all in the process of the BMT process.

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Hi Kat, particularly frightening right now is the measles outbreak. It’s one of the most highly contagious viruses, spread by the coughs and sneezes of infected people and direct contact. Sooo…you might want to keep masks in your desk or glove box of the car, or one tucked in your bag. Just in case. ☺️

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Thank you, Lori. I hope to get some pictures to post!!!

Yes, about my toddler cells. I have been going full steam ahead as if i am completely back to normal.
Two students have been in our new place a with sneezing and i had to stay in a different room away from them. Lysol after they left. I completely forgot i could throw on a mask.
I need a reminder on my wall calendar at home.
Kathy, you are a bone marrow transplant patient. Live your life know you are 1 years old. My bone marrow donor is 27. Crazy.
I will be off Fridays during the summer, so more time at home doing fun things i had done like posting more here for starters. Plus, I need to look up my passcode to log in from my phone. I do not have it.
Wishing consistency and acceptance to all in the process of the BMT process.

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I have been back to work in person for nearly 3 weeks and I am tired. Our office moved and everything seems to be in boxes. The students no longer have their own space, so they are right with us. We have an event our department puts on for foster parents Friday and my supv has let me do most the work. I think he had students do it the year i worked from home. OMG. Tomorrow i have just some to do. I tried to get most done yesterday and today. This is possible because a year past transplant i feel great. I wondered if i would get my steps in and I realize if I walk in the morning, I get all i need.
So the Friday event i will go in to set up for 1.5 hours. Talk with the facilities guys to make sure it is set up. At 8:30am I have my friend joining me to take the train to the City of Hope. It is their annual Bone Marrow Transplant reunion. My very 1st year!!! There was no way i was going to miss it. Day 385 past transplant. I look forward to hearing the success of so many and hearing from patients meeting their donor and more.
I am needing to say i am still a transplant patient. My hair growing longer is so good, but as my NP said when she asked if i had returned back to work last month. She said you are still needing to take care. You are only a year out and your body is still adapting to its new system. So far not too many hiccups. I also have my check up on May 2nd after the event. I will ask the DR or the NP, whomever i see, what did the BMB show about my blood type. Those statistics are not on the results i get. As bacher said above, the BMT recovery is ongoing. The 26yr old donor has settled in with my body, but more time to make me the forever home needs to happen.

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Hey Miss Kat! I thought you’d been pretty quiet the past couple of weeks. Now I know why! Wow, you’ve jumped in with both feet, having gone back to work full time! That’s a real demand on your body…but good for the soul…or psyche. ☺️

Your nurse is right though, to take care of yourself. While it feels great to be normal, you still have to listen to your body. It may be housing 27 year old (aged a year) donor cells, but it’s still an infant in transplant years. Toddlers need rest. 😂
I still have periods when I’m just living life like a 20 year old and then, bam, I’ll have a day where I feel all of my 71 years! Rest and recharge and then I’m good to go again. It’s tough to keep active people down, isn’t it? Especially when we’ve been given a second chance. We’re not about to waste a moment. LOL

Have a wonderful time at the Chimera, I mean BMT, reunion!! 🦄. 😁 You’ll be a huge motivator for the newbies and I bet you’ll be thrilled to meet the veterans of the program! We all support each other! I want to hear all about it!! Hugs.

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I have been back to work in person for nearly 3 weeks and I am tired. Our office moved and everything seems to be in boxes. The students no longer have their own space, so they are right with us. We have an event our department puts on for foster parents Friday and my supv has let me do most the work. I think he had students do it the year i worked from home. OMG. Tomorrow i have just some to do. I tried to get most done yesterday and today. This is possible because a year past transplant i feel great. I wondered if i would get my steps in and I realize if I walk in the morning, I get all i need.
So the Friday event i will go in to set up for 1.5 hours. Talk with the facilities guys to make sure it is set up. At 8:30am I have my friend joining me to take the train to the City of Hope. It is their annual Bone Marrow Transplant reunion. My very 1st year!!! There was no way i was going to miss it. Day 385 past transplant. I look forward to hearing the success of so many and hearing from patients meeting their donor and more.
I am needing to say i am still a transplant patient. My hair growing longer is so good, but as my NP said when she asked if i had returned back to work last month. She said you are still needing to take care. You are only a year out and your body is still adapting to its new system. So far not too many hiccups. I also have my check up on May 2nd after the event. I will ask the DR or the NP, whomever i see, what did the BMB show about my blood type. Those statistics are not on the results i get. As bacher said above, the BMT recovery is ongoing. The 26yr old donor has settled in with my body, but more time to make me the forever home needs to happen.

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Hi Lori,
My transplant was on March 6 and I am at day +29 post transplant. I thought I would be feeling better by now. Maybe I am not as patient as I thought. We are at GOL right now which has been fine. I'm not a fan of the shared kitchen/smells and all the limitations. Contemplating a move. Thx for your response.
Sally

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Sally: I am 18 months past my SCT date and I am finally feeling like my preSCT self. I am clear headed, energetic and (this feels weird to write) I feel normal. I did not think it would take me this long to recover - I naively believed that at 1 year I would be recovered completely. My age (75) probably makes my recovery different from and longer than what most patients experience. I am grateful to be where I am today. For me, it is encouraging to know that recovery can continue for several years after SCT! 1 year is a milestone for sure, but it is not the end of recovery.
--Betsy

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Yea. My flow cytometry came in and no blast or anything was detected. Minimal Residual Disease.
I look at the stains that come in the report and realize i need to ask for information at my next appointment on May 2nd. I bet the research study people will be happy too.
Love this next bit. Our move day was yesterday. I worked with movers for 6 plus years with Gentle transitions, so it was natural for me to do it here. The Facility guy needed to help the tech team who is moving to new digs in the library. Both of our buildings are being leveled for progress. Theres was not built for 2025 tech services. They are in part of an old photo lab.
Wow. Using a diagram i had not seen till 2 days ago to place tables, the only note is the inches and feet. We had a kitchen, a study and a class in our prior office. It made it a lot of fun. Amazingly, a few in our facilities team insisted we had too much stuff and it would not fit. They do not know me!!!!
End of day i went over 27000 steps which was 11 miles.
Today i need to drive back as i left my computer charging cord.
And yes, on Tuesday my union board all hugged me and welcomed me back in person. All the others who helped me move. You would never guess I walked through a transplant.
Who would believe that securing the caregiver allowed that transplant and a chance of recovery!!! And meeting you Lori, Mary612 and all who are posting on this site. A community built from real life experiences.

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Lori,

Thank you. I have worked two 10-hour days as our office is being packed and my supervisor is at an East Coast Conference, so i needed to get a lot done. Today is a long day too. I thought it was our move day, but it is the Veterans next to us. I got my first result from my last BMB. I put a message in the portal to them, as any showing of a number perks my ears!!! What does it mean?
A small myeloblast population (0.3% total events) without aberrancy is identified.
I feel wonderful, so I know my team will let me know if they have any concerns. My chimerism is not in yet, so I look forward to that. I am glad i have next to no issues for my BMB procedures, so i will always do them if they ask.

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Good morning, Kat I played hooky most of the day yesterday, so I’m just catching up. ☺️ We finally have spring weather in Wisconsin so most of the day was spent outside with yard work. We also had a neighbor who cut his foot while clearing a large tree from his property. He’s out of commission for a while so my husband and I spent a couple hours over there clearing the debris, cutting limbs, tying up bundles, bagging twigs, etc. Good workout for sure! (And yes, I wore my mask the entire time…not risking a fungal infection)

Wow, lookit you go! 👀 Back to work and putting in 10 hour days! A year ago that wasn’t even on the radar. This is another positive milestone, Miss Kat! I’m sure your friends/coworkers were so happy to see you back in the fold.
Congrats on the biopsy results! Even when you’re not anticipating any bad news, getting the “all-clear” message is a real morale booster! Phew!! Happy dance, gurlfriend! 💃

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I asked my team on my .3 and they said no worries.

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Congratulations and thank goodness for your beautiful BMB results!!!! Breath in deeply another gorgeous day on this planet!🙏

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