Living with MDS (Myelodyplastic Syndromes)

Posted by momz @momz, Sep 4, 2023

I finally got my answer to what I have and trying to wrap my mind around it.
I am an ovarian cancer survivor of 20 years and have MDS for the last 7
Currently on watch and hate to even say wait!! What is the longest someone has had with no treatments? And what was the reason for treatment when it was needed?

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Hello. I was diagnosed with MDS (iso 5q deletion) 3 1/2 years years ago at age 50, and my blood results were a bit off for 3 years before that. I'm also on "watch and wait". Currently I'm moderately anemic and mildly neutropenic, but haven't needed treatment,and live a pretty "normal" lifestyle. I just get tired. The haematologist is not really able to give timeframes, but if my haemoglobin drops below about 80 she has said I'll be given blood transfusions as needed and started on lenolidamide to stabilise red cell count. I'll need an allogeneic SC transplant down the track. I understand that a number of different factors play into how quickly MDS progresses, and individuals are also different. Initially I was very anxious, but I've learned a lot about living one day at a time and being very thankful for each day. Any long term planning is quite difficult and seems a bit futile. Wishing you all the best.

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I was recently diagnosed with MDS with anemia. I have been anemic for many years but until our blood test results were published on our patient portal I didn't know bad it was. If my hemoglobin goes below 10, I will begin injections of a hormone to help my bone marrow make healthy cells. I am on watch and waited. I hope the best for all.

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Usually follow up every 6 months to one year

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On July 31, 2025 my husband and I met with my hematologist and he said he spoke with his colleague at UVA and I do not have MDS. I have CHIP (Clonal Hematopoiesis of Indeterminate Potential). It means I have the mutation (TET2) that can lead to MDS and we will just monitor my bloodwork like we have been doing. He suggested I go off my LUPUS meds that I’ve been on since 2006 for 4 months and have a bone marrow biopsy to see how that helps my blood counts and if it changes my bone marrow.
We will still go to UVA for a second opinion some time in August since I live in VA.
I am going to have my total right knee replacement surgery in September after Labor Day. I’ll have to have 2 days of Neupogen injections to boost my white blood cell counts prior to surgery. I have had critical low WBC of less than 2.0 for 19 years. I have Neutropenia too. I have Lupus SLE. I bruise easily and my arms and legs are always purple. I don’t wear shorts in public. I’ve battled with chronic fatigue all my life. I have Hypothyroidism. I battle with depression and mood disorders and PTSD. I lost four pregnancies before I had my first daughter who is 21. We have 21 yr old daughter, 19 yr old daughter, 17 year old daughter and 16 year old son with Down syndrome. I’m concerned that my local doctors aren’t taking care of me. I fight sinus infections, allergies, asthma, respiratory infections. I hope this second opinion will be beneficial. Any comments.

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Hi Lori. Well I was supposed to start my treatment this week. When I saw my oncologist last Thursday she said I am thinking of delaying your treatment. Your blood counts are good. I know two other hospitals recommended treatment but I am looking at you and you look good. So what do you want to do. I said I am trusting your decision to delay it. She is on vacation for 3 weeks but her counterpart will se me in 2 weeks and I will do a blood test. It is all set up for me to start but it is on hold.
I got 6 bites on the back of my neck. I went to my pharmacist and he said they are bites. He said if you get fever or don’t scratch and I put after bite on them. I am also taking loratadine because the itching came back. Anyway what go you think about the postponement.

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Hey Jacklyn, If my doctor told me that she’s thinking of delaying treatment because my numbers are good, I’d say, “Yippee Skippee”. I think that’s awesome if you don’t need to start yet.
Having labs every two weeks will be enough to keep tabs on you and alert your doctor to any changes. You might need treatment in the future but for now, personally, I’d feel pretty good about the news. ☺️

So sorry your itching came back! I hope the loratadine works for you. That over-all itching is awful. And the bug bites sure didn’t do you any favors! I wonder if my trick would work for you? I get relief from mosquito bites by applying Bio-Freeze to the bites asap! I suffer from skeeter syndrome, a major reaction to mosquito bites. 🦟. The sites get huge…large egg to half a grapefruit size and itch/burn intensely. The Bio-freeze really works for me. Calms the bites down. They still swell up, even when I apply ice it the intensity is gone. Since I always have Bio-freeze on hand I haven’t tried anything else like Icy Hot. I think it’s the menthol that’s doing the job.

Well, I’m expecting you exhaled a big sigh of relief with your news! So enjoy the next few weeks, foot loose and fancy free. 😄 Thank you for sharing the news with me!

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Hi Jacklyn, Oh, I understand now! I think you’re getting Venectoclax and Vidaza! They weren’t options when I had treatment 6 years ago! Your doctor is right, those two drugs are much different than what you had when you were being treated for breast cancer years ago. V & V are less intensive and much better tolerated.

I’m, sorry that I didn’t realize V&V are now referred to as 7+3 as well. Back when I had my treatment 7+3 was cytarabine and idarubicine and it was a week as an inpatient.

This will be a much different for you than with your earlier treatments for BC. The side effects shouldn’t be so dramatic. I hope that you’ll begin feeling some positive improvements after you start treatment. I felt so horrible before my diagnosis that when I began chemo, within 2 days I was starting to feel better. My chronic fever of 102 that I had for several weeks finally broke too.
As you’ve read in the forum with other members taking these meds, this new regimen for AML used in we older patients, has been a God-send where otherwise treatments were harsh and not tolerated well.
I’m can certainly understand the anxiety of all of this! Do you have family or friends nearby to talk to and help out if you need them?

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Hi Lori. Well I was supposed to start my treatment this week. When I saw my oncologist last Thursday she said I am thinking of delaying your treatment. Your blood counts are good. I know two other hospitals recommended treatment but I am looking at you and you look good. So what do you want to do. I said I am trusting your decision to delay it. She is on vacation for 3 weeks but her counterpart will se me in 2 weeks and I will do a blood test. It is all set up for me to start but it is on hold.
I got 6 bites on the back of my neck. I went to my pharmacist and he said they are bites. He said if you get fever or don’t scratch and I put after bite on them. I am also taking loratadine because the itching came back. Anyway what go you think about the postponement.

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I am a 76 year old male who is now living with Myelodysplastic syndrome, ringed sidero blasts, multilineage dysplasia (MDS-RS-MLD). Lot's of words...
Although at this point, I am classified as “low risk, but the consequences are that I am anemic as well as immunocompromised.
Currently, I am monitored through monthly blood tests by an excellent hands-on hematologist.
Yet, having been very healthy and quite active all of my life, I am finding this to be quite difficult to live with , and to “wait”. Am told that best treatment is stem cell transplant, but due to my age and beeing immunocompromised, risk of infection makes transpant unfeasable.
Same with blood transfusion, i.e. too risky.
If no infection, I can last for a number of years. But over the last year, I have had three events where infections occured, and required antibiotics.
Thus all is well for me, if I can escape serious infections.
Need to take naps, which I find embarassing. 🙂
I realize that all of us seem to be living with subtle differences within the MDS family, but would there be any suggestions as to what I might be able to do to possibly modify the current situation?
I am ready to go on living with how I stand, but am getting preassure from family to get a second opinion.

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My husband who just today hit 83, was diagnosed with the same MDS-RS-MLD as you in 2022. He was very active playing golf three times a week, fishing, dancing and walking with no problems. Due to being so tired just walking from the car that's sitting in the garage into the kitchen, he no longer does anything! He goes once a month to check his levels with a closer eye on hemoglobin. If his blood pressure isn't normal, he doesn't get the procrit that's helped bring his hemoglobin up to 9. Any lower, that's when transfusions start. Three years and I'm still researching MDS or related symptoms. He had to learn so much more because he wss totally in the dark about the acronyms used on his blood results. Has anyone recognized being depressed during the "wait"? Have you noticed progression? Did you have petechiae ? I feel lost on understanding MDS as I did three years ago!

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Hi Jacklyn, Oh, I understand now! I think you’re getting Venectoclax and Vidaza! They weren’t options when I had treatment 6 years ago! Your doctor is right, those two drugs are much different than what you had when you were being treated for breast cancer years ago. V & V are less intensive and much better tolerated.

I’m, sorry that I didn’t realize V&V are now referred to as 7+3 as well. Back when I had my treatment 7+3 was cytarabine and idarubicine and it was a week as an inpatient.

This will be a much different for you than with your earlier treatments for BC. The side effects shouldn’t be so dramatic. I hope that you’ll begin feeling some positive improvements after you start treatment. I felt so horrible before my diagnosis that when I began chemo, within 2 days I was starting to feel better. My chronic fever of 102 that I had for several weeks finally broke too.
As you’ve read in the forum with other members taking these meds, this new regimen for AML used in we older patients, has been a God-send where otherwise treatments were harsh and not tolerated well.
I’m can certainly understand the anxiety of all of this! Do you have family or friends nearby to talk to and help out if you need them?

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Oh Lori. I am so happy you
Know the treatments I am talking about. I know I must confuse you at times. This is why I bring my son with me when I see my oncologist because I am half listening and trying to grasp it all. I do have a very good support system and was very good mentally through breast cancer etc loosing my husband being diagnosed wet itch MDS right after his death. Having a hip
Replacement. All the hospital stays for pneumonia, severe ear infection, abscess in my stomach but that fall changed everything back in November where I fractured my vertebrae’s. I am
Doing better I think it’s just going to take time. Once I start my treatments I will also see how they affect me and what I need to do. Thanks so
Much for being there. My mind is all over the place because it seems one thing after the other. It never stops. I Also have my faith. I believe God is closer to
Us when we are sick.

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You’re absolutely right about having to self-advocate. No one knows your body better than you do and when you sense something isn’t right, keep pushing until you find the answers. The self diagnosing…well, I think we’ve all been there. At least it gives us something to do between appointments. 😁

Having a 2nd opinion can be useful in confirming a diagnosis. It may also help you and your husband feel more confident with your current doctor and treatment plan, or point you into another direction. It sounds like you have a good doctor who’s willing to reach out to colleague for his opinion. I’ve always appreciated that collaborative approach that my doctors have taken for a consensus of opinions.

Please me know what you find out. How often do you have labs for follow-up?

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Usually follow up every 6 months to one year

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Welcome to Connect @afieldcrow…Alison. I love crows so I can’t help but admire your @name! Just now reading a book called The Comfort of Crows; A Backyard Year by Margaret Renkl. ☺️

I’m sorry to hear that you’re not feeling on top of the world right now and see that you’re newly diagnosed with MDS. That’s a blood condition that can affect production of one or more of the blood cell types. You mentioned having low platelets but your neutrophils (WBC) are also low. How are your red blood counts?
Has your doctor talked to you about possible treatments?

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Lori, I just saw your comment about Crow’s 😜. My maiden name is Field and I married a Crow so that made me a FIELDCROW 🤣
Is that a good book? I’ll have to check it out!
I wanted to ask you what questions you would suggest I ask my Dr? Any advice for me about anything?

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Thanks! Yes my hematologist told me that the Single Lineage Dysplasia is mainly from my platelets. But I have never had an issue with my platelets! I’ve always had terrible low WBC results. My RBC are thankfully normal. I’m not complaining. I’m grateful I’m considered low risk. I am concerned. I diagnosed myself with MSD probably over a year ago! My friends told me I’m not supposed to do that but you do have to self-advocate! My hematologist is going to discuss my case with his Dr friend at UVA and is going to get back to me. In the meantime we’ll just keep an eye on my labs. My husband wants me to go to UVA for a second opinion.

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You’re absolutely right about having to self-advocate. No one knows your body better than you do and when you sense something isn’t right, keep pushing until you find the answers. The self diagnosing…well, I think we’ve all been there. At least it gives us something to do between appointments. 😁

Having a 2nd opinion can be useful in confirming a diagnosis. It may also help you and your husband feel more confident with your current doctor and treatment plan, or point you into another direction. It sounds like you have a good doctor who’s willing to reach out to colleague for his opinion. I’ve always appreciated that collaborative approach that my doctors have taken for a consensus of opinions.

Please me know what you find out. How often do you have labs for follow-up?

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