Living with Prostate Cancer: Meet others & introduce yourself
Welcome to the Prostate Cancer group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet others living with prostate cancer or caring for someone with prostate cancer. Let's learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.
I'm Colleen, and I'm the moderator of this group, and Community Director of Connect. Chances are you'll to be greeted by fellow members and volunteer patient Mentors, when you post to this group. Learn more about Moderators and Mentors on Connect.
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Let's start with introductions. When were you diagnosed with prostate cancer? What treatments did you have? Tips to share?
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I have a Gleason score 3+4=7 75 years old. MRI on spot as mentioned about and a small spot 3+3=6. I am scheduled for cryotherapy only on the 3+4=7 spot. Dr said we will monitor the other spot.
I chose cryotherapy because les evasive than radiation and faster recovery. Also leaves me with more options in the future. Looking to hear from anyone that has experience with cryotherapy.
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I feel for you and honestly I've felt like I hadn't seen anyone on here who's as bad as my husband's. His started a year ago with frequent peeing too, he was 55 and just finally went to the doctor with "enlarged prostate" and the doctor thought so too until the PSA came back at almost 300, then CT scan showed cancer outside the prostate and PSMA scan showed it all over his body! He started Firmagon (VERY reluctantly!!-he'd rather die than get his manhood taken away) he was supposed to switch to lupron but never did so we go monthly for injections, they also added zytiga with prednisone and over the summer he did 6 rounds of docetaxel.
Last week his PSA was 0.24 I think and it's been slowly going down after the initial decrease in the start and after chemo. It's a scary thought to know I might be a widow soon, but so far my husband is very active, he works out every day, eats pretty perfectly, looks fine, hair is growing back....Still it's hard, knowing that the end is nearer than we thought. His parents passed away in their late 90s 4 months before his diagnosis and my mom passed away 2 weeks after his diagnosis! I really can't handle another loss, with kids still at home too!
How are you feeling now and how is your family taking it?
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3 ReactionsGonna get a PSMA/PET scan before I make a decision.
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1 Reaction@toeknee, how did your appointment go with your doctor? Have you decided on a treatment plan?
@lyricw
Heh, Doctors are against surgery or radiation therapy. They say they'll only use isotopes after my PSA rises. My PSA is currently 0.04. I could be wrong, of course, but it seems like someone's trying to make money off me, right?
@denis76 It seems like removing the primary tumor with radiation or prostatectomy would be advisable.
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1 ReactionHello, dear friends!
My name is Denis, 49 year old.
My story
When I was 47, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer after an abdominal ultrasound. I started urinating frequently.
I had tests (PSA, bone scan, chest X-ray, prostate MRI, and prostate biopsy), and they showed a PSA level of 531 (Gleason 4+5), three bone metastases (rib, pelvis, and elsewhere), and lymph nodes (groin, cervical, and lungs).
Then my oncologist sent me for genetic testing, which revealed a mutation in the ATM gene. In other words, the cancer was hereditary. My father didn't have prostate cancer, but my grandmother did, and it most likely affected me.
The doctors refused surgery and said that if they removed the tumor, the cancer would quickly kill me. I listened to them and began treatment.
In the first month (only the first month), I took bicalutamide tablets and was given Zoladex 10.8 injections (every three months). I also completed six cycles of docitaxel chemotherapy over the course of six months.
After six months of treatment, my PSA dropped from 530 to 18.
I had a Positron Emission Tomography (PET) scan in August 2024, which showed a reduction in the size of the metastases in my lymph nodes and bones. The primary tumor in my prostate remained almost intact, having only shrunk slightly.
In September 2024, the doctors held another consultation and prescribed two more courses of Docitaxel chemotherapy, after which my PSA dropped further to 6. The cancer persisted.
Throughout this time, I was receiving Zoladex 10.8 injections.
In January 2025, I had another Positron Emission Tomography (PET) scan, which showed a significant reduction in the size of the lymph node metastases and the complete disappearance of the bone metastases. The primary tumor remained virtually intact, with only a 10% change in expression.
In February 2025, We had a third consultation, after which I was prescribed and start apalutamide, which I've been taking for almost a year, and Zoladex was replaced with Diphereline 3.75 (injections every month).
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3 Reactions@csimadera1
This is quite aggressive and could result in your doctor wanting you to take ADT for a longer time. Since you are aware of it, you can discuss it with your doctor if that comes up.
@rlpostrp Hi. I’m still relatively new here, but thought I might be able to help answer your question, as Colleen made this post almost 7 years ago and might not see your response to it. Colleen and others are apparently employed by Mayo Connect to run these various forums. Here’s a link you might find helpful. https://connect.mayoclinic.org/blog/about-connect/tab/moderators/
@jeffmarc SVI