Living with Prostate Cancer: Meet others & introduce yourself

Welcome to the Prostate Cancer group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet others living with prostate cancer or caring for someone with prostate cancer. Let's learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

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Let's start with introductions. When were you diagnosed with prostate cancer? What treatments did you have? Tips to share?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Prostate Cancer Support Group.

I was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2010. Gleason 4+3. I had a prostatectomy and my PSA stayed undetectable for 3 1/2 years, but then came back. I had radiation to the prostate bed and for 2 1/2 years my PSA stayed undetectable, but then it came back I started Lupron in 2017 and my PSA stayed undetectable for two years, but then it came back. My oncologist added Casodex, but 14 months later, my PSA started rising too much. I then started Zytiga and took it for 2 1/2 years. It worked pretty well but then I had a 3rd more serious afib event and my oncologist pulled me off it. I then started Nubeqa and my PSA has now been undetectable for nine months. I found out in 2022 that I have the genetic anomaly BRCA2, which explains why my cancer keeps coming back.

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@hwm58

I had a radical prostatectomy two years ago, and my PSA has been rising over the past six months. My urologist recommended ADT and radiation. I started Orgovyx two weeks ago and will start radiation on Monday. Hoping that the fatigue won't be too bad, but I am trying to be flexible with my work activities over the next few months and get plenty of exercise. (I'm 65 and a semi-retired tech worker. I now direct two choirs and sing in a third.) Getting lots of support from family and friends. Getting back into meditation.

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I’ve been on Orgovyx for 4 months and doing well enough. I bought a bowflex and hand weights and do resistance training every other day. I also watch my calorie intake to avoid gaining weight. Lastly I take a calcium supplement to avoid bone density loss.

Good luck and don’t hesitate to ask any questions.

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@hwm58

I had a radical prostatectomy two years ago, and my PSA has been rising over the past six months. My urologist recommended ADT and radiation. I started Orgovyx two weeks ago and will start radiation on Monday. Hoping that the fatigue won't be too bad, but I am trying to be flexible with my work activities over the next few months and get plenty of exercise. (I'm 65 and a semi-retired tech worker. I now direct two choirs and sing in a third.) Getting lots of support from family and friends. Getting back into meditation.

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The thing that really spurred the new treatment is that my tissue was tested using a Decipher test, and the result was very high--0.93.

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I had a radical prostatectomy two years ago, and my PSA has been rising over the past six months. My urologist recommended ADT and radiation. I started Orgovyx two weeks ago and will start radiation on Monday. Hoping that the fatigue won't be too bad, but I am trying to be flexible with my work activities over the next few months and get plenty of exercise. (I'm 65 and a semi-retired tech worker. I now direct two choirs and sing in a third.) Getting lots of support from family and friends. Getting back into meditation.

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@wyoming

Gleason 4+3 and they did not want to discuss the TULSA Pro but wanted to start immediately with prostatectomy. Medicare and a great supplemental insurance. Doctor that wanted to do surgery we now understand is gone from UC Health.

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For the record, I’m a fellow prostate cancer patient and not a doctor so I’m not giving medical advice; just sharing information.

I looked into Tulsa Pro as well when I was seeking treatment, and I was not a candidate, probably for the same reasons that you might not be a candidate.

The following is an excerpt from the Tulsa pro website:

“Who qualifies for TULSA-PRO?
Whether a patient qualifies for the TULSA procedure will be determined by the treating physician on a case by case basis. In general, patients should have low to intermediate risk disease which is confined to the prostate. Generally, the patient should have a PSA of less than 20. If a patient has significant calcifications within the prostate (as determined by a CT scan), then they are not a candidate for TULSA, because the calcifications will block sound waves…”

If you look up Gleason scores for prostate cancer, Gleason seven,p (4+3 specifically) is considered unfavorable intermediate risk and with your PSA being 22 it sounds like Tulsa Pro would not be a preferred treatment to elicit a cure and stop the cancer from recurring.

I’m no medical expert on cancer, but I was a regular attendee at a local prostate cancer men’s support group in Chicago. What I learned there just a couple years ago was that some doctors might consider 3+4 Gleason seven patients for active surveillance, none would consider 4+3 Gleason seven prostate cancer patients for active surveillance and I doubt anyone would consider you for focal therapy. As I understand it, 4+3 left alone can become 4 +4 and spread beyond the prostate and then you could be in the fight of your life. Take it from someone who knows. I had what should’ve been considered low risk Gleason 6 3+3 cancer. I received focal therapy which failed and now the cancer has spread beyond the prostate, and life is a lot more challenging.

I understand that you don’t want surgery or radiation. I get that. I didn’t want that either. Unfortunately I’ve had to have both plus hormone therapy which has affected my quality of life; all because my cancer spread beyond the prostate. Prostatectomy or radiation therapies practiced by highly skilled physicians and centers of excellence are likely your best choices for eliciting a permanent cure.

There is an excellent book called “surviving prostate cancer” by Dr. Patrick Walsh. I suggest you consider buying a copy. Do not buy the fourth edition though; purchase the current fifth edition. You’ll get far better up-to-date information regarding your options in by reading that book written by some of the best practitioners in the field then you will on this forum.

Good luck on your journey. Let us know if we can answer anything else for you.

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@robertmizek

Respectfully: a couple questions

Was your Gleason seven score a 4+3 or 3+4?

What happened at UH health in Colorado? Did they refuse to take you as a patient?

Do you have Medicare or Medicare advantage?

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Gleason 4+3 and they did not want to discuss the TULSA Pro but wanted to start immediately with prostatectomy. Medicare and a great supplemental insurance. Doctor that wanted to do surgery we now understand is gone from UC Health.

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@robertmizek

Based on what you’ve told me, I think you’re going to handle ADT well. I’m taking Orgovyx instead of Lupron depot shots and have done better with less side effects than my friends who took Lupron. Because you’re so active you may want to consider that and ask your doctor about Orgovyx.

Wishing you the best for your journey.

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I can attest to what Robert said. I started with Lupron and it sent me into the most soul crushing depression I've ever experienced. Fortunately, I insisted on one month shots instead of six month. I switched to Orgovyx and just over two months later am doing MUCH better. Plus, I no longer have to deal with the monthly sciatica I'd get for a week after each Lupron shot.

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@johnernest

Thank you for the information. I am 71 and have been lifting weights 4 days a week since I was 25, I also walk 4-5 miles every day. I am hoping to maintain my strength and endurance during the hormone therapy. Your experience makes me optimistic and almost every study I read, resistance training helps mitigate the side effects.

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Based on what you’ve told me, I think you’re going to handle ADT well. I’m taking Orgovyx instead of Lupron depot shots and have done better with less side effects than my friends who took Lupron. Because you’re so active you may want to consider that and ask your doctor about Orgovyx.

Wishing you the best for your journey.

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@johnernest

Just joined this group. Diagnosed with prostate cancer 2 weeks ago,. Starting hormone therapy this Friday. Hoping to learn how others have dealt with their diagnosis and treatments.

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Diagonosed 2 weeks ago and on hormone treatment already . WOH .
Buy Dr. Patrick Walsh's Book '' Guide to Surviving Prostate Cancer " The best monney you will ever spend :
Rule # 1 Don't panic and make a knee jerk treatment decision you will regret . You will not die tomorrow . You likely had the cancer for years .
Rule # 2 Educate yourself before consulting with the medical experts . Read the book . Inform yourself of the tests , what the test results mean . The treatment options Surgical , Radiation, Focal Therapies . IT'S ALL IN THE BOOK & FOLLOW OTHERS ON THIS FORUM WITH SIMILAR ( NEVER THE SAME ) CANCER SYMPTOMS .
Finally _ Why the big rush to hormone treatment .
What is your MRI Data T Signal and PI-RADS Score .
Have you had a Biopsy ? If so your Gleason Score . # of Core samples ? How many with cancer
This forum requires more data . Than you had cancer 2 weeks ago .
Thanks

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@robertmizek

I am a fellow prostate cancer patient not a doctor so I’m not giving medical advice just sharing Some thoughts based on my personal experience.

I have been on ORGOVYX since April 22. My doctor originally wanted to give me a six month LUPRON shot, but I had ran it read anecdotal stories of fellow prostate cancer patients who opted for ORGOVYX daily pills instead of the LUPRON shot. What I read was that while both achieve the same thing, That is killing testosterone, side effects tended to be milder for patients taking ORGOVYX instead of LUPRON. That has been my personal experience too, and I’m glad I made that choice. When I compare my experience to close personal friends that have also gone through prostate cancer I’ve had it considerably easier, which is why recommend that fellow PCa patients consider OGOVYX.

Yes, I have hot flashes, but they tend to be mild and their frequency and severity dropped off a lot after the first 30 days. Yes, I’ve put on a little weight; went from 186 to 192. Yes, I have fatigue but staying active mitigates a lot of that. I do upper body resistance training every other day and alternate between high intensity cycling, or brisk walks of at least 1 mile on hilly terrain daily. When cold weather comes back, I’ll switch to the elliptical, a treadmill, or a spin bike.

We are here to listen and help you. What comes next after the start of ADT?

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Thank you for the information. I am 71 and have been lifting weights 4 days a week since I was 25, I also walk 4-5 miles every day. I am hoping to maintain my strength and endurance during the hormone therapy. Your experience makes me optimistic and almost every study I read, resistance training helps mitigate the side effects.

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