In a relationship with someone whose child suffers from BiPolar

Posted by bucketheads @bucketheads, Feb 3 9:35am

I am in a serious relationship and have moved in with someone whose daughter (young adult age) suffers from BiPolar and other Mental challenges. Things have grown progressively worse in past 6 months with Police intervening 3X in a few months along with a few stays in the Psychiatric Ward. My fear is that things will progress even more negatively and my work and and ability to provide for those that depend on me may be compromised if drawn deeper into the Childs issues. I have no experience on how to handle or help with this type of situation. If I move back out into my own place again, will that cause more harm to the Childs Mental stability?

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gerberdaisy19 | @gerberdaisy19 | Feb 3 4:27pm

Oof, you’re in a tough spot.
Did her problems coincide with you moving in? Are you guys simpatico?
I guess just taking a step back and deciding where you see the relationship with your gf going- sounds like you love her so consider maybe what you think she would do if it were your daughter? Idk, sometimes That helps.

Sounds like the daughter needs much better and more thorough, consistent care. Especially considering the police involvement- must be really hard for everyone!
Is she getting psychosis? Did the hospitalizations help at all?

We can’t predict what the future will hold, so try helping her by helping your partner take action.
Daughter needs a good doctor. Thets a fast escalation and worrisome.
Met:you leaving, yeah any big changes or little ones for that matter can really be destabilizing
Nit sure your location but she needs the right meds badly.
Good luck to you, the adolescent years can really mess with bipolar