Long Spouse - continuous Horney —- post menopausal— Help

Great long term relationship. Pre-menopausal = much less intimacy == couple times / month. When we were young — she was very sexy partner . Now = unreal horney spouse. All the time .
I Mean all the time …. How can I satisfy her .. Kinda nice —but—- need more to satisfy her . Does enjoy many ‘’things’’ she never really liked ( super). Help ..