MGUS: Please, let me know I not alone
i Have gotten desperate enough to try to get an appointment at Mayo in minnasota for mgus. anyone out there that is also been diagnosed with this time bomb.
I am also suffering with anemia and pvc's and a lot of pain. please let me know that I am not alone. bonne
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@eulo Thank you for your kind words!
Something your wife might try, is to use a good cream on her hands and feet, massaging it into the skin gently. Or you could do it for her, a real treat for you both. It will show her even more how you care for her, and it will feel very comforting. Gentle massage of the muscles can do a lot of good. Keep moving and exercising, that seems to be a key. Often we hear when we stop, is when more problems happen.
You are supporting your wife, and helping her look for answers. That is a big thing, so please do not doubt you are helping her! Until her situation changes away from MGUS, I can understand why her doctor says "no chemotherapy at this time". The doctor will continue to monitor her, and watch for signs if she gets worse. Remember, most people live with MGUS for many years without any problems. Have you asked her doctor if the cramps are related to the MGUS, or part of something else?
Ginger
Thank you Ginger. You are one great person, I was reading yours posts several month ago before post yesterday.
My wife is my life, we have 70 years old and 54 together, 4 engaged and 50 married. Now she are sik and I can't do anything. Every day, every hours I see her face, hands and legs, I'm destroyed too.
Even now the hematologist say that her do not need QuimioT.
Thank you Ginger 🙏
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@eulo Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. It is great you are seeking information for your wife's situation.
Remember, people can have several different conditions affecting us at the same time, and it might be difficult to separate what it may belong to. For me, I get severe cramps in my hands from time to time, and often comes when I am doing fine motor movements with my hands. When that happens, getting my hands warm often helps alot.
Ginger
Hello Ginger,
I'm new here, my wife have MGUS for three years and several problems in her hands and hard pain.
What problems do you have in yours hands?
Sorry for my English
Best regards.
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True. It is a shock.
All the pains and all the problems came from the moment of the diagnosis, there is an extensive psychological aspect here that affects the brain that transmits pains, currents and more
I remembered what my Dr said once, he said it isn't rare any more. Only because it is being diagnosed earlier and better.
Follow your doctors recommendations and you should be ok. I wouldn't get so scared, but I always look at life that it could be worse, like your child or a close friend. If you look at my profile you will see why I say this. I have had so much going on in my life. It could be worse, & there's nothing you can do about it.
Thank you. My iron is also extremely low? Maybe correlation?
I have smoldering MGUS which was diagnosed on a blood test by accident in 2003. There really have been no changes. I started seeing the cancer Drs twice yearly depending where I lived, as I moved around. Some Drs want me in twice yearly, other's once. I also had to have an iron transfusion, as my ferritin got really low. So far all ok.