Living with MDS (Myelodyplastic Syndromes)

Posted by momz @momz, Sep 4, 2023

I finally got my answer to what I have and trying to wrap my mind around it.
I am an ovarian cancer survivor of 20 years and have MDS for the last 7
Currently on watch and hate to even say wait!! What is the longest someone has had with no treatments? And what was the reason for treatment when it was needed?

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He is doing very well now. The confusion from the infection is subsiding and the sodium is leveling out but he continues to go several times during the night. But he is able to walk around our block now without his walker. So I hope we are on a steady coarse now. Will continue to limit our interactions outside of family but will mask up and go see family.

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Hello @jrwilli1,

I would like to join Lori, @loribmt, in congratulating you on your husband's progress. How wonderful! That is great that his sodium is leveling out and the confusion from the infection is subsiding.

Enjoy your holiday visits with your family.

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He is doing very well now. The confusion from the infection is subsiding and the sodium is leveling out but he continues to go several times during the night. But he is able to walk around our block now without his walker. So I hope we are on a steady coarse now. Will continue to limit our interactions outside of family but will mask up and go see family.

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Good morning, @jrwilli1 This is really encouraging news about your husband! ☺️ I’m so happy to hear he’s doing much better now! That has to be an enormous relief for both of you. Those daily walks will do wonders for his stamina and to help gain strength! Hah, tell him not to show off too much without that walker, but I know that feeling of freedom when you get to ditch those wheels. Congratulations are in order.
Yep, masking definitely helps and you’re doing all the right things to keep you and your husband safe. You know what you’ve both gone through to get him to this point. ☺️
I have to forgo some larger events where there are a lot of people, but we still get together with family and friends. Masking up is the key. It’s just the way it is and no one in our family or circle of friends balks at the idea of my wearing a mask.
Have a Happy Thanksgiving! And give your husband a High Five from me. 🦃

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His being up so many times yea probably due to old man prostrate but currently on urea sodium packets to help increase his sodium and these cause him to go more. Hopefully won’t have to take these forever. Just 4 x last night. 👏🏻

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He is doing very well now. The confusion from the infection is subsiding and the sodium is leveling out but he continues to go several times during the night. But he is able to walk around our block now without his walker. So I hope we are on a steady coarse now. Will continue to limit our interactions outside of family but will mask up and go see family.

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Brenda, I moved your recent post to your existing discussion about living with MDS (myelodysplastic syndromes). You're asking great questions. I'm tagging members @lorieafoote @smetzing @jrwilli1 @nbadry @rrivory @honeymae who can share their experience with treatments and what tests or symptom changes led to their needing a change in treatment or how long they've been on watch and wait.

I'm sure you've read this already, but just in case, here is info from Mayo Clinic about diagnostic testing and treatment https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/myelodysplastic-syndrome/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20366980

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Thank You so very much for doing that!!!!

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I am curious to know what signs, symptoms, or tests results appear for MDS to require treatment or transplant. Did you feel ill enough to know or did a test result show the change? Also what is the longest someone has lived on watch and wait, years or decades with MDS?
Thank You for sharing Brenda

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Brenda, I moved your recent post to your existing discussion about living with MDS (myelodysplastic syndromes). You're asking great questions. I'm tagging members @lorieafoote @smetzing @jrwilli1 @nbadry @rrivory @honeymae who can share their experience with treatments and what tests or symptom changes led to their needing a change in treatment or how long they've been on watch and wait.

I'm sure you've read this already, but just in case, here is info from Mayo Clinic about diagnostic testing and treatment https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/myelodysplastic-syndrome/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20366980

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His being up so many times yea probably due to old man prostrate but currently on urea sodium packets to help increase his sodium and these cause him to go more. Hopefully won’t have to take these forever. Just 4 x last night. 👏🏻

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What causes the 5-6 times getting up at night?

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Probably an "old man's" prostate... I will be getting an ultrasound in elarly November.

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What causes the 5-6 times getting up at night?

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That is so wonderful, although it takes a lot of courage. But hopefully being close to familly will make it well worthwhile. I kid about the fact that my not abnormal 5-6 get up at nights, are a great "excercise". But being tired as you are, makes it all difficult. Enjoy the day tomorrow.

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Hello @jrwilli1,
I am sorry that your husband's situation is so difficullt. I can only suggest that from my brief time with MDS, it does bring nothing but uncertainty. I was diagnosed one year ago, and must admit feeling pretty discouraged, even depressed, and expecting a relatively quick "exit". I am 76. But over the past few weeks, I simply decided that I was going to live another 10 years. I am too old to get a transplant apparently, but in any event, I will keep living... So I encourage the two of you to hope for the same, and even more! I thus encourage you to follow the medial advice at this time...

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Thank you for your encouragement. Well after him being up 8+ times last night I decided we were still going to drive the 2 1/2 hours to see our grandsons soccer game. Yes I’m worn out and going to sleep now to see what tonight brings. But I have to keep him hoping to do things and keep up his spirits. The grandson didn’t know we were coming and he was excited to see us. 😘

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